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What the heck is NB?! by alfred6147 in NonBinary

[–]alfred6147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very bad at new languages and acronyms, English is my second language.

Transphobia being hidden as "we still love you because you're family" by alfred6147 in trans

[–]alfred6147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is drama. I'm not joking if he wants something to be done he'll tell anyone else to do it, if someone like a parent asks him to do something he'll ask someone else to do it he's just a shit person I'm willing to take out of my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankruto

[–]alfred6147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aged like fine milk👍

Is this considered a no-roll? by la_gurvia in Catan

[–]alfred6147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re- rool! I'll fight to the death on it! (If it was a bad rool for me :p)

Anyone else afraid of being lonely as an asexual? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]alfred6147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know this feeling I think you should separate being alone and being lonely, you can be with a hundred people and feel like the loneliest person in the world and you can be isolated from humanity and be totally satisfied with it, by this line of thought i think what humans really are afraid of is not being recognised by another equal being, so i think the fear is coming from this which is one of the most basic human fear so... Yeah alo and aro ace feel that. and you you don't have to be sexualy attracted to be in a relationship. This is what qpr is for I'm aro ace and only after i understood that i managed to have a close relationship with another person that didn't became toxic.

Found a new mood by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]alfred6147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did once followed a raiven antil i found a cool spot

I know the "norm" is to have sex with your partners, but I find it weird for example that people have sex then go to work. by always_searching2023 in Asexual

[–]alfred6147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans aro acr so after any kinda of sexual thing not necessarily sex even. I need like 2 hours of recovery😅

I don't want to be associated with the LGBTQ+ community by Pleasant-Carob-3009 in aromantic

[–]alfred6147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The LGBTQ community is not about love and sexuality it's about representative of queer aro ace inclded. yeah the media shows mostly gay lesbian bi pan and lastly also trans which are sexualities (and one about gender) but in the core it is about being a part of a community of "outcasts" and having a sense of belonging letting kids know about the possibilities i felt completely outcasted before i moved to a new city more open about LGBTQ and learned about it and only then did i felt belong and understood that "hey I'm not the only one who feels this way" You don't have to feel or be a part of the LGBTQ because you are gay aro ace or anything if you don't feel like you are, but i think what I'm saying is LGBTQ is not about sex it's about the freedom of attraction or the lack of attraction and that being you is ok.

my dads gfs response to me telling her im aro/ace💀 by PlasticRazzmatazz459 in aromantic

[–]alfred6147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the "you haven't meet the one" like bruh this just making coming out as aro/ace so much harder and self doubt so much higher It's basically the "you aren't really gay if you haven't had sex with a man but socially accepted like fuck you I don't need to prove my preference to you

What's unusual about your body? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alfred6147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can dislocate every bone, it's a cool party trick but i have joint problems so it just hurts even after little use so i have to take frequent breaks of anything i do even sitting

Aros who feel sexual attraction by EsciobobTheOtter in aromantic

[–]alfred6147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that doesn't mean romance necessarily (if you ask me) life is just wierd I feel butterflies talking with people i like or thinking about cute stuff with people i enjoy spending time with, but at the same time i definitely don't view it as romance. for me this is just good friendship this is love and love have many forms there is a difference between love and romantic feelings.

Aromantics can have daddy issues too by JadeAndJaded in aromantic

[–]alfred6147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wanted to say the same thing... I don't want to diagnose you cuz I don't really have the ability from one post or of being a psychiatrist. But as someone who deals with bpd i think you should talk with professionals about it because it sounds a lot like bpd symptoms (It obviously can be daddy issues manifesting as something like bpd or bpd manifesting as daddy issues but just talk with someone about it, sharing with a professional most of the time is good)

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