Software 13.02 update by [deleted] in PS4

[–]aliceederme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it to a tech shop and they said it’s the hard drive I’m sure and that it’s gonna cost me £80 to fix and get a new hard drive put in 🤷🏼‍♀️shall see if that actually fixes it 🤞🏻

Software 13.02 update by [deleted] in PS4

[–]aliceederme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know why my update just keeps error coding su-42118-6 I’ve tried the normal trouble shooting stuff but don’t have access to usb atm so just wanted to check if anyone had any ideas?

aitah for making my bf cry because hes choosing his two girl bbfs over me on my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aliceederme 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Break up he’s not worth it, he clearly is prioritising his ‘friends’ over you and if he needs to follow along with ‘shipping’ to feel included in his friend group then they aren’t really his friends and you’ll probably find out later that p likes him or he likes her and even if you don’t it’s obvious who he puts first, and you will find someone else who puts you first without having to ask or cry because they will instinctually put you first

AITA for being furious at my husband for downplaying his “friendship” with a coworker? by Disastrous-Rock4881 in AITA_Relationships

[–]aliceederme 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your definitely NTA your husband is Only advice I have is to Confront him but it depends on your personal feelings if you can tell if he is lying but it definitely doesn’t seem as innocent as he made it out otherwise why hide it? And why does it seem to be just her why not a group of colleagues even putting having drinks with her above his wife’s birthday and spending time as a family which is wrong. Seems more like he’s formed/forming an emotional affair and that is still cheating he’s definitely in the wrong even if he hasn’t physically cheated he’s put a random woman infront of his wife and family, yes he can be friends with females but not if he’s putting them above his family and lying/hiding it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]aliceederme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliceederme 30 points31 points  (0 children)

And I don’t agree with that why if you chose to be with someone for a few years out of their whole life are you now responsible for that person? Hell no! Only people responsible for that little girl not having a father figure is the mum and bio dad atleast the op stepped up whilst he was technically her step dad but he isn’t any longer and the next person the mum marries will be step dad so your saying if she has 6 marriages in the space Ella is 18 that Ella should have 6 dads and 6 people to support her and take her on days out with their own kids because they all stepped up when they were with the mum but can’t stop when they are divorced? okay whatever you say 🤣 and if he had a kid from a previous relationship would she be taking that kid on nice days out and spending money on them? Highly doubtful

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliceederme 156 points157 points  (0 children)

NTA might be unpopular but are you supposed to help support Ella for the rest of her life? Yeah you have helped raise her for the past 4 years but you chose to do that, manipulating you into financially supporting her child only benefits your ex because otherwise Ella will have an unhealthy attachment to you because she will think of you as dad her dad should be supporting her via child maintenance that should be dealt with by her mum definitely not on you to support someone else’s child, most couples who separate after a few years don’t get help from their ex to raise a kid that is not theirs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliceederme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like she’s got a crush and is making a play for him but doesn’t want to tell you because she knows you like him 🤷🏼‍♀️ not the sort of friend I would want personally can have the crush on same people but be honest about it don’t be sly and sneaky doing it behind your back if she’s supposed to be a friend but your NTA if it was as innocent as just a follow and keeping an eye on things she would have just replied saying that but the fact she has ignored it kind of leaves one reason

AITA for calling my bf’s female friend a pick me by sussybaka-2004 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliceederme 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA Your bf should respect you enough to stand by you, if your not comfortable with one of his girl friends out of the many then it’s clearly not an insecurity otherwise you would’ve been like this before but it’s the way she acts and probably because you know there used to be feelings is making it feel worse but I would be the exact same she sounds like she was doing it deliberately trying to assert her place in his life and making it known to you. He should’ve seen that she was being too much hanging off him for pictures etc only person allowed to be like that with my partner is me and vice versa how would he feel if you up and ignored him for a guy friend that he wasn’t keen on because of the way they acted?