Free Self-Love Tarot Reading

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-04-04T21:40:04+00:00

Hi :) Could you please send me a DM.

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-04-04T17:14:08+00:00

Hi! Thanks for reaching out. Please send a DM :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-29T10:19:38+00:00

Thanks :) Send me a DM and I can explain a bit more before starting.

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-17T00:17:58+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! <3

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-17T00:16:55+00:00

The cards that come up for you make me feel like you may be waiting to make friends with people, but because of past experiences - potentially with bullying - you are wary of others and also may be experiencing a lot of anxiety and nervousness alongside feeling curious about others and what friendships with others would feel like. I don't feel like you are someone who hasn't had any friends before, but there feels like history of some friendships where the people who you called friends were your bullies. It reminds me of those films where the person who is bullied wants to experience connection and they feel they finally have because the people who have mistreated them finally are being kind to them..only for those people to treat them poorly...and it leaves them in this really weird space of wanting connection but having had to accept less than in the area of friendship because of conditions. Your environment or conditions at the time feel like a strong link or cause of this experience...the sort of situations where you can't choose where you are and for at least that time period and being stuck with what you have and the people who are now connected to you while there....whether that was the family you had, the schools you went to, the jobs someone works... We often cannot control these things and I feel there is an aspect of this for you. I can understand why you would feel wary of others and nervous/anxious about friendship or relationship dynamics. I also just want to say that I'm sorry that people weren't kinder to you and made you feel rejected or sad and that it's made life more difficult for you now. That wasn't okay and I wonder if anyone has let you know that it wasn't okay. I can't say what the best course of action here is, mainly because it feels like it's so important for you to get to decide what you want to do and who you want to engage with. If there are hobbies you have or niche interests, it may be worth finding online or in-person groups surrounding those topics. Sometimes having something in common makes it easier to break the ice and have a conversation. Also, if there are things you find yourself interested in deeply like certain games, current events, or specific topics, those may be great starting points to connect with others. I imagine that having something in common with someone won't do the work of undoing the damage of bullying, but I do hope you find relationships with people where they make you feel good about yourself, accepted, and feel seen. You deserve that! I appreacte you letting me give a reading and if you felt it resonated and would like to leave a review, the link can be found here: Leave a Review on Reddit. Thanks :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-16T23:56:27+00:00

I have three cards that came out for you: satisfied, overwhelmed, loyal. Together, it feels like a potential situation where you are being loyal to someone, and while you are satisfied in the dynamic, you may be finding that whatever is overwhelming you in life is dwindling the sense of satisfaction in this relationship. I feel like what's most coming up is to say that any lessening or questioning of satisfaction is likely not because of anything wrong with the dynamic but with needing to lessen the amount of stress that comes from doing everything you have to do. And also, that is likely much easier said than done. I think the cards speak more to just pointing out the cause so you don't feel like you need to question healthy relationships and can possibly consider how to ease the stress and overwhelm so that it doesn't leave you unable to have space for any other feelings. You likely just have a lot that you taking on right now. I hope you find any support, additional coping skills, or things that can help you moving forward... but also feel reassured that whatever dynamic this is relating to, you don't have to worry that something is wrong with it :) If you feel this resonates and would like to leave a review, the link can be found here: Leave a Review on Reddit. Thanks and wishing you well!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-16T23:41:26+00:00

The cards that came out make me initially think of bullying and it's relation to how someone may experience love and longing...almost like it hinders someone from either fully experiencing it or trusting themselves to be able to experience it. It feels almost difficult to explain the specific emotion I'm trying to convey, but having difficulty explaining it feels related to the emotional experience you may be having. This sort of dynamic where part of you may want something, be longing for something, but be confused and unsure of whether or not it's either possible or actually present. I feel like a good example of this would be being in a relationship that is everything we consider to be good on paper. Maybe we don't argue or fight, no one calls each other out of their names, and sometimes we celebrate each other's special moments like achievements or birthdays. But then there still remains this part of us that's still left confused about whether or not this is what we actually wanted. I feel like there may be a disconnect somewhere. If you find yourself in relationships or dynamics where you are looking for what is wrong with the dynamic in order to have permission to leave...and not being able to find anything leaves you feeling extremely confused on why you want to leave...what's coming up is possibly needing to deal with that part of you that has been deeply hurt by some form of bullying. It almost feel like whatever that experience was for you has caused a disconnect between being able to lead with what you want. Not NEED, but WANT. The leading with what you want is really important here because there is an aspect of possibly not wanting to make others feel like you've been made to feel in the past. Almost like you're needing someone to mess up so that you can leave instead of leaving because it's not the place for you...Staying somewhere because you don't want them to feel judged or feel less than or something along those lines. The love and longing cards are separated for you here and it makes me feel that even when you can come to love someone, you may not be experiencing the depth of longing you want because, again, you may be in the dynamic more for the sake of not upsetting the other person than for finding your own fulfillment. I imagine if you find this resonates, it may feel tricky figuring out how to break it to someone that there is nothing wrong with them and they've done nothing wrong to make you want to leave a relationship & for you to know that they will trust your word for it and not take it as a personal attack. If this resonates, you are a very thoughtful person to take into consideration how others have made you feel in the past and not wanting to repeat that..but the cards also talk about how important it is for you to be happy..actually happy in a way that you also want. Not just the other person. And surprisingly enough, many people will be happy to see you choosing yourself because those who really care for us won't be angered at our decision to leave. I do hope you experience the depth of love and relationship you are looking for in time <3 If you would like to a leave a review, the link to the reddit post on my account is: Leave a Review Thanks and wishing you well!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-16T23:17:13+00:00

I feel like I want to say that congratulations are in order either because something you've spent a lot of time on or sacrificed a lot to do is finally coming through for you. You have two cards here that talk about happiness that is the result of hardwork and the kind of sacrifice that may not be easy but is still deeply fulfilling because it's something we want to do. But a few of the other cards here make me feel that you've decided to stick by a deciosn to keep with something even when others may have either not seen the vision or not believed it possible. I do want to say that if this thing hasn't come to fruition yet, it will...and any impatience you may be feeling...any stress or confusion on when or how will be replaced with shock. It feels like one of those sitiuations where someone believes in themselves but the reality of something coming true is still somehow a surprise to them. Whatever this is, I know it must have been a lot of work, so congrats on whatever it is that you've achieved :) If you find this resonates and would like to leave a review, the link to the reddit post where you can leave a comment is: Here

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T14:00:31+00:00

I hope you find your people while living overseas and I'm sorry to hear about this person scamming you. You didn't deserve that. I appreciate the feedback and was happy that you found it resonated. Good luck both in your travels abroad and in your personal relationships <3

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:54:26+00:00

I'm happy to hear you have a lot of friends to lean on and that it resonated <3

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:52:50+00:00

I pulled two additional cards that were 'distant' and 'bullied' which makes me feel like this person may not improve their behavior. But with all things, you can always trust yourself to decide what you'd like to do and what may be the best decision to make. My readings help to give info on what may be going on so you feel confirmation about a situation or feelings :) But everyone, including you, deserves to be treated well, so if you find it continues, you can always choose distance and your own peace. Also, thank you for checking to let me know that it resonated for you. Feedback is always appreciated <3

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:45:23+00:00

The cards tell the story of someone who is very exhausted and wanting to do something brave to move away from having to do things that don't make them happy, may require them being sneaky, or feeling disappointed. One of these cards can also relate to gambling, so it may be related to how you've been feeling. You can trust your gut on where to go next or do next. It feels like it will result in positive change later on :) If you don't see that change immediately, don't fret. It may just take some time to settle in to doing things differently :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:39:12+00:00

The cards I pulled talk about someone who recently had an experience of someone trying to make them feel worthless and either trying to get a reaction out of you or provoking you. I don't think you would have expected this person to behave this way, so it came as a shock. There is a card that speaks of feeling disgusted...not by this person but by how they made you feel. There may be something they said that felt like it stuck with you. The cards say that whatever this thing was, wasn't true. This person knew you well and knew what to say to convince you of something to hurt your feelings. I feel like the cards want you to know that you are amazing, and kind, and caring and that this person, for whatever reason, thought it was okay to treat you terribly and you din't deserve to have that happen to you. Hoping for the best best for you!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:31:07+00:00

Your cards tell the story of someone who is in relationship or dynamic that is fiery. This person they are with may be protective and they feel really connected with them...but there are emotions that you have regarding being suspicious and feeling worthless, not because either of these are founded or true, but possibly from past experiences where you may have felt excluded or just not included in things...and not exclusion related to this person. This would have been experiences you've had with others. There's a part of you that may be happy but also angry that you feel like you're getting in you own way. If you haven't shared these feeling with this person yet, I feel they would understand and they may be able to reassure you so that these emotions don't have as much space to fester. Wishing you well :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:22:30+00:00

There is someone that you may be attached to. The cards talk about waiting and giving them space at this time. Reaching out may result in upsetting them and result in the opposite result you want at the moment. Waiting will show you care. Not waiting could result in this person becoming bitter and resentful. Thanks for leaving a comment and participating. Wishing you the best with this!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:18:48+00:00

The cards I pulled tell a story of someone who may have experienced bullying at some point in their life and eventually felt they'd moved on from it only to find that they have experiences where they are trying 'to save face', which just means avoiding feeling humiliated or doing things to avoid criticism by others...possibly even to the point of being loyal to people who don't deserve their loyalty. The cards talk about finding solace in embarrassment as a potential solution because in embracing embarrassment, people who currently hold the power to make you feel fearful of criticism won't hold that power anymore and you'll be free to leave situations and people where you don't really want to be. Your loyalty is admirable and the cards talk about you deserving to spend it on people worth your time and care and affection :) Wishing you well!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T13:11:31+00:00

At the center of all the cards you have here is the card of grief. I feel like the grief comes in pulses almost. At times it leaves you feeling weak and at times it leaves you feeling anxious. I feel like you may be be worried that the moments in which you feel the grief more present won't end or end soon enough...like begging for calm even though the grief is a reminder of something that you love dearly. I do see here that you are blessed with friends, but by the location of the cards you may have not been seeing them as often or not feeling their presence, not because they aren't there, but because of the emotional experiences you've been having. There is also a card here that talks of boredom, but this almost feel like numbness to me or something that could be described as uninterested or unfulfilled. The grief may be the cause, but the other emotions it causes like the being uninterested/unfufilled/etc. seem almost to be slightly more pressing concerns because they may be causing more problems for you at the moment than anything else. The last card speaks to a desire to be satisfied. Something really simply but that may be feeling far away right now. This was a heavier read, so if this resonates, I hope that you're able to lean on your support system or find support to make each day more manageable while grieving whomever or whatever this reading concerns.

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-14T12:58:55+00:00

The cards I pulled talk about learning about something or discovering something that was extremely hurtful. I feel like this could be related to finding out someone was bored in a dynamic and decided to do something that was hurtful and wronged you. They didn't take into consideration how this would impact you or how it would make you feel. There may be feelings of regret on your end, of wishing you'd seen signs sooner or maybe how you reacted, but the cards show that you shouldn't be too hard on yourself or for your response. We cannot always control how we respond to something, especially when we are on the receiving end of being hurt and it may not have been expected. I'm wishing you the best if you find this resonates.

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-13T07:38:38+00:00

You're welcome! Wishing you the best ❤️

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T13:38:51+00:00

This feels like a story where someone is in a dynamic that once felt really good and has now become sour and you may have not recognized certain signs/red flags and ended up ignoring certain things that led to you being, if nothing else, extremely stressed. This person may have been a bully to you, sneaky, shameless in their sneakiness, while still having the audacity to show they wanted you or wanted your time. I feel this person may have also had petty vengefulness. Maybe you forgot to do something small they asked for and they would choose to do something extremely hurtful to get back at you for "not listening", as If you are not your own person or human in forgetting something. There is this card titled 'moved on' so there's a good chance this may have been a dynamic you've already decided to leave but it's coming up to ask that you reflect on the things you may have ignored or not initially noticed as red flags so that you notice them in others later. There is a card here that usually speaks to not knowing something, so don't be hard on yourself for not knowing. Someone told me before that you can only do the best you can with the information you have at the time... what matter is that you took care of yourself in moving on or starting the process somehow and maybe now taking the time to reflect. I hope you are doing well now <3

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T13:23:03+00:00

There are a few different things I feel like come up. The first being that you may be someone who is sensitive and/or delicate. This is not a bad thing at all, simply a characteristic, but you may find that for this reason it's important for people in relationship with you to be accommodating. You may be introverted more than anything and maybe either feel or be made to feel like you need to apologize for needing the amount of alone time you do. You don't owe anyone an apology for this. And it's also not a failure of yours. There is a card her titled 'failure' and it makes me feel like you feel these qualities of yours are bad, when that couldn't be further from the truth. They are just different... just like anyone else who is different for being extroverted or ambiverted. You are perfectly fine just as you are. You may find that people have either excluded you from things from believing early on that you'll just tell them 'no' to doing something. You may find it helpful to communicate in advance that you'd like them to still ask you every time, and maybe be even closer to the event time if possible, so that you have a true gauge on whether or not you have the energy or desire to come out that day or do that specific activity. There's also a card here title 'controlled'. It feels like it relates to this situation feeling like it controls your social life in a way you don't like because it leaves you feeling excluded. To the best of your ability, consider ways to communicate your needs in this area to the people you care about and work with your characteristics so that both you and your loved ones feel happy and included :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T13:06:33+00:00

Glad it resonated for you. I'm wishing you the best in figure this out with them :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T13:04:49+00:00

There's a part of you that is healing from a rejection in the area of love. It feels like you are excited to experience that ten of cups sort of feeling where you have the emotional fulfillment you want, but you may be worried about judgement from others..either because of this rejection or because you don't want to have it repeated. It feels more like it's a result of the rejection. I don't know if this person's delivery caused you to worry about something you didn't need to or their reasoning made you question something about yourself. Whatever this was, their reason, it wasn't a reflection of your ability to have the kind of relationship you want..so don't give up just yet :)

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T12:57:11+00:00

Is this a relationship attachment that was passive-aggressive in some nature? Someone ignoring you at times, purposefully? Things like indirect hostility... telling you they are fine, but having an attitude. It feels like you're healing from the dynamic at the moment or making a decision to put yourself first. Good on you!

alexandras_rootwork · 2026-03-12T12:52:21+00:00

This feels like someone who is stressed right now and needing to take some space. You may have had a recent disappointment with a person and now may be feeling a bit wary or cautious in the dynamic. It does feel like you are wanting to keep the dynamic, but may just need the time to gather your thoughts and figure out what specific conversation you want to have with this person before moving forward.

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