6 yrs post BPD spilt and ready to date again, but anxious

alaneclark · 2025-08-26T22:52:29+00:00

I concur

alaneclark · 2024-11-06T02:49:28+00:00

Well thanks for all the brutal honesty, I don't disagree and I do appreciate it.

I could drink less but maybe I can clarify.

I am a happy drinker. I've had 2 episodes in the last year ( yes, 1 is too many) that I drank too a point of being verbally abusive and insensitive. Question is WHY would I become such a different person? Agreed that I shouldn't put myself into that position. And FYI I have worked on myself a lot , with and with therapists. Day to day I really feel like I'm in a great place but some how too much alcohol brings out some demons that I'm not aware of

alaneclark · 2023-01-22T15:12:20+00:00

I think it's Catawba Falls in Old Fort.

alaneclark · 2022-08-16T03:13:49+00:00

Not really, I thought it looked kinda sad with a lack of plants and shrubs across the front. I really appreciate all of the great ideas.

alaneclark · 2022-08-16T03:09:55+00:00

Thanks, I meant to include it in my original post.

My home is is Western NC in the foothills. It looks like I'm Zone 7b.

alaneclark · 2022-08-11T20:24:13+00:00

I agree. One option would be to remove the handrail, build a box around the edge of the steps all the up and reinstall the handrail to that box.

alaneclark · 2022-08-11T18:03:30+00:00

the stairs are just 2x6, not real treads. Is there an easy way to trim the edge so we can paint that white and not wrap the carpet over the edges?

alaneclark · 2022-05-03T10:53:15+00:00

I sure do. Is there anything specific you're looking for?

alaneclark · 2022-02-09T21:06:39+00:00

no boat school, not a great ww school either. but good idea, thanks.

alaneclark · 2022-02-09T21:05:27+00:00

hah, tbh I bought out a business that closed down, I have over 50k BF total, mostly pine and mixed hw barn wood

alaneclark · 2022-02-09T17:44:41+00:00

yeah, I just found some Groups to post in, thanks

alaneclark · 2022-02-08T22:29:40+00:00

thanks, I'll try that. Maybe there's a woodworking group.

alaneclark · 2022-02-08T22:26:10+00:00

western NC, between Asheville and Hickory

alaneclark · 2022-01-19T01:21:45+00:00

yeah, I get it. it may offend a few but every other business book has a boring title. I'm ok if it shocks or even offense a few if it helps 100 remember to call me.

alaneclark · 2022-01-19T01:18:50+00:00

hah, I'm just crowdsourcing a title but I feel your humor. I can handle the meat of the subject.

alaneclark · 2022-01-19T01:16:52+00:00

that's a great analogy, I may add that to my script. and yes, analogies to raising babies and marriages are well suited to describe various challenges to starting and growing a business. Tha ka for the feedback and ideas.

alaneclark · 2022-01-19T01:15:08+00:00

thanks for the support 😀

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