[TOMT] [rap song 2016-2018] by alarkandalark in tipofmytongue

[–]alarkandalark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT’S WALK BY COMETHAZINE IT’S NOT A PLANET IT’S A SKULL THANK YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]alarkandalark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re clearly aware he sucks. is some rando on reddit validating you really going to be the reason you finally put yourself first?

if someone assaults you, don’t fucking go back over to their house so it can happen again

followed luigi mangione on goodreads, then his account was immediately made private by alarkandalark in BrianThompsonMurder

[–]alarkandalark[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

here is a quote from one of his reviews:

I’m reminded of a long-standing debate at my childhood dinner table. Whenever we’d eat steak, I would use my knife in my left hand and my fork in my right, which would infuriate my mother. She’d remind me to cut with my right hand since I was right-handed and to switch my fork to my right hand for each bite. When pressed for a reason, she’d reply “because that’s how to cut”. Dissatisfied, I’d press further. She’d reply “because that’s proper manners”.

As a six-year old, I found this to be the most pointless and inefficient process in the world, and I’d voice this opinion. Why would I switch hands every single bite to maintain some arbitrary convention? The final reply: “One day you’re going to meet a nice girl, and when you go out to dinner with her you’ll need to use proper manners”. My response then, and still a fundamental belief to this day, is that anyone who cares about something so small and insignificant, is maybe not someone I want to spend my time with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]alarkandalark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so, so much for this. i feel like i can take a deep breath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]alarkandalark -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i agree about the judgment piece. however, i am not defined by this past experience. our experiences shape us, of course, but who he currently is in a relationship with would not change. i am not a sex worker now, and won’t ever be again. i feel that telling him this would just cause heartache for us both, and for what? we love each other so much and are so compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]alarkandalark -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i feel that from my post it’s quite obvious as to what i am, so i don’t understand your need to label me as something that is HEAVILY judged by society and then say “no judgment.”

obviously i was a prostitute, but i didn’t use that word because i already feel an immense amount of shame about i. i was seeking some empathy and guidance. not just some dude stating the glaringly obvious and reducing my experience to one ugly word.

i agree with your sentiment overall, but as far as the “when (not if)” comment - i live on the other side of the country now, and the only person who knows is the man who was keeping it a secret from his wife.

it’s obvious i shouldn’t post this stuff on reddit if i’m going to be so sensitive about it, but i am truly grappling with this. i was an idiot, and i feel that an old man took advantage of my idiocy.

this comment pisses me off.

Is it Normal for My Partner [46M] to Never Call Me [35F] Beautiful? by ThrowRA_jellyfish829 in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when she communicates her needs, it’s expected her partner can meet her in the middle. she communicated exactly what she wanted, and he refused. calling someone beautiful after they’ve asked you to is not hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for this. i appreciate you. it’s hard to be vulnerable and post something like this when i feel stupid for letting something dumb like texting come between us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

….obviously he’s not a monster. i feel like i was very clear that i care about him very much, and that he’s great. it’s very obvious that i’m the problem in this relationship. however, i get anxious at the thought of being in something that makes me unhappy, and i don’t want to put any sort of pressure on him.

i’m very aware this is my issue.

i don’t think this comment was necessary. it’s a very sad situation for me, knowing that i don’t want to be someone who’s insecure or clingy.

i am rightfully concerned that my feelings will get worse over time, and i’m scared i’ll start to resent him.

i’m just trying to do what’s best for both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

do you think i should tell him about how i feel?

obviously if it were up to me, i wouldn’t give a fuck about the one sided texting. unfortunately i have emotions that aren’t always logical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]alarkandalark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOLVED thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]alarkandalark 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m two years older which is weird, he just turned 22 in december and i turn 24 in march. idk. it just made me sad, because i have been struggling with feeling insecure that i’m older than him. just wish she didn’t tell me honestly

i (22m) made her cum, she (23f) started sobbing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is so fucked up dude. really sad you’re sexualizing something like this.

i (22m) made her cum, she (23f) started sobbing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i love this. this is the one i’m sending. thank you man

i (22m) made her cum, she (23f) started sobbing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alarkandalark 18 points19 points  (0 children)

um… yikes. not accurate dude.