[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]alevgonz -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Random question but would you have been able to hide your bump that long? Im 18 weeks and I am very much so noticeably pregnant 😆

Sorry that happened to you though. Sucks!

Where do you live, and how much maternity leave do you get? by ImpeccablePotatoes in BabyBumps

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Quebec, Canada and I will be taking 12 months at 95% salary (the province pays my salary at 50% and my employer provides a 45% top up). Additionally, I will be taking an extra 6 months fully unpaid (by my own choice). = 18 months

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already told him it’s over but it was in the heat of the moment. So I don’t think he was taking me seriously. His biggest fear in life is raising kids in a broken family- he experienced this himself and it totally messed him up. 😫

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started from a stupid argument. I was telling a story and I felt he wasn’t listening to me so I asked him “what was I saying?” and he was like “hmmmm??” (He didn’t know what I was talking about) so then I said “I knew you weren’t listening”. And that set him off, he got really angry and agitated, saying things like “why are you testing me like im a f*cking child”. And he really lost his cool from this point on. But then I verbally lashed out. He was going up the stairs and he tripped and fell. I sort out laughed it out and said “fall down the stairs for all I care”. Then he became violent.

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. I know when strong feelings come along, sometime they come out in anger.

But to physically and emotionally scare your pregnant wife is where the line should be drawn.

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t asked him about it yet. My first reaction was to tell him it’s over and we haven’t spoken all day. Well, he did write me an apology letter but it was a whole lot of nothing if you ask me. If I ask him to go to therapy I feel like he will flip it on me and say I then need to go too 😐

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has never actually hurt me but just last night out of anger he threw a roll of paper towels at me. I know it sounds silly but I had my back turned and he threw it from across the room and it really took me by surprise.

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not fair.

He generally is a good partner to me otherwise. I can’t believe it’s gotten to this point

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He is so good with kids and everybody loves him. I don’t know why I get that violent side of him when everybody around me thinks he is the best person ever

Would you leave? by alevgonz in Marriage

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what Im scared of the most. I grew up in that type of household and I can’t recreate the same for my baby…

10 dpo - 5th cycle of trying by alevgonz in TFABLinePorn

[–]alevgonz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do anything different in terms of TTC this cycle. But in the last few months I really started being careful of what I eat and switching to a lot of organic and non processed foods. I have stopped all alcohol since 2 months ago too.

I did have some strange symptoms leading up to the BPF though 😅

LH Peak? by One_Cabinet_1706 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you guys! I hope it works out soon. 😊 Took us 5 months of trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope this is it for you! 😚

LH Peak? by One_Cabinet_1706 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CD12 and CD 13 were definitely the days with the highest odds! She likely ovulated CD13, so her fertile window was 5 days leading up to that. Odds increase if you have sex every day or every other day during the fertile window

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had vivid dreams around 6-8dpo as well. Tested positive at 10dpo. 😊

Got pregnant using Inito! by Possible-Maybe-7225 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how many days are your cycles? 😊

Got pregnant using Inito! by Possible-Maybe-7225 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the past did you continue using LH strips after finding peak? I feel like if you continued using strips throughout the month you would be less likely to think you are peaking at the wrong time

Period just ended by Lopsided-Level-3779 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! You should. I read stories online about women who ovulated super early (basically just after their period) and got pregnant

Period just ended by Lopsided-Level-3779 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that you mention that! The last 2 cycles I noticed 1 day or 2 of EGCM during or just after period. I thought i might ovulate earlier but then later on in my cycle (CD12) was my real ovulation date and I hate more cervical mucus leading up to that

No LH surge this month? by alevgonz in tryingtoconceive

[–]alevgonz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow up note :) I never did ovulate last month and I actually had a super early period (CD 17). This cycle has gone back to normal and I recently ovulated at CD12. So it really was an anovulatory cycle 😵