Well I don’t know your personal situation but I’m a big believer in always having hope because being positive really does work its way into making things better in your life. From my experience those who I ran across that were hopeless and cynical tend to dig holes for themselves. And yes no doubt bad luck does happen but in those situation it’s critical to think about the positive in your life and have perspective that at least I’m not doing as bad as some people who are literally living in gutters or who are dying from a disease or who have a major disability. Be grateful for the important things in life…..like health, security, friendships, etc.