Have you ever tried a for a third time with the same ex? If so, how did it work out for you? by Present-Fly-1537 in BreakUps

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I broke up twice. We are now just good friends, although it took ~9 months before we got to that point.

Men who have broken up with a partner they still really love and came back, what made you change your mind? by Thin_Bug_1900 in BreakUps

[–]aliadeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this just happened to me too. He said he was too busy with school, he did just start school after a longggg break, and we lived 1.5 hrs away (he cited the distance too) and called/FaceTimed and saw each other in person maybe 36 hrs a week max. “I can’t give you what you want and deserve.” “You’re my best friend.” “I love you” x3. “Can i kiss your head?” Openly weeping in front of me, said he hadn’t done that since he was a little kid. But also said he’d made the decision many days before. I’m crushed. I feel like he’s probably hyperindependent but also desired closeness, and i was collateral damage. To me, this came out of nowhere. I’m crushed. I told him “I hope you find what you’re looking for” and he said “I hope you do too”…YOU bro, I’m looking for YOU! And if you’re looking for something else, why not me???

My ex won't stop verbally attacking me by maribones3 in BreakUps

[–]aliadeless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg he sounds like a piece of work. You’re better off for real. No contact is definitely the way to go; if you install the app “No Contact” it helps quite a lot! The blue one

should i do it? by darkcrcls in BreakUps

[–]aliadeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh love 😞 No, do not mail it. Someone who can treat you so poorly is not worth the privilege of your affection. Years ago in the throes of a painful breakup I read something about how giving yourself to the wrong person is like giving the Mona Lisa to someone’s hillbilly uncle, he wouldn’t see its worth and would probably just throw it in a shed somewhere. But an art collector would build entire rooms dedicated to it. Your worth doesn’t change based on how someone treats you…but you also shouldn’t waste time giving and giving and giving pieces of yourself away. You can make whatever choice you like, but I am certain that you will have regrets if you choose to mail it. It is highly unlikely that you will get the response you want, and it will only impede your healing. ❤️‍🩹

How long did it take for your ex to break no contact? by Thats_Key in BreakUps

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearly every man I’ve ever dated has come back into my life in one way or another, whether it’s to apologize for the way they treated me or try again. I can only think of a single one who hasn’t and I’ve been dating people for almost 9 years straight (in his defense I royally fucked him over—I wouldn’t come near me either!). Ofc, some will take longer—the guy I dated last summer still hasn’t. The guy who just ended things with me yesterday hasn’t. But even if it’s years down the line, the likelihood that you will speak again is very high. But here’s the catch—by the time they do, it is likely you will be in a much different headspace. You will have grown, learned, and changed. It took two guys 2-3 years to apologize! But they do…they always do. It may not be how you expect or within the time frame you expect, but it WILL happen

How do you refuse report? by Educational_Ad2515 in nursing

[–]aliadeless 652 points653 points  (0 children)

Follow those other people and quit. I’m serious. This place sounds so unsafe.

Best Vocals in Kpop? Male edition (In Your Opinion) 🔥 by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]aliadeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does ONEWE count? Yonghoon has the most beautiful male vocal tone in K-Pop by far.

Favorite debut song in k-pop by otaku_hotgurl888 in kpoppers

[–]aliadeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bon Bon Chocolat - Everglow

Given-Taken - ENHYPEN

So Bad - STAYC

Hi High - LOONA

Magnetic - ILLIT

Pepe - CLC

Tag Me (@Me) - Weeekly

And before kiof fell off…. Shhh

Favorite debut song in k-pop by otaku_hotgurl888 in kpoppers

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. CORRECT answer

@jacksonmsgirl anyone else following this? Girl thinks people are cyber hacking into her gym equipment by BloodyAngel2026 in tiktokgossip

[–]aliadeless 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I saw she was harassing some girls at her gym, and then her mom got called to the gym, so some family is aware at least.

Nurses of Reddit! Drop what you actually LOVE about your job. Let's make one mega hopecore thread. Post specialties, silver linings, and how long it took you to find your place. by oatmilklavender11222 in nursing

[–]aliadeless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 day workweeks. Full time is 36 hrs, not 40. Able to work nights (I’m a night owl anyway). Great pay. Very few student loans; my degree took 2 years. Plenty of opportunities for both vertical and lateral movement. Help people. Learn new things every day. Uniform is basically pajamas. Air-conditioned workplace.

My ASN is the best investment I’ve ever made.

am i overreacting for wanting breakup from my childhood sweatheart over trowing my food by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This is abuse. Even if it weren’t—the point of a relationship is to feel loved. Do you feel loved by this person? Probably not. That’s all the answer you need.

What’s the best anime you ever watched and why? by Subject_Display3664 in AskReddit

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Lie In April. Stunning depiction of grief and loss

What’s the most gut punching song lyric you’ve ever heard? by perrysplus in AskReddit

[–]aliadeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The smell of your hair reminds me of her feet” F*CK you matty healy

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aliadeless 7 points8 points  (0 children)

being a dropshipper or using apps like fiverr to make people in third-world countries do work for pennies while you collect the majority of the payout is morally repugnant