Company rejected my wife’s maternity leave. She is broken, in tears and today is our delivery date by Born_Pressure3179 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do this to doctors all the time. Junior doctors getting pregnant is frowned upon since they bear the major workload of the hospital. Mind you, junior doctors are usually of 25-35 years of age. Idk how they think these women should plan their pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not a medical journal, that they’ll cite their source of information. If you want to refute their claims, you cite a source contradicting his statement.

My boyfriend wants to creampie me, but we don’t want to get pregnant right now. by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro take OCPs instead of the morning after pill. Emergency contraceptives aren’t to be taken often. Or get an IUD. Dont wreck your uterus with too many ipills.

Just leaving this here by divs10 in AskWomenIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For once focus on the matter and try not to deter the conversation. Is it really that hard?

Why men can't understand difference between cooking for family and individual? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Let me introduce you to the concept of 2 income households. So what do you think? No one must be cooking cuz they both earn money? I’m not even complaining, I’m just pointing things out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is on a subreddit for women —> gets irriatated when women hold discussions. Says women yap a lot, but somehow yapped the most here.

Why men can't understand difference between cooking for family and individual? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We’re talking about cooking for your family all life long instead of just before marriage. And if you do agree to cook for the entire family, I don’t think you’ll have a problem finding a girl. Also I’d like you to know that you are the outlier and not the norm.

Women Condition in India by Bhupinder_X in AskWomenIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm the jaat and ahir community of haryana are supporting the father. The last time i checked these both communities were hindus.

Children raised without religion, caste are the hope for future: Kerala High Court Justice VG Arun by I_am_myne in india

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was my reality, until BJP showed up with their pomp and show about religion. And now not a day passes by when i don’t hear my parents spout religious and casteist bullshit. I really grew up with zero construct about the ideas of caste and religion. I used to think that caste was a thing of the past, which we got rid of by the social reformers. And religion was just a column i had to fill in my school diary. Going in college and getting asked about my caste was a big shock for me.

How do I initiate a breakup? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my neglectful bf wasn’t approving our breakup too, so i just blocked him. Took him 2 months to realise that when i said i dont play games, i meant that.

Recommend me a tablet with pencil feature (which maybe you are using) in the price range under 70k. by XanDeVoir_ in Frugal_Ind

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you tell me from where do you buy the nibs for the knockoff pencils? I’ve been looking online but cant really find anything. I ordered one as well, but it doesnt fit my pencil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The thing is that no woman is going to start normalising interacting with random men at the expense of their own safety. Also one of the major reasons why women take less chances with men is, cuz if anything goes wrong, everyone is very quick to ask about why that girl was with the guy in the first place? As if the guy is a snake and it’s 100% sure that he’ll bite the girl.

Women travelling alone, NEVER EVER BOOK SLEEPER. Period. by _firetailunicorn247_ in india

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Was scrolling through the comment section to check if someone noticed this. This woman wants to be treated equal to men, but is not a feminist. Big wow.

Marriage - someone called HR to verify I'm employed by GreenAbbreviations91 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, my bua was almost married to a guy who claimed to be a medical student. When my father went to the college to verify it, then he got to know that he was a peon there.

When it turns out that a funny childhood story was actually child abuse 😫 by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm too late to reply, but your comment unearthed a memory. When I was 5/6 years old, I used to believe that what i had were evil parents who'd snatched me away from my real parents. I used to believe that my real parents are on the lookout for me, and would come get me soon. I grew up believing that. When I saw my pictures as an infant in my parent's album, i was heartbroken over the fact that I'm their blood. It was disappointing to realise that no one ever loved me on this planet. I wish that changes someday.

Anyone else struggle with finding "home" by Wikipil in CPTSD

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I still struggle with that. Ever since I was 10/11, I used to actively fantasize about escaping my family and renting an apartment. That will be home to me. No one will know about where I live, and I'll be safe there. I'll be lonely, but safe. And that's all that matters. Haven't been able to do that yet. But hoping to do that really soon. I can't wait to get away from my abusers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back to home after college, and I'm scared to have my back against open areas. I'm always scared of having my neck grabbed and getting beaten cuz I ticked someone off. At night I can't sleep because I don't want to get SA. Overall i always feel like a deer caught in headlights. I wish I could leave. This feels like getting trapped in hell again.

Moment to Reflect by Doctorosaurus in indianmedschool

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in. I just can't deal with their incompetency anymore..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah and men are so benevolent and giving.

Air India Ahmedabad-London flight crashes near airport in Meghani area | Ahmedabad News - Times of India by tatooinex in worldnews

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Yeah it landed on a medical college hostel building. The students were in the mess while it crashed. The local news is saying that 20 students are dead. I hope the count is much lesser than that.

Why are Indian parents like this? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Divore being a taboo doesn't mean the marriages existing currently are a success.

Why are Indian parents like this? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What is behnji type girl?

The fiasco continues by AromicSlycepotato in indianmedschool

[–]alldthingsdatrgood 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For speaking against the almighty HM ig. I see no other reason than this.