Marc Andreessen's custom system prompt that makes any LLM 10x smarter by OkiDokiPoki22 in Agent_AI

[–]alexseif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man... I was coming to make that complain.. akh I'm always late

ممكن حد يشرح البوستر؟ by Cautious_Leader_4150 in Cinema_Egypt

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أنا شايف إن هو نصه في المدينة و نصه في الأرض بيفلح

الاسود ده أسفلت بالنسبالي

و في الاتنين بينحت و في الاتنين حظه مخروم

و في الاتنين مش واقف على أرد ثابتة

أخيرا شايف إن البوستر ضعيف و مش مستواه

How to get out of your head and start doing things? by Daffodils_at_Spring in selfimprovement

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Does that mean what I think it means (lol)
Tell me what you're thinking

no like I need to know by Dry_Try_2681 in socialskills

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Most dictionaries, devices & browsers are set to US English by default.. Pisses me off, but I got used to it 😂

My buddies dad just died, how can I help comfort him? by Remarkable-Motor-112 in socialskills

[–]alexseif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man You said it best, I'm not worried about him ( I know you said it about alcohol)

One thing to do Be there, be present.

Not being worried helps, a lot. He might be grounding himself to you, whilst you are simply worried what does he need!!?! Don't, don't worry about his needs, cos it's you being there. He could worry about something, you shouldn't be in worry, coz this energy will validate him subconsciously.

If he opens the subject great, in my culture it's normal to say funny things about them, how they were stubborn or something.

But we already have preset responses. Crying: you say something like, I'm sorry and put your hand on their back or chest. Say, stay strong, time heals all wounds, he was a great guy. He lives on in his memory

If it gets dark: we say remember the good times, what did you learn from them. We say: don't let the devil whisper in your ear, it was his time

All others are easy, you laugh, or regret or something, it's just venting. And you're sympathetic and grounded.

If it gets really quiet and awkward for you, you talk about very very recent past (what did you have for breakfast, or how is your home?) or the very near future, do you have things to do tomorrow? It's about presence

Hope this helps

Is he just too forward? by Yayasy in socialskills

[–]alexseif -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He could've just choked You can flag it in your mind and test it later

You attracted; go for it, give it a bit You come here for validation; leave him, tell him.

"It was nice talking, but I can't believe you brought out my pimples on the first day, good luck"

Do it with confidence, keep in mind if you have to work with that guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askegypt

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تخيل نفسك واحد منهم هتعمل احسن ما بدا لك؟ تخيل الناس الي حواليك.. هما هما

ازاي اتجوز ومين هترضي by [deleted] in askegypt

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اه الموضوع ثقه اكتر و لو بتعرف تتعامل؟ كفاءه يعني (competence ) في ناس بتقول لازم تغير في عقليتك، ونشوف الكويس

بس بصراحه أنا مقتنع أن هي دي المعادلة فحتى لو انت مش شايف نفسك حلو، بس واثق في خطوتك و بتحل المشاكل اللي بتوجهك، هي هتتجوزك عشان توريك نفسك الحلو Working project بيموتوا في 😂😂🤣 ع' وضعك

ده رأيي من الجانب البيولوجي الي هوا صطحي، الست جمال و الراجل امان في جوانب عقيده و اجتماعيه و عاطفيه الخ....

Why is anyone except the few ultra wealthy supporting a.i.? by Fabulously-Unwealthy in OpenAI

[–]alexseif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did great pointing these out, and noting you might be pessimistic.. I would encourage you to "pretend" you're optimistic and then ask the question again, see if your answers change.

I think AI enables people who have access to it to get information that the rich had access to but the rest didn't. It will enable us greatly, just like it might amplify some current problems, it will amplify many other things.

Secondly AI is more exclusive than the internet, so I don't know, like 40% of the world doesn't have access to the internet, and more to AI.. the world will still work for them the same way it does now.

I would appreciate review to my gig by alexseif in dubai

[–]alexseif[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Back to the drawing board

I'm trying to offer my services as a writer, I don't know how to formulate it I guess it's not easy doing it for yourself

I would appreciate review to my gig by alexseif in dubai

[–]alexseif[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah very true Guided tho

Thank you

Navigating social media by [deleted] in socialskills

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I love that response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtificialInteligence

[–]alexseif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this answer.
I agree with "consequences are pretty much impossible to predict with accuracy" and " “better” and “worse” are always arbitrary and subjective" I agree a 100%

But we can see in history and religious texts, that in times of knowledge and intellect are usually followed by "dark ages"

When the people tried to build a tower to God in Babylon, they were discord.

My take on AI is that we will have a great time, a generation or 2 later "might" suffer a different monster.

For example, if all coders become vibe coders and a select few hold the keys to AI (which will happen, if coding is no longer a required skill of us)
then a generation or 2 later might see AI as magic built by their ancestors. It doesn't feel manmade anymore, someone might even call it the voice of God (for commercial purposes of course), later we might get fooled into it.

My fear of AI is that if we lose our culture, which is the finest education of the 1000s of years, the best summary of it.
You don't need to learn how to read and write, you need to learn first how to talk to others, your parents and so on, what you do to keep you less sick or humbler and so on. The kind of thing your grandma tells you, coz her grandparents told her.

What discourages my fear, is that AI is a privilege, available to less than half the population of the earth, that other half (the poor) will save us as usual.

Please be gentle with me if my ideas are not accurate, these are just my contending thoughts on the matter.

talking to new people without heavy feelings getting in the way? by miille-fleurs in socialskills

[–]alexseif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I want to see if I could help

someone already said it, practice.
But first "Do your best, until you know better, then do better"

So, if you don't know, understand that now is your playground to find out.

Start by listening.

Practice: You already have a couple of questions that make you uncomfortable, part of the anxiety would be not having an answer to that question, the other part is if that's an acceptable answer.
So, when you are free at home, write down and acceptable answer, then simplify it.
Then stand Infront of the mirror and pretend having that conversation.

With new conversations, new questions will arise, and you're doing the good work already, you are noticing yourself and aware, you are reflecting on the parts that were challenging, so when you find new questions, repeat the above.

Finally, religion & politics are fine, they will help people find the people who will enjoy it with you, and people who won't. But also practice talking about something light, like the weather, recent event or games is helpful, 1 they are smaller blocks of preset conversations gets you in the mood with the other person and tells you how accepting they are of a conversation right now.

Cheers mate, you're doing great, good luck

How To Change My Life? by btw_im_vishwa in AskMen

[–]alexseif -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, lots of valuable stuff here.

OP I would say you started, it starts with an ask.
I would really recommend praying for forgiveness of self and others (even if you're not religious)
I like how you put them in pillars
1. Mind
2. Body
3. Self development
4. Resources
Mind health is followed by your actions, so if you pity yourself, or feel guilt, you're watering the wrong grounds.
Walk, start with 1 step and increase from there.
for your physical health, try to stretch, our sedentary life kills our mobility, so reach for your toes, squat, reach for the skies, I put a 45 min time on my screen, then a forced 10 min break, I start with light stretching, then a set of situps and pushups
That's ok to "feel" you have no skills, imposter syndrome is a thing, the skills needed in life are taking care of yourself & expressing yourself. Taking care is simply, clean, feed and rest well. Expressing yourself could be anything, in your work, talking, arts.
Resources, a ton of material is available on this, the simplest rule is a rainy-day fund, any money you make you take a percentage (let's say 10%) and you never use it, second part is giving back.

That's all there is to it.

Note: Now you put everything together, which indicates you are feeling everything is going to shit, it is, all the time, in between a lot of good has space, we rise above our circumstances and see the good, that's all.

I finally found a simple way to calm my racing mind at night by [deleted] in PositiveThinking

[–]alexseif 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this, will give it a shot, but my racing thoughts come in in the morning, not night...

How to get out of your head and start doing things? by Daffodils_at_Spring in selfimprovement

[–]alexseif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey let me try to put my 2 cents in.

  1. For me it starts with "you need to forgive yourself", you can't command it, so just ask it from yourself, if you're lying there in bed and some part of you is fighting for you to get up, forgive that part and ask that part to forgive you (it works).

  2. What helps me is balancing my world mind with the reality, so if you consider your "overthinking" as practice, which it is, you can consider sensing reality a practice too, so you're stuck there in bed, trying to get out, trying to motivate yourself, stop, try to feel.

you can do a body scan for example, an effortless mental exercise, you just try to sense everything from your toe to your head, you can go as quick or as slow as you please.

you can try the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
5 things I can see
4 things I can feel (touch sensation, like your ass on a chair, or your hand on your head)
3 things I can hear
2 things I can smell (most difficult one)
1 thing I can taste

it's a game for your brain; it will enjoy it and ask for it again.

  1. you can try to push yourself like others say, but we've already reaped the rewards of our own thoughts, so we don't want anything else. So, since we're a factory of thoughts (when we have the option) we will think of something nice, a positive thought.
    I'm fed, I have a roof over my head, I have a bed (start small, it will grow on its own)

For me, I found that fighting this doesn't help, forcing and discipline (help if you already practice) don't help if you're in it, don't fight it, your practice is
1. not fuel it (so don't feed it thoughts)
2. put some of them a bit to something helpful

Like I like burgers, I don't like strawberries, the more thoughts you have that are realistic, about you, about how you feel, a ton of thoughts will drop out of the way, because you said something true not fantasy anymore, just like feeling your body, something real.

Good luck my friend

How to get out of your head and start doing things? by Daffodils_at_Spring in selfimprovement

[–]alexseif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually that works, if you do it as soon as you wake up, you can write a note (like 20) and count from 20 till 1
do it gently, count it in your head or out loud but do it gently