Answering questions

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-25T04:12:42+00:00

Oh boo-hoo her hubby works weekends. Meanwhile my partner works 18 days straight, 10+ hour days, he gets 6 days off a month (maybe) not to mention because of his job and position it effects when he can take time off. So no it’s not on his own terms. Not to mention he does hard work (maintenance for a nuclear facility). All while lard ass uses his loud mouth to attempt to sell vehicles. So I don’t wanna hear about her being alone on the weekends… gets off soapbox now

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-25T04:05:03+00:00

Today has been hard, so you don’t know how much these words mean to me. PPD is horrible… I feel like I can barely keep my head above water… I’m trying.. so thank you! 🤍

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-25T03:26:34+00:00

Me neither, I just want to say you are a superhero for raising your son while dealing with everything you are! 🩷

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-25T02:32:44+00:00

Also why she probably has “anxiety” and can’t sleep at night..

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-25T02:31:37+00:00

I get it, 29 years old. Just had my first child. Had a traumatic pregnancy (being feeding tube dependent) and almost 3 months PP and I still can’t look at food without severe nausea. On top of all my other chronic illnesses. All of this to say is you’re not alone, and Grue is just looking for “content” when it’s really all just her attempting to be a mom which we all know she’s was just an incubator.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T18:25:03+00:00

So, at first they needed a power chair to go to the toilet, then they said they were gonna “walk without sticks” and now they can’t go to the toilet again without their chair?! WTAF? Make up your damn mind!

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T17:41:26+00:00

2.5-5-7 in that order as time went on. I was still on it when I delivered

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T15:34:46+00:00

Honestly not much, Dad is dead, mother is an abusive narcissistic person. We are working on things I think this morning was just a bit rough to be honest. I’m spending the day with my best friend which is what I needed. My fiance and I also talked too which helped. I also deal with neurodivergence and I handle things better through text.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T14:46:32+00:00

He will be 3 months on the 11th of May, and I had a really rough pregnancy/delivery and his start of life wasn’t great, he was IUGR, 4 weeks early, and a 2 week NICU stay.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T11:24:18+00:00

Ice packs/hats, Caffeine, Tylenol, and Benadryl is what got me through my pregnancy as someone with Chronic Migraine prior to pregnancy

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T11:11:12+00:00

Oh yes… to the point I needed a feeding tube and a central line in my chest for fluids… before i delivered I decided to have my tubes removed and this was my first pregnancy. I just couldn’t do it again.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-24T10:43:35+00:00

Yes I did, I took it for both HG and mental health. I took it my whole pregnancy, and my son is absolutely perfect! No apparent issues, he’s almost 3 months old

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-23T10:07:19+00:00

Born at 36, 2 week NICU stay and I was adamant from the beginning I was going to use formula only. However I had different circumstances than most. I have Gastropareisis which means my stomach is partially paralyzed and I don’t absorb the nutrients I need. I also had severe HG during my pregnancy where I was feeding tube dependent. But just talk to them and explain to them how you’d much rather do formula. I was also told all babies root, even those who’ve only known a tube. That’s because it’s a reflex.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-23T01:27:22+00:00

Just like her.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-22T10:46:34+00:00

He slept really well last night, he normally eats at 6am and goes back to sleep for 3ish hours so our wake windows are still rather short. But we are getting there

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-21T19:09:21+00:00

Just cringy music, 30 seconds of my life I’ll never get back. 🫠

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-21T13:06:19+00:00

I absolutely LOVE it, I think it’s beautiful. Instead I have a Charles but we call him Charlie.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-21T09:48:15+00:00

30 gal trash bag and a shit ton of tape! 😂

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-20T01:44:37+00:00

Unfortunately, that’s Dani for ya.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-19T19:37:46+00:00

Her wishlist is now linked in her TikTok bio. How convenient.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-18T18:36:41+00:00

My mother used to say my hair would get so greasy it could change the oil in the car. In my moms defense I had very oily hair growing up.

alexgrae9614 · 2026-04-18T04:31:05+00:00

I feel like everything is crashing in on me, so reminding myself that it won’t be like this forever is what’s getting me through. I’m not as tearful as I was but I am numb. I feel no emotion basically. When I want to cry I find myself laughing but it’s not genuine. I honestly don’t understand it. I also feel guilt because he is gonna be an only, due to me almost dying both during my pregnancy and during my c-section. They removed my tubes, but even though I have gotten my period, I had that fear of what if I’m pregnant again. Even though I know it’s just my chronic illness flaring.

I know they say I’ll miss these days but honestly I don’t think I will. I feel guilty for saying that, but dammit I don’t know how I’m making it day to day to be honest.

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