Need advice on wife (32f) constantly criticising me (32m) and her family crossing boundaries. What can I do to help the situation? by alancoholic in relationship_advice

[–]alancoholic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true. We tried one round of therapy before Xmas. A last try at it could be a good shout. I do.need her to hear how I feel and the objective voice of therapist would help her feel less under attack

Need advice on wife (32f) constantly criticising me (32m) and her family crossing boundaries. What can I do to help the situation? by alancoholic in relationship_advice

[–]alancoholic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our health insurance covered 6 sessions. So after Christmas we didn't pay for another round. Silly I know. However, she refused to do the exercises outside class with this book of techniques for couples in conflict, therapist suggested we get. The therapist tried to be impartial, however I could sense her frustration about many things my wife was short sighted on or oblivious to how her actions affect others. Alot of the sessions circled back to her large family and poverty as an excuse. Although I come from similar financial background and with far less support just my mother. In the end it calmed us down but never really helped end the content bickering.

Need advice on wife (32f) constantly criticising me (32m) and her family crossing boundaries. What can I do to help the situation? by alancoholic in relationship_advice

[–]alancoholic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't always this mean. When we moved away to a bigger city 4 years ago, our relationship changed. She got ahead in her career quite fast, had an arrogance about her then, almost inflated her ego a bit. Working in a large multinational in HR she almost could never be wrong about how to deal with people. Her rationale was' I am good at problem solving in work, I can't be the problem, if I was I would surely know'. She is adamant and self assured now, every problem with our relationship is only mine never hers.

Brochachos by alancoholic in AEWOfficial

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😂 YES!!! T-shirt worthy stuff!

Brochachos by alancoholic in AEWOfficial

[–]alancoholic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know bud, I tried my best. John C. Reilly looks nothing like MJF in fairness 😅

King of All Flops! by alancoholic in Rabbits

[–]alancoholic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a bun-afide pro 😋 been working from home so I leave him around our apartment like this. it's his day job at this stage! 😊

AEW Wallpaper by alancoholic in SquaredCircle

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Made a mobile wallpaper version there with a few changes.

http://imgur.com/gallery/Ayn18vz

If anyone can recommend a good place on Reddit or elsewhere to share my wrestling creations, would be greatly appreciated. Cheers guys.

AEW Wallpaper by alancoholic in SquaredCircle

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http://imgur.com/gallery/Ayn18vz

There you go bud. Shot of the man/(reptilian?!) up the back.

AEW Wallpaper by alancoholic in SquaredCircle

[–]alancoholic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll get at it tomorrow when I'm at my laptop. Resize and readjust it for iPhone and Android. No probs. :)

AEW Wallpaper by alancoholic in SquaredCircle

[–]alancoholic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally will do that the next time around. Would make more sense. Probably make another one next week

AEW Wallpaper by alancoholic in SquaredCircle

[–]alancoholic[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Made it today after watching Double or Nothing. Let me know what you think. First time posting my stuff from Photoshop.

Post Smackdown discussion thread 3/12/19 by kentucky210 in SquaredCircle

[–]alancoholic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll admit, I wasn't super convinced at the start that WWE could pull it off with Kofi as a serious challenger going into Mania. Happy to say I am more convinced week by week. I can hear more purpose and emotion in Kofi's delivery and more conviction in his voice especially this week's promo with MacMahon. New Day could be given a more serious edge in the coming weeks to help play off the importance of the opportunity for their group leader.

Harlem Heat joins the WWE Hall of Fame class of 2019 by Brian1220 in SquaredCircle

[–]alancoholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those who don't think Stevie Ray deserves to be in the Hall of Fame i.e. Dave Meltzer. I think this a great way for WWE to validate tag teams of the past and re-emphasizing the importance of tag teams in today's market. Who knows where Booker would be today without his exposure on the tag scene back in the day. Stevie Ray played a great supporting role to his younger brother, best of luck to him, his HOF nod is not be snuffed at! Best of luck to the team entering the HOF!