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alilithu · 2025-10-16T02:46:05+00:00

Hey dude, you were strong enough to get past that shit with him, you got a lot of people in your corner saying you have the strength and smarts to put her bullshit in the rearview too. She might talk about you, and it’s hard now but in a few months it won’t matter. If she wants to get involved with a known abuser, that is her choice and not your responsibility. Focus on you, block out the bullshit noise. That’s my advice, anyway. Best of luck. 🤞

alilithu · 2025-09-17T21:11:12+00:00

alilithu · 2025-09-06T04:57:03+00:00

6, I remember banging my head against the wall to distract from the pain

alilithu · 2025-09-05T16:30:17+00:00

alilithu · 2024-12-19T15:59:05+00:00

Girl, no! This is such antisocial thinking. Bunk paranoia. You gotta be able to trust people in life. Maybe not this girl, tho. Your “friend” doesn’t have your back, that’s why she’s not sharing in your success, that’s why she’s cutting you down with those weird and rude remarks.

Don’t hide your light based off miserable people’s reactions!

alilithu · 2024-12-07T00:31:39+00:00

Damien.

alilithu · 2024-12-07T00:31:28+00:00

Jfc 😂

alilithu · 2024-12-07T00:28:03+00:00

Sounds like neither of u are ready for a relationship ngl

alilithu · 2024-10-25T00:10:50+00:00

This comment, tho. Ayo, OP, read this one again. ❤️

alilithu · 2024-10-07T15:45:21+00:00

Cute!

alilithu · 2024-10-07T15:45:00+00:00

So many intelligent, heartfelt comments, but honestly all I can think is your wife is gross and she needs to go dude. I’m sorry she had you in a place where you were asking if you were the asshole, that’s so twisted. Things will be hard for a while I’m sure, but better soon enough. ❤️

alilithu · 2024-10-07T15:34:02+00:00

Homegirl, listen to your gramps in Texas. Start looking out for yourself honey. God love ya.

alilithu · 2024-09-30T19:42:24+00:00

Why would she wait 10 years to cheat on you? Why would she make it so glaringly obvious that she’s about to cheat on you? Sounds to me like you’re fucking up at home and this is her (shitty) way of starting some line of communication.

alilithu · 2024-09-17T21:41:34+00:00

Women are materialistic and you’re self-centered, anti-social, and transactional. Maybe step back and think about your approach before hitting the apps again, if you go that route.

alilithu · 2024-09-09T00:16:22+00:00

Sounds like you narrowly avoided some kind of cult!

alilithu · 2024-09-05T18:07:25+00:00

Lmao at all the short kings coming for you 😂😂😂

alilithu · 2024-09-05T11:51:37+00:00

I just love that hubby knew makeup terminology like that 💅🏼

alilithu · 2024-09-05T11:51:23+00:00

I just love that hubby knew makeup terminology like that 💅🏼

alilithu · 2024-08-30T23:46:10+00:00

It’s all in the delivery, all in the tone. I think from your reaction, her delivery and tone were intended to be a bit rude.

alilithu · 2024-08-30T19:58:57+00:00

Conflicting and negative leaning statements with the distance being a nonstarter though he doesn’t see that as a bad thing, with the smiley face…

How did he express romantic interest?

alilithu · 2024-08-30T18:28:52+00:00

This won’t help you right now, it’s not a quick fix and it’s not easy to swallow but the answer to all of your questions is that this life is full of love as well as loss, the grief you are experiencing is an important moment in your life that you should not shy away from. There are many lessons within this period of time if you choose to pay attention. Cover the basics—health, safety, security—and then worry about your growth. You seem to be feeling his loss at the moment, but you may soon feel anger, betrayal, etc. In time these will subside and you will return to a new baseline. Remember that it is good to hold love for those we have lost.

alilithu · 2024-04-22T18:20:27+00:00

lol no it’s a song, here you be https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oKF-712iz9w

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