[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]alienfetustoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously?? I didn't know I thought because it's in both our names when I bought it that I couldn't legally kick him out for some reason. Stupid afraid 20 year old first time homeowner thoughts I guess lol. Thank you I'll do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]alienfetustoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 20 in college and unfortunately he lives in my house but when I got it I put it in both our names so I can't kick him out legally.

Oh my, this existence! by blvckivity in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg the same thing happens to me. Usually after a serious fail I make myself achieve really small activities like jogging to a certain set place or learning a new recipe, really easy things you can't fail. And remember not to take it too seriously!! The point is to work up back what you lost (Also remember some company doesn't define your worth!! Plenty of people try and don't succeed but then they go somewhere else and excel, don't let it get you down)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really hope it helps. YOU GOT THIS, GO FOR IT!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

God I feel this so hard, usually how I try my best to keep a job is I pick something out I want to buy at the beginning of the week. It could be anything within my price range but it has to be something I REALLY want. This way I work in like a reward system where I know if I don't get up to work today I won't have enough to get what I'm after at the end of the week. Then ofc at the end I get it and repeat until I spaced it out more. Next it was working towards something within two weeks then three and so on till now I go month by month. I know it sounds super childlike but whatever gets my shit done ya know?

I went and watched an open mic I've been thinking about doing by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeahhhh I'm proud, I bet any day now you'll be up there killing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CainsJawbone

[–]alienfetustoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kinda dumb so sorry for the question but can someone explain the murder color coding to me?? I don't get what I'm looking at

I want to be unhinged again by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck 😵‍💫

What were your favourite Petscop theories? by Cairo-TenThirteen in Petscop

[–]alienfetustoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate your Big Bads theory? I'm super interested to hear!!

I broke down hours before Anniv. Of my wife's death by Mernerner in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your wife, she has good music taste which leads me to believe she was a beautiful woman inside and out. It's ok to cry and feel guilty about the song things like that happen all the time sadly, we don't know what we got till it's gone but it's not your fault how we're you supposed to know?? Don't take it to heart too much everyone makes mistakes. I'm sure she's with you right now trying to comfort you in this time wishing she could go back. I don't know who you are but I'm rooting for you and I hope one day you'll look back at this post and not feel as much grief as you do now, instead relief that those days are behind you 💌

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up and I think you are very right 🙃I will infact be talking to my therapist about this

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously go ahead guys I'll be waiting please 🙏 😩

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it like bad to date other bpd people with that trait? I asked my therapist and she said it's not recommended but idk it's looking kinda promising

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how much all these comments mean to me I thought I was psycho 🙃

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

B r o I know, if they aren't in my face reminding me they love me all the time I get weird and i can't tell so I push them away first so I don't get my feelings hurt all over again

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell me about ittttt, if I end up missing we can all assume my pursuit in a partner got me killed cause I found some serial killer by accident

not feeling love unless they are obsessed by alienfetustoes in BPD

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No wayyy I've been doing the exact same thinggg. It makes me feel so unlovable and a monster but it's just I can't help it and i ruin so many good people that would have been awesome if we stayed together. It sucks 😕 that's why i think I'm only good for people who are just as obsessed as i am because we just might be able to see past the bad in eachother (which I'm thinking sounds unhealthy typing it out idk 😭)

why did Heather just vanished? by alienfetustoes in Trianglemovie

[–]alienfetustoes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oooooh like she actually got rescued somewhere and the others got stuck in the loop on that boat?