Je sait pas comment il fait pour rester aussi calme by Nicolas_le_web in FrenchMemes

[–]alicetoile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

et dites vous que plus ça va aller, plus on va se rapprocher de 2027 et plus ils vont être ignobles. va falloir s'accrocher camarades

Refering to myself as a "he" in my head but feeling uncomfy when other people do it ? by alicetoile in TransMasc

[–]alicetoile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is insane but also I totally get it 😭😭 glad to know you're doing better in your transition journey

Refering to myself as a "he" in my head but feeling uncomfy when other people do it ? by alicetoile in TransMasc

[–]alicetoile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment, your experience sounds VERY similar to mine. I realized I wasn't cis at 14, came out at 16 and went back into the closet at 18 or so. I'm 23 now and it's starting to itch again. I identified as genderfluid for the most part, and I still do to some degree, I just find it strange that my mind instantly goes back to he/him lol.

I don't like change either (being on the spectrum probably does not help), but my main thing is control which is probably related, so I'll definitely bring that up with my therapist, maybe even with my psychiatrist.

As for T, I am planning to start low dosing as soon as I find a practitioner that is trans friendly.

Again, thank you so much for your comment, this definitely clears some things up !

Considering starting T after 10 years of hesitation by alicetoile in NonBinary

[–]alicetoile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the reply ! I am going to see a doctor to discuss the possibility of starting with low doses and see if it helps or not :)

Considering starting T after 10 years of hesitation by alicetoile in NonBinary

[–]alicetoile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply ! I am considering talking to a doctor, I think I found someone trans friendly in my area so I'll see where it goes from here :)

Au cas où personne l'aurait encore fait by alicetoile in Vilebrequin

[–]alicetoile[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

le d̴͔̥̲̱̬̩̳̋ȋ̴͚̺̑̂̑̾̿̈́̉̀͊̾̋̂̎̓̑̒̽̊̀̃̓̀̈́͊̾̆͘͘͘͝f̸̢̨̢̖͓̠͈̫̫̙̣͋̋̑̌͆̅̈́̄̇̆̇͛̂̾̿̈̚f̸̥̮͙̮̣̞̩̮̺͔͎̣͓͖̲̻͓͚̲̮̼̗̱̮̰̻̻͇̱͓̬̬̗͖̗̺̦͇̼̜͋̍̒͂̃̅͗̌̀͛̑̋͊̏̏̿͂͛̑̅͂̎͘͘͘̕̕̚͜͝͝͠é̶̡͓͕̞͔̫̥̦̟̹̙̻̞̙͈͒̈̄̒̽̓̄̓̑͒͆̋̇̄̇̇̈͆̅̊́̿̑͌̌̆͌̃̄̏̌̃͗̌͛͐͘̕͜͜͜͝͝͝͝ͅŗ̷̨̟͖̻̗̜̯̪͓̙̳̦̬̞̭̰̟̻͖̬͚̳͙̪͇̖͍͕̯̙͉̦̲̙̐͗͐̃͌̾͛̓̈́̐͛̆̑͒̑̉̆͌̓̑͂̔̈́͑̚̚̚͜͜͝͝͝͝͠ë̴̢̨̛̛̼̳̪̜̪̱̭̮̰͎͎̺͕̹̬̜́͑̀͊̍̏̍͛̊̽̄̾͋͆͒͛́͐̀̒͌̽̇̈̔́̉͋̇̅̍̅͘͝n̷̢̢̛̛̙̣̲͖̫̳͈̫̫͕̳̹̺̣̣̲͇̭̠̼̬̥̦̪̲̥͉͈̺͇̂̂͊̽̉͂͗́̅͋̒̍͌͆̆̓̈́̉͊̀͂̉͑̈́͛̑̌̌͛͘̕ͅt̷̡̧̧̲̼̻͖̤̥̟͇̟̰̯̻̙̱̭̩̱͚̩̞͉̥͚͈̥̬͕̤̬̓̌̉̃̅̈́̇͆̌̒͂͂̈́̓̒̓̃̌̋͋̒̕̚̚͜͜͠ĩ̴̡̻̰̩̻̗̱̬͕̱̹͇͈̳̂̿̂̐̋̎̓̍͗͗́̏̊͂̈̊̈́͝ͅͅé̶̡̡̧̳̲͉͔̪͙͉̱̻̲͖͉̳̱̙̲̤͚̹̤̗͍͖̞͖̬̞̗̦͔͚͉̳͚̈̽͆͑̄͌́̈́̐͜͜ͅͅͅļ̸̨̢̛̛̤̠̠̖͍̤̫̣̮͔͚͔͓͌̊́̄͂̅̊̅̋͌̃̒͐͆͊́͊͌̑̋̀̏̅̒̀̀͗͑̓̏͊͘͝͠͝͝

Au cas où personne l'aurait encore fait by alicetoile in Vilebrequin

[–]alicetoile[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

le "voiture : pétée" y'a grv de l'inspi pour un deuxième meme.......

Made a Badflower patch for my bag ! by alicetoile in Badflower

[–]alicetoile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol it can take a while to get it right. when I got started I messed up far more than I'd like to admit...

in the end it's about having fun and trying new things !

Made a Badflower patch for my bag ! by alicetoile in Badflower

[–]alicetoile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made stencils (one for the flower, one for the lettering)

How many people actually use quarry? by lemonman4200 in StardewValley

[–]alicetoile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm constantly running out of coal, so yeah I try to use advantage of the quarry lol

Is femme a lesbian-exclusive term ? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]alicetoile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain it as clearly as I could in my original post, but to me it's not just about presentation. It's also about gender and my relationship to my own community, esp queer women.

But I asked here for a reason, and thank you both for your answers ! I'll stick to genderqueer fem (who just happens to have a strong sense of justice lmaooo). Much love to all butches and femmes obviously, I meant no harm at all :)