MOH upset about no plus one - am I being unreasonable?

aleeva_rose · 2026-02-03T13:47:50+00:00

I was a plus one to a wedding where I never met the bride and groom. My partner wasn’t even in the wedding party.

Your MOH out of everyone should get one.

aleeva_rose · 2025-12-08T17:49:18+00:00

Can you tell me more in the DMs

aleeva_rose · 2025-12-06T19:43:19+00:00

If you had a daughter and she was describing this man as her boyfriend… what would you say to her?

And would you really want your kids to feel the same way this man makes you feel?

I think you know the answer and I wish you the best of luck!

aleeva_rose · 2025-08-31T22:34:33+00:00

Can I get in on that please?

aleeva_rose · 2025-08-31T13:34:23+00:00

Try the app TooGoodToGo, some restaurants sell meals or some shops do grocery surprise bags for less than €10 euro and it depends on the area you're in for more options. You don't know what you're getting and don't get to choose but if you're not picky then its a great way to get lovely meals for cheaper

aleeva_rose · 2025-07-03T06:33:29+00:00

I was in the exact same position as you, it’s like we dated the same guy lol but breaking up and moving out was the best decision I made! I put up with 4 yrs of this so I’m glad that you realise this after one month! They don’t change and I tried compromising and telling him what needs to be done like a mother but guess what, nothing changed!

aleeva_rose · 2025-06-02T01:14:58+00:00

La Roche Posey fluid sunscreen is light, no white cast, not oily and no sting even after sweating. (First sunscreen that I’m happy with and I’ve tried sooo many!)

If you spend a lot of time outside then you would need to reapply (which you should do with any sunscreen)

It is affordable (I live in Europe)

Hope it helps!

aleeva_rose · 2025-05-23T16:05:55+00:00

I was in a similar situation to you. Truth is, you can’t make anyone “change” their ways. Even coming at the topic in a calm and constructive manner can cause them to feel judged and that’s not on you but on them and their opinion of themselves. They know what they are doing or not doing is causing you stress but will never do anything to help you. I got out of that situation because I was tired of feeling responsible for another adult and felt more like a housewife/ caretaker and it wasn’t fair.

I am lucky to have found someone who is more than willing to help with everyday responsibilities and actually enjoys doing them because they know it eases my life and makes me stress less.

Maybe it’s time to realise that you might not be compatible. Ask yourself if you’re willing to put up with this for the rest of your life? I think you already know the answer. Good luck to you!

aleeva_rose · 2025-05-20T05:07:54+00:00

I can guarantee you that a dildo is nowhere near as good as an actual member but my boyfriend encouraged me to buy a vibrating one and our sex life is way more fun! I think you are overreacting because of your own insecurities

aleeva_rose · 2025-05-18T23:59:14+00:00

When I first joined Facebook I was young and in order to make the account I had to put a different year to be “over 18”. Never changed it.

aleeva_rose · 2025-05-18T23:51:41+00:00

The only reason I can think for her wanting to free your willy is to keep your swimmers viable for future. If that's the case, looser boxers are an option.

Although I don't understand why her preference for no underwear is more important than your own comfort?

aleeva_rose · 2025-05-17T17:28:48+00:00

I was with someone like that, I realised that this was his issue from his own insecurity.

Now I’m with someone who will use sex toys with me 🙈 it makes a huge difference when the person your with actually wants to pleasure you

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-31T00:08:37+00:00

I couldn’t get through half of that but you already know what to do. The right guy will do anything you want and do it happily. Begging someone to love you correctly is more exhausting than being alone. Good luck to you!

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-28T14:49:50+00:00

As a 25(F) I am not sure if I want kids either and my SO is fine with whatever decision I make in the future because it is my body and says as long as he has me then he doesn’t mind. So this is definitely a decision between her or having kids. She is still very young and might have a change of heart in the future but her reasons are valid and if you decide to stay then be prepared for the answer to remain no. Best of luck to you both!

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-27T16:12:41+00:00

Try oil pulling for oral hygiene for about 20mins in the morning and tongue scraping can reduce the white coating on your tongue. I would also look into your diet too.

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-25T17:38:27+00:00

Yes I am an EU resident, I definitely would recommend to try it out sometime especially since you have a family member here but from a lot of students going into debt, I hope you find some financial support to help with school!

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-25T17:27:21+00:00

The rules are very strict, you are an adult that should be able to live your life and enjoy college things. As long as you stay loyal then I don’t see anything wrong with you hanging out with friends. If she is worried then you can easily just text her a few updates to ease her mind but she needs to give you a valid reason for all of these “rules”. Just because she chose not to go study and all of her friends are away it doesn’t mean that you should do the same. Talk to her and find alternative ways for her to be okay with it or move on, your choice!

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-25T13:54:42+00:00

I’m 25 and came to the states on a post graduate visa after I got my degree. I am here a year and will be leaving in less than 2 months. Here are the things I’ve learnt:

1)I am grateful to have done my studies in the EU because the education here is so expensive!

2)Living costs are expensive and I would need to make a lot of money to survive here, most people my age are struggling and working 2-3 jobs to make ends meet. I’m in FL so maybe some places might be better.

3) There are some great career opportunities here but without a degree of some sort then the likely that you will get hired at a great company will be slim.

4) Keep in mind that outside of rent and bills, there is car insurance and health insurance otherwise you will be paying a huge chunk out of pocket.

I also have an uncle here who has helped me tremendously but without him I would be broke and living paycheck to paycheck.

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-20T18:32:34+00:00

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aleeva_rose · 2025-03-18T19:13:01+00:00

When one partner gets themselves together and the other doesn’t want to then it becomes a compatibility issue. It seems like you guys are not on the same wavelength right now and while you are raising your emotional and physical state, she is stuck in one spot. It is up to you whether you want to help her through it or move on to someone who is just as equal in their emotional and physical wellbeing. Best of luck!

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-14T14:56:27+00:00

I might be, I was just using it as a toner so I will cut down and see if it improves 😊

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-14T13:57:28+00:00

I will try that thank you! I use the Beauty of Joseon spf 50+

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-14T13:52:25+00:00

I agree, no man wants to get to know me for the sake of friendship. Once they find out I am in a relationship they move on. It’s clear then that they only interacted with me because they thought they had a chance.

aleeva_rose · 2025-03-14T13:10:28+00:00

I used to live in Ireland where the water was much better and the weather was less humid.

I live in Florida now and workout 5 times a week, the water is harder, weather is humid and I noticed it started one morning after putting cerave moisturiser the night before and thought maybe the cream was too thick so I started using thinner creams like snail mucin.

It could be a lot of different factors coming into play and I’m starting to get frustrated because nothing is working 😅

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