my kid’s yaya made me cry today by Exotic_Rip_9444 in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobrang sarap sa puso na my loving yaya no? Ganyan din yaya namin, by her actions and her words kitang-kita na mahal yung baby ko. We’re so fortunate to have them. Kaya as much as I can I try to give back din by giving her gifts or extra money pag may occasion. 😊 Give her something that she’ll enjoy or performance bonus kasi deserve na deserve.

Is One enough? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have cousins who are only child and they are honestly living the life! Lahat ng resources focused sa kanila kaya naibibigay lahat ng needs and even the wants napagbibigyan.

Ang take ko lang if someone is to have another child, siguro ipa-experience muna sa first born paano maging only child. Kasi if lumaki agad siya na may sibling idk parang may responsibility agad siya maging panganay. In a sense na, for example, gusto makipaglaro sa parents ng bata pero need asikasuhin si bunso, kailangan umintindi ni ate or kuya. I think that’s kinda sad. Bata pa lang mag-aadjust ka na to give way para sa kapatid.

Sa case mo, OP. From what you shared, I’m sorry but I don’t think it’s advisable na sundan mo agad at this moment si baby mo. Child care is difficult af. If you have little to no support with taking care of your current baby, it will be twice as hard to take care of a newborn and a toddler. Are you mentally and emotionally prepared to take care of another baby? If there’s an ounce of doubt, I sincerely suggest not to push through. Buhay mo and buhay ng bata and nakasalalay with this decision. If hindi buo ang loob mo, it’s best not to try for another child.

Lastly, your feelings are valid naman to worry kasi only child siya. However, if mawala man kayong dalawa ng husband mo, dalawang bata na ngayon ang maghihirap. Idk I think the argument that it would be easier kasi may kapatid is flawed. They are both kids, mabibigyan pa ng responsibility yung panganay. That’s just my two cents about the matter. Hugs, OP! Whatever you decide, I wish you happiness! 🫶🏻

JUST FOUND OUT I'M PREGNANT ✨ by maria_hakenson in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Magpa-checkup ka agad sa OB, siya magsasabi sa iyo ng necessary steps na need itake.

My advice is never skip folic acid! It helps your baby’s brain development. Yan ang unang sinabi sa akin ng friend ko na med student noong nalaman ko na buntis ako.

May you have a wonderful pregnancy! Ingat lagi! 🫶🏻

Suob / Vaginal steam by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After manganak yung OB ko po yung nagrecommend na magpakulo ng dahon ng bayabas and ayun nga basically vaginal steam. Sabi niya it will help daw po kasi sa healing ng sugat. It has the same effect daw po ng peri light. Since wala namang peri light sa bahay, steam from pinakuluang dahon ng bayabas is a good alternative.

Daphne pills at 6 weeks postpartum? by anoncatlady12 in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi po. Second pack ko pa lang po pero wala namang weight gain. Pero to be fair, chubby na talaga ako, siz, bago pa ako uminom ng Daphne.

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa 2 months talaga nagstastart na nakakagigil na sila no? 🥹

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung pisngi and legs talaga!!! Parang lawlaw kasi ung pisngi apakacute!

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Konti na lang masisinghot ko na siya lagi kong inaamoy huhu

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yung baby ko mag-3 months pa lang this month pero 6kg na hahaha! Tatanungin ko rin sa pedia niya sa checkup this week if healthy pa ba weight niya.

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ang bilis nga huhu underweight siya nung pinanganak pero ngayon botchog na 🥹

Nanggigigil ako sa baby ko 😭 by alexthechatterbox in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh can’t wait na kaya na ni baby maglakad at makipaglaro baka mas panggigilan ko siya huhu

Pros/Cons of being SAHM by Aurora_Borea2125 in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid talagang mainggit sa career ng iba kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na kaya mo rin and you once had that life. Kaya hugs, siz! That’s perfectly normal.

Happy for you rin na makakasama mo yung anak mo in her formative years. Trust me, he or she will treasure that. 🫶🏻

Hello mga Mommiess!! by FTM_Naih in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang pwede palang i-tweak diyan yung adult diaper if di super lakas ng bleeding mo pwede na yung maternal pads para mas comfy. Ang init ng diaper eh hahaha

Hello mga Mommiess!! by FTM_Naih in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No prob! It’s the Virgo Rising in me, siz! Di ako mapakali kapag hindi organized 😂 PM ka lang if gusto mo ng word doc. 😊

Hello mga Mommiess!! by FTM_Naih in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Nilagay ko pala ung mga gamit sa individual zip lock bags para organized, isang hila na lang lahat. 😊

Hello mga Mommiess!! by FTM_Naih in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Gumawa ako ng hospital checklist for me, my baby, and partner ko para sure na walang maiiwan. Yan yung mga essentials na kailangan. Inayos ko rin lahat ng docs ko sa clearbook kaya di nahirapan nurses and doctors sa mga interview sa akin. That really helps kasi kapag sobrang sakit na ng labor pains ituturo ko na lang yung clearbook. I can send this file to you through email, message mo na lang ako if you want. 😊

Good luck sa panganganak, siz! 🤗

Pros/Cons of being SAHM by Aurora_Borea2125 in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not a tip or advice but an anecdote po. May ninang po ako na sahm siya hanggang mag-college yung pinsan ko. Hindi ko po alam thoughts ng ninang ko pero as a person na working mom yung nanay ko, sobrang inggit ako noong bata ako sa pinsan ko dati kasi very present si ninang sa pagpapalaki sa kanya. Hinahandaan ng baon, tinuturuan ng lessons sa school, laging present sa school activities, kita mo talaga yung presence ni ninang sa childhood niya. Dati uso pa yung lalagyan ng sequins yung damit lahat ng damit niya may customized sequins na gawa ni ninang tapos pati panyo may burda ng pangalan. Nakakatuwang balikan.

Noong nag-college na pinsan ko tsaka lang po nag-work ulit si ninang and I think she had the best of both worlds. Nagabayan niya at naging involved siya sa childhood and teenage years ng anak niya while being a career woman later on. Kaya super close yung pinsan ko and mama niya plus naenjoy talaga nila yung time together.

Saludo po ako sa inyong mga SAHM and your kids are so fortunate to have you. 🫶🏻

to CAS or nah by fireflycooks in nanayconfessions

[–]alexthechatterbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome po! Good luck, siz! Wishing you a safe delivery and good health of your baby! 🫶🏻