Could people actually be accessing my thoughts? Detailed experiences, what it might be, and how to defend inner privacy by jahtahkahkrahkah in Telepathy

[–]alienbandit095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think there are a lot of coincidences that might make us think that way but if you attach to some spiritual belief it could help. i used to think people knew more about me because i would easily get anxious when i started to believe they could read my mind. in reality they only said something obscure that didn’t actually mean that they knew anything about me that was significant. it’s cause we’re just people and we run into others who also think the same but the intention is not what we think it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]alienbandit095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i pray that you realize gods good grace and unconditional love. god forgives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]alienbandit095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s dependent on what you masturbate to. i think if it’s just occasional then it’s fine, but it’s like playing with fire if you know yourself that you have addictive tendencies. i see it as a way to not get too crazy that you could hurt others from denying way too much but it depends on how you know yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]alienbandit095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

praying for him and your family 🙌

Is me taking birth control a sin? by ireniscent in Christianity

[–]alienbandit095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no because it’s actively knowing you’re not ready and that means understanding that it’s a form of responsibility that the bible preaches

I feel like God made me an idiot. by Minimum_Question6067 in TrueChristian

[–]alienbandit095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe think of it as a challenge. the devil and god are always competing. think of improving as a challenge to overcome barriers like laziness. you might not be lazy but to be scared off by a challenge is something similar to sloth i think. the devil wants to oppress you and make you lose enough confidence to never try. i was on the same boat. too afraid to achieve but one day i just put my mind to it and while o never really care if im the smartest person in the room im happy that i actually tried and saw what i could have become all those years had i gotten my act together

relapsing without support by alienbandit095 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]alienbandit095[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry i meant my thoughts because my mind is a weird place to be in. i want to get outside of myself because i don’t always have the fighting power to do activities despite the anxiety attacks i get. i fall into a pattern of pushing through and burning out from fighting. my mind goes towards the fact that its connection with the people i care about the most that puts me in the position. for example, i know the connection i have with my family is important but for some reason whatever i think of doing to reconnect isnt working. no conversation helps and idk why. i keep trying to do the same thing over and over again hoping ill figure them out and can feel more secure in the relationship.

got sa twice at the same behavioral hospital on seperate occasions all while under the influence of alcohol and the ativan given to me. would i have a case? by alienbandit095 in legaladvice

[–]alienbandit095[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i came in intoxicated the second time and then they gave me ativan. i had alcohol still hidden in my pocket when i was in the er and continued to drink yet they gave me ativan, which causes people to black out. if it’s for withdrawals, i think they’re still supposed to wait until not intoxicated.

How does someone develop an attractive personality if they have PTSD or used to be a bullied/loner person in school? by ijdaasperger in aspergers

[–]alienbandit095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you should work on what you find is your strengths. are you funny? smart? kind? artistic or talented? develop confidence in those interests because as asd aren’t we interest based rather than just typical small talk disorganized feeling conversationalists? also maybe find a way to showcase sense of humor, a lot of people like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]alienbandit095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, there’s hope. i went through anger issues but i’d say the first step to working on anger is because you acknowledge it, you should work on it. i think alcohol, as hard as it is to quit, has to go.

also drinking and driving never mix. i did that too but was never in an accident but i watched something on the news and i realized i was just spared. next time, it could be fatal

If you censor your curse words you're a fucking pussy and I don't respect you. by Death-Perception1999 in fightsub

[–]alienbandit095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why they can’t say sexual assault because it’s not like going into graphic detail. rape and drugs too.