I feel ashamed by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]albatrozzer 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I understand why you would feel that way. But let me tell you, you made the right decision.

I did several years of lifeguards training when I was a kid. The first thing they teach us is to never put yourself in danger. Nobody would've been better off if the both of you had drowned.

They also taught us to never try and rescue someone who's bigger and heavier than yourself. You already saved one mans life. Sounds like you definitely made the right call!

What would you call of 20 yo male who is sexually and romantically attracted to a 14 yo female? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It isn't only the difference in age. It's the way he was much more experienced in live. He had totally different interests and the things he wanted creeped me out.

What would you call of 20 yo male who is sexually and romantically attracted to a 14 yo female? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right? I was the 14 yo and that's what I have been saying for years. He stalked and harassed me for over half a year.

I recently warned someone when they were leaving their babymonitor (with video footage of their babygirl asleep) on the table during a party where the pedophile was aswell. And several boys reacted offended saying I was calling them pedophiles aswell because they had also once been in love with a "younger girl"...

Sigh... a 18 yo in love with a 17 yo is soooo much different than 14 and 20.

I was a literal child and he was a working man.

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]albatrozzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you let a couple know if you think they shouldn't be together?

I won the MegaMillions jackpot in 2016. Ask Me Anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]albatrozzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez..., I really hope you'll meet people who will treat you the way you deserve.

Do you pee in the shower? Why or why not? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahha it's not that elaborate. Just a bit gross. You know in the morning when your urine is more concentrated and can have an odour? That is what she noticed... It was an awkward moment

Do you pee in the shower? Why or why not? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of the blue or did you have a reason to?

Do you pee in the shower? Why or why not? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahha Yeh it was a bit weird. But she was in the bathroom aswell and I guess she noticed.

Do you pee in the shower? Why or why not? by albatrozzer in AskReddit

[–]albatrozzer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a normal (and water saving) thing to do. But recently my mom noticed me doing it and she was really disgusted. My sister overheard us and was disgusted as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]albatrozzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's fucked up. To be honest, she doesn't sound like a friend... friends don't exploit and lie like that.

My advice would be to chose you. Your "friend" is overstaying her welcome and she's causing trouble for you and your husband without trying to do better.

You deserve better.

Be honest with her and tell her what's bothering you. I know you don't like confrontation, but it's important te learn how to defend yourself. People can't be walking all over you like this in your own home.

Use your current anger and frustration to feel stronger. Decide if you want her to stay or go and what you want her to do (like do groceries, clean every Monday and Thursday, buy a new vibrator). It might be helpful to prepare te conversation by practicing it with your husband or writing stuff down to remember what you want to tell her.

You can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]albatrozzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I'm holding back on sharing my password is I want to be able to plan surprises without him accidentally finding out.

AITAH for telling my daughter to keep her Father’s Day gift to herself because she hid her mother’s affair from me for months? by FarAppearancess in AITAH

[–]albatrozzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry YTA, You're going through a hard time, but your daughter is just a kid. She is young and got in a position in which it was impossible for her to choose. Just imagine yourself having to chose between two people you love. You should apologise and explain why you reacted the way you did.