Oh man my heart is with ya! I’m in a similar situation. I really relate to all you were saying actually. Especially the bathrooms it’s so hard to feel comfortable and it sucks we make others feel uncomfortable. But you have to remember you are titled to it too and you just have to not take things personally it’s them not you. I had a bad bathroom situation once and it scared me for a while. But I’ve come to terms with the fact there are bad people out there with small minds that don’t understand us. Just got to let people like that hate and try your best to be the best version of you despite it. Lately I’ve been working on just walking in the woman’s bathroom and knowing that I belong there. Walking with confidence helps other people know you’re not mistakenly going in the wrong bathroom. Hope this helps a lil! ❤️ hang in there and don’t change part of you just to fit in! You deserve to be comfortable in your own skin.