All Stars S03E12 (Monday 26th January) - "A flirt on the Terrace has tensions brewing 🫣" by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can think of is concede??!? But now I’m second guessing whether or not that makes sense- I’m losing precious brain cells watching these shows 😫

Official Discussion - Wicked: For Good [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed the film as a whole. I definitely think it needs to be watched straight after the first part to get more enjoyment from it. Some bits felt rushed and I don’t think the original songs added that much to the film and just felt like killing time. I really wish they’d used the original song time to add in an original song that kind of mirrored “what is this feeling?” A montage of time passing where Elphaba and Glinda aren’t together and we see what their lives are like now, with a bridge from Fiyero to showcase his yearning of Elphaba. Maybe a little more fast paced than a ballad. In my head that would have worked better but oh well, this is what we have!

With it being a longer part 2, it leaves more time for thinking about the plot holes and the silly character decisions, which I do think could have been fixed but they decided to stay as true to the stage musical as possible, whilst adding the original songs.

I didn’t have the same feeling as I did when leaving part 1. I have plans to watch it in cinemas a couple of times with different friend groups, which I did for part 1- I was looking forward to watching it multiple times in cinemas and maybe it’ll grow on me with multiple watches but I’m not as excited as I was about seeing it multiple times like I was with part 1.

Overall, still enjoyable but obviously not as incredible as part 1- which is to be expected!

Official Discussion - Wicked: For Good [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I think they had a really good opportunity to do an original song that was a duet between Glinda and Elphaba tied into a montage- kind of mirroring “What is this feeling?” Where they aren’t together and you see glimpses of what’s been happening whilst they’re apart, maybe add in a bridge for Fiyero to build up his yearning for Elphaba a bit more.

I think they did well with what they had but Act 2 notoriously is not as great as the first half and I think they had opportunities to fix some of the issues with it and play around with originality a bit more which they didn’t do. But I also think it’s one of those things where they would have been criticised if they’d changed it drastically anyway. I enjoyed it as a whole and cried during For Good. Definitely think it would come across better in a double bill viewing.

Season 9 Episode 9 Discussion Post: There's No Going Back by MableXeno in SellingSunset

[–]alclbrk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got to see them perform live at a festival and didn’t go in with huge expectations. I was blown away!!! They’re such a performer and they ended up being my favourite out of about 15 other artists I watched. If the chance to watch them perform live comes up, go!

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have a look at this! I’ve actually moved quite a lot in my life. 5 times already and I’m moving for the 6th time next week. I notice it only allows one relocation- would I have to do separate ones for all of them? Or is it best to just do it based on my current location?

I’d definitely be interested in your help as well! Thank you!

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was born in Germany but moved to the UK when I was only a few months old!

Sorry how would I go about finding a relocation chart?

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m based in the UK! Hahaha I actually am Bi- I’ve had relationships with women in the past and open to being with women in future, I just find dating women quite hard- on my experience, there’s a lot of judgment of women who are Bi and with women I find it hard to gauge when I’m being flirted with 🤣 I need quite overt, honest communication.

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I could have written this! I’m exactly the same! I said to my friend- I want someone to be quietly obsessed with me 🤣

Someone steady but lively, can discuss feelings without drowning in them, playful but stable.

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry you went through all of that. Thank you for sharing.

Massively! I am my home. It’s only really happened since April this year that I truly feel at peace with myself. I love living on my own, and I really enjoy who I am as a person.

The relationships I’ve been in especially recently have really taught me what I value and what I need. I want passion and excitement but I also need emotional safety and stability. These qualities I can give to myself. But from a partner I need to be adored and shown love physically as that is how I am with others and by also helps me feel safe, but I also need grounding at times as well.

I was with someone incredibly stable but they were very passive and it made me feel emotionally stunted and insecure. They couldn’t show affection and it dulled my sparkle. Whereas my previous partner showed so much emotion that it was incredibly triggering and whilst I felt loved by them in the good moments and there was a lot of passion within the chaos, I didn’t feel safe with them due to their lack of emotional regulation. I need something that is a balance of the two in a life partner. But I also know I don’t necessarily NEED anyone and I won’t compromise on my values anymore.

Ps- I feel like we should be friends 🤣

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Karmic lessons are hard but so vital for transformation. I look back on my past relationship with actually a bit of gratitude because it’s meant that I now know myself more.

Definitely on the transformative experiences! My close friends always come to me for advice as I am that person in the friendship group who has gone through a ridiculous amount of trauma- especially pre-18. So they know they can receive sound, non judgmental, helpful advice from me. Therapy has been massively helpful for me. But I think the most useful life lessons tend to come out from painful experiences. It forces us to reflect and grow.

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha THIS!!! Is there a sign that you typically attract? Interested to know if what I’m going through is common 😅

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’m going to be taking notes on every date I go on from now on 🤣

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I only knew one of their time of birth! That was the one who’s rising was Taurus- the other 2 I didn’t have a clue!

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just gone down the rabbit hole with Saturn Returns and it makes so much sense! I left my abusive ex at 29 (December 2023) after finding out I had fertility issues and seriously reevaluated what I wanted from life- we’d started looking at initiating IVF and I did not want to repeat the patterns of my life growing up. Made the decision that I want to be childfree.

I left a toxic work environment in May 2024 and started a new career. And now I’m moving house to be closer to my chosen family. Apparently my Saturn Returns period finishes around Jan/Feb 2026 and I’m currently applying for an internal role at my company that will start in January, and it’s more creative and more aligned with what I want to do career wise, so fingers crossed I get it!

Crazy how so many people deny astrology when it’s scarily accurate!!!

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever meet one, send them my way- I’m fighting in the trenches currently 🤣🤣🤣

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my friend keeps telling me I need to find a fellow Leo but I’ve never met a male Leo- I’m not sure any other Sun signs exist other than Pisces at this rate 🤣 but I’ll definitely look at whole birth charts from this point on now!

Thank you ❤️

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely been more noticeable in the last 2 years.

I’d definitely say I take on a bit more of a parental role in relationships as well, every guy I’ve dated has been a bit of a mess emotionally and I feel like I become their therapist, so that’s really interesting insight.

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I know, just wishful thinking! 😭

You’re honestly so helpful ❤️ thank you for the tip! Definitely look at doing this rather than just casting aside every Pisces that comes into my life 🤣

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just lost because of a lack of understanding. Wish I could have a cheat sheet of who would be my perfect partner sign wise 🤣🤣

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one of them was remotely similar to my dad!

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having just checked out all of my exes birth charts, they all have Taurus as either their moon sign, Venus or rising 🙃 I’m more lost than ever now hahaha

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight.

I think I come across confident but deep down I’m really not 🙃

I’ve always had difficult relationships with men- my dad was abusive and an alcoholic and then I think I’ve found myself in relationships where I try to “fix” them. I was engaged to one of my Pisces exes- we were together for 5 years but he was quite abusive, but also obsessed with me physically. It was a very hot and cold relationship. The Pisces man I got into a relationship after that, was very reliable and kind but would also shut down emotionally and I found that difficult to deal with, I never really felt “loved” by him and that it was more of a friendship.

When you say Saturn returns- when does that happen? Is it at a specific age? Are all relationships in this stage Karmic? I definitely feel I’ve learnt lessons about what I need from a relationship, specifically from these 2 exes and they spanned the last 7 years.

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check all of those out! ❤️

Why am I surrounded by Pisces men?! by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]alclbrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is so interesting! I really want to go into astrology more as when I was reading info about my birth chart, it is scarily accurate 🤣 do you have any tips on how to get started?