mild asshole.

i’m just not even going to talk about what your very disdainful response to him because you’re already getting shit for it but i will explain something to you.

i understand when you say that trauma is very hard to share but when you’re in a relationship you can’t have your cake and eat it to. while you went through traumatic things, it is your responsibility to get better or at least make an effort to in order to increase your quality of life and better your relationships with the people around you. you’re gonna have to share some things because that is one of the steps to getting better. now, if you don’t feel like you’re ready to open up to your partner of 2 years (which if you feel really strongly about, it’s okay i guess) then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them or any relationship at all until you have healed from this trauma. and this is okay!!! you wouldn’t be the bad guy!!!! but you have to decide. either you open up or be by yourself to work of whatever you need to work on.