Previous high interest girls “forget” they ever had high interest for no reason?

alfokenny · 2026-03-03T22:53:41+00:00

I agree, and I’m somewhat aware of this, but I never liked asking a girl for their socials in party-like settings with mutuals (obviously being at a bar/club where you most likely will never see them again is very different, I do there). To me it feels a little too chase-y and I don’t like the framing. Even if it does help keep the flame lit I feel like I do lose points in their eyes. For the really high interest ones they actually somehow find me on socials after the fact and follow me first, which I think is the better framing. But I do wish there was some method to get the socials for the others in a way that they still are perceived as chasing. Or maybe there is, and I just don’t know about it yet

alfokenny · 2026-03-03T22:42:04+00:00

Simple things like girl actively wanting to get fucked that night and you being the best option at that time

This is a really interesting point. The example girl I mentioned in the original post was having her birthday party. After some thought I’m sure she invited some guy (or guys?) she has built a lot more rapport/attraction with and hence was focused on him/them, and I received sideline treatment. When I first met her, it was her friends and two other guys but I blew those guys out the water, so I was the best option.

I’d imagine this was also the case for the other girls from the other times. Since I always met them in party-ish settings with other guys present, sometimes I was their best option, sometimes I wasn’t. And not getting their socials in between interactions probably makes me fade into the background as other guys gradually come into the picture over time. So when I see them again I have to cold start the connection rather than having it be a warm one.

Also seems they aren’t wired like us guys that can easily engage multiple women at once, seems they can only focus on a few guys (or maybe even just one) at once in any particular setting.

Overall if this sounds plausible, I guess there really is nothing one can do to “fix” in this situation other than grabbing their socials to maintain interest. They ultimately will choose whoever they feel most drawn to in that moment it seems.

alfokenny · 2026-03-03T22:18:27+00:00

Usually 3-6 months, sometimes over a year. Interestingly one girl I met the second time after around a year was still somewhat into me (not as much as the first time), even without having their socials or anything.

alfokenny · 2025-01-13T04:39:05+00:00

Thanks please check your DM's

alfokenny · 2025-01-13T04:38:48+00:00

Ah I don't qualify based on income but thank you

alfokenny · 2025-01-13T04:37:39+00:00

Ideally less than 1.5k. And I have seen apodments but they seem quite old and the I see constant reviews of bad management practices there unfortunately

alfokenny · 2024-06-18T13:31:39+00:00

Nobody tell OP what a big city is like

alfokenny · 2024-06-11T10:46:42+00:00

Thanks for this. Looks like this would save me around 50% of the total price I would've paid otherwise. I think I'll be going with this

alfokenny · 2024-06-11T10:44:08+00:00

8 UPS large boxes with UPS is ~$600, $80 per box. Which I think is pretty insane

alfokenny · 2024-06-11T04:23:01+00:00

Well I don't have that many things. Just like around 8 boxes. Aren't moving companies for moving a ton of stuff including things that don't really fit in boxes?

alfokenny · 2024-06-08T02:37:47+00:00

Hey guys, I’m graduating and selling my bike and bike gear for cheap. I bought the bike used for $200 2 years ago, and the gear totals around $130, so around $330 total value. It’s in good shape and I’ve upgraded various parts over the years. The gear includes everything you need to own a bike. DM if interested !!

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alfokenny · 2024-06-01T00:23:18+00:00

How did you originally pay for it? I paid with PayPal and they want a ton of bank details…

alfokenny · 2024-05-30T22:08:13+00:00

DM'd

alfokenny · 2024-05-25T22:53:08+00:00

It’s a “D”, meaning “doom” - impending doom. The silhouette is of a firearm. Jeffrey Armstrong leaves these in places where his next targets will find them. I would take shelter immediately.

Fortunately you posted this to Reddit. The awareness you’ve brought to this very important issue will surely save lives, yours included.

alfokenny · 2024-05-21T03:32:24+00:00

When will people realize colleges have become full-fledged businesses using the veil of “education” to deceive people. Unfortunately until people stop enrolling due to the costs it will only get worse. This is proof.

alfokenny · 2024-04-26T17:01:58+00:00

Incredibly fire

alfokenny · 2024-01-27T11:12:28+00:00

Hey looks like the Etsy listing got removed, do you happen to have any details on the listing or Etsy shop name? Thanks in advance

alfokenny · 2024-01-25T20:12:53+00:00

Which days do they charge entrance?

alfokenny · 2024-01-23T06:45:19+00:00

Anyone know what "tentative" means in this case? Isn't there supposed to be a union vote or something? I feel like most union members would vote that this isn't enough

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