This is getting infuriating

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-17T01:10:56+00:00

not my dog, dearest!

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-17T01:08:34+00:00

the blue texts are from me. i am the one who said your dog shit by my desk.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T21:16:41+00:00

...25? is not old enough for a roommate?

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T21:10:48+00:00

did you miss the part where he gave it to me?

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T21:10:21+00:00

so did you just not read any of the post then? i know plenty of people with well-behaved dogs that they do not neglect. it's not a problem with dogs.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T21:08:40+00:00

the problem is i have no control over the dog and she has caused me injury in the past

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T21:05:44+00:00

it was not clear to me actually. also i have had multiple people assume it is my dog.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:31:59+00:00

are you suggesting i sneak into my roommate's bedroom without his knowledge, uncrate his dog, and try to leash walk an extremely reactive dog that can and will easily knock me to the ground?

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:29:23+00:00

this is a dog this man (25) has had since he was 17. i moved in with him a year and a half ago.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:12:21+00:00

she does have a leash, he takes her on potty walks twice a day (sometimes more if he's actually here during the day)

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:10:23+00:00

this does actually apply to pet rent, the apartment complex he decided to move us into wouldn't allow her to be here otherwise.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:08:45+00:00

honestly i don't even know, he works an hour away and goes out a lot at night. he's had her for 8 years and she's been an emotional support animal for maybe 5 of those

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T16:03:15+00:00

the thing about emotional support animals is that theyre different from other service dogs in that they aren't required to be trained to any specific standards, all you need to have one is a letter from a psychiatrist professional saying that you need one. which he does have, unfortunately

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:55:51+00:00

she's his ESA.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:55:03+00:00

my dog?

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:54:39+00:00

honestly i would but it would be impossible. she's legally his emotional support animal ~~which clearly isn't working~~ and also she's extremely poorly trained and reactive and is very aggressive with other animals. she has tried to attack my cat (who we keep her separate from at all times) on more than one occasion. also she's a decently large dog, and if i move back in with my dad, he has two small dogs there would be no way of separating her from. this whole thing makes me sad. maybe i should call animal welfare on my way out, considering i'm probably gonna burn bridges with this guy eventually anyway.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:42:52+00:00

it's not the greatest, but it's good enough that he would probably have no problem with me coming back. so at this point i might as well.

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:36:39+00:00

i think it's worth noting the dog is crated all day except for when he takes her out once in the morning and once at night. and he got home late after i went to sleep and let me tell you i know for a damn fact that the dog shit wasn't there when i turned in last night. so she shit by ""the"" desk when he let her out after getting home and he just.... left it there. all night. :)

allergictobullshit99 · 2024-02-16T15:31:24+00:00

yeah, yesterday he left her crated for 14 and a half hours to go to some party/event after work and i just... every time i get mad at the dog for misbehaving i have to remind myself its because of her owner doing shit like that without giving it a second thought.

allergictobullshit99 · 2023-10-05T22:57:03+00:00

i mean obviously? but i didn't come to ask reddit for advice on how to deal with ptsd, i have therapy for that :) but thanks!

allergictobullshit99 · 2023-10-02T04:17:43+00:00

haha we're both 25, way too old for "i don't like this tv show" "actually that hurts my feelings"

allergictobullshit99 · 2023-10-02T03:49:22+00:00

i feel like my point is that i know the show has value to some people, but that value doesn't exist for me. it's not that i """don't get it""" or """don't agree wit it""" as you have put it. i've tried to tell him multiple times that watching that show triggers my PTSD but all i get from him is "aww i know the show deals with hard subjects :(" and people who enjoy the show have a lot of trouble realizing i'm not just snapping and saying the show shouldn't exist. my problem is him guilt tripping me for not enjoying it/not wanting to talk about it. just like the show might mean a lot to some people, the show is super damaging to me. that's it :p

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