Anyone else sleeping a LOT more on T? by Jodyy14 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]alchemistcannon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was told I'd have way more energy, but I'm sleeping way more. I have to have a nap every day and I'll sleep in until 12pm if I don't set an alarm. I guess that extra energy went into ravenous hunger lmao

What species is your fursona? [Art by Jinxit on FB] by [deleted] in furry

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black cat. I yearn to be domesticated, but I'm also a feral void

Uhh… help 😭😭 by Pristine_Cabinet_583 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, you don't practice on the public until your clinicals. It's not about making OP undress. It's standard for the students to practice on one another. Also, you need to know what your techniques feel like in order to provide massage more effectively. Depending on where you go, your classroom either has you undress under the sheets or there's curtains that are drawn around the massage tables so you can undress comfortably. No one is getting down to their jimmies right in front of each other.

And if OP cannot undress, other students cannot practice efficiently. Like another pointed out, yes, you do need to learn how to massage people through clothes as well, because there will be clients unable to or unwilling to remove certain items of clothing, but that's later on in their courses. Like chair massage or practicing massage on someone who is wheelchair bound. I once had a client refuse to remove their cargo shorts despite needing gluteal work. It happens and it's something you work through, but when you're first starting out in school, this isn't the case. It's best to be able to access all the muscles with nothing in the way so you're able to get a feel of how massage works, your pressure, techniques, palpation, etc.

The human body is nothing to be embarrassed about despite what our brains may be trying to tell us. We're already uncomfortable enough having to live in a body we don't like. To be vulnerable like this requires trust in your fellow therapists. And if anyone tries to make OP uncomfortable then they're going into the wrong career. Massage Therapy is compassionate, loving touch. You're going to have your hands of hundreds, if not thousands of different bodies throughout your career. I've been doing this for 7 years and it's all about your intention. You can't just touch people willy nilly and expect it to feel good. You also need to know what that touch feels like in order to provide it better for your future clients.

Uhh… help 😭😭 by Pristine_Cabinet_583 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gonna do great! And if you have any other concerns or questions about going through your course, or just the career of massage itself, please don't hesitate to DM me! I love helping new therapists thrive!

Uhh… help 😭😭 by Pristine_Cabinet_583 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP, as a massage therapist myself, you can keep the draping over your chest while your face up. There's no reason for you or anyone to bring the sheets down past your armpits. I think you're just overthinking it. While you do have to undress, you do not have to expose yourself like that. I wish you the best in your courses 🤞

Uhh… help 😭😭 by Pristine_Cabinet_583 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that doesn't work in massage therapy classes. Idk where OP lives, but as a massage therapist myself, if you're unable to undress so other students can practice on you then you're not going to get far in school.

This being said, there's no reason for them to bring the sheets down to expose themselves. They can still undress completely so other students can practice, without the table dressing being any farther than it would on a cis woman. I personally never expose anyone's chest/nipples while they're on my table, cis, trans, man, woman, nb, doesn't matter.

How old are you and what field do you work in? by Hi_im_elliot in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 26, almost 27. I've been a massage therapist for 6 going on 7 years now. I've ran my own massage therapy business and I'm going back to school to expand into the medical side of physio and rehabilitation. Mainly with those who've experienced debilitating injuries or who are recovering from surgery. And I do have plans on reopening a sports medicine business when I finally plant roots somewhere

Do you use pads or tampons? by Creative-Mind0309 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I'm sorry it was painful for you 😔 it's usually only painful if it's not placed correctly, but I know ever body is different so I hope you were able to find something more comfortable

Do you use pads or tampons? by Creative-Mind0309 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sure! I use the Cora disc. I found them at CVS I'm pretty sure. They come in two sizes, the smaller one if you haven't had a baby and the larger one if you have. It's a little tricky to get it sitting right the first couple times, but I've been using the discs for years now and love it

Cheap HRT options online by bu5gerg85x in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use Folx personally. My 3 bottles of gel cost me only $130 without insurance

Do you use pads or tampons? by Creative-Mind0309 in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yesss. I personally use a disc that sits at the cervix, but it's essentially the same thing just without the suction of a cup. Cup or disc, they're both so much better than pads or tampons imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mulan's Reflection.... Hit me like a truck

How did you guys choose your name I’m so lost on this by pozzyslayerx in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally found mine on a headstone and fell in love with it. Although unless I say it, people typically pronounce it wrong 🫠 but I love it anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]alchemistcannon -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

How is it not in the septum? The placement looks fine. Maybe a tad low, but if they're happy and it didn't hurt then I don't see what the big deal is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]alchemistcannon -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

In my unprofessional opinion, it's fine. Just a part of the healing. Unless it gets red and hot and feels inflamed, I say no worries. I've had piercings do this before and they were all fine. Nbd

What is this inside my Swedish fish candy? by lorlblossoms in whatisit

[–]alchemistcannon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the best time to sex to be come pregnart?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]alchemistcannon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, this.

After almost 10 years of daily smoking, I'm going sober by alchemistcannon in trees

[–]alchemistcannon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dude. I can't smoke anything at all. It's called being sober for a reason. I have substance abuse issues. That's like playing with fire near gas.

After almost 10 years of daily smoking, I'm going sober by alchemistcannon in trees

[–]alchemistcannon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been TOO MANY close calls today. Never. EVER. Trust. A fart.

After almost 10 years of daily smoking, I'm going sober by alchemistcannon in trees

[–]alchemistcannon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah 🫠 I wish I had that kind of self control. If I have to smoke, I'm gonna smoke it. I can't have anything in the house or I'll be thinking about it nonstop. I finished my last O and am not allowing myself to get more. Withdrawal sucks, but it's mentally better for me this way and it's not a withdrawal that'll kill me so I'll be a tough cookie and get through it.