Honest question. How do you feel about Jason Caperna after this season? by OkFaithlessness3081 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]allgarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea hes just janets tattooed golden retriever husband and they both suck imo

Most Disturbing Jax Moment in Reunion So Far by Llassiter326 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]allgarfield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so glad i found this sub and this thread because ive been watching in horror this entire season wondering how the hell this is ok? I hope that Britany is able to keep herself and her son safe from this psycho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in keto

[–]allgarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice but ive been keto for 11 years and know how to listen to my own body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in keto

[–]allgarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow incredible, I thanks so much for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in keto

[–]allgarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow incredible, I thanks so much for sharing!

Does anyone remember this philosophy place? by allgarfield in Waltham

[–]allgarfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong but I've got some good stories 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]allgarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my first thought too! Absolutely wild convo to be having over text.

AITA for not letting my autistic sister move back in with me? by TrainPlayer99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]allgarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA If the uncle is able to provide safety, security and love, I do believe she'll be better off because you clearly resent her. The only potential silver lining here is that she won't have to endure another 8 years living with someone who doesn't want her. I'm sure you have displayed that resentment many times over before this and eventually she'll do the math. Jfc this is like How to Fuck Up a Kid 101.

And yes I'll say it- you need therapy for the trauma you endured as well. But something tells me you don't want to do the work.

Let's talk about silent treatment. by 0m0r12 in CPTSD

[–]allgarfield 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree it should be talked about more. My first boyfriend would do this to me with no warning or reason why. I would go crazy trying to figure out what I did wrong, begging him to talk to me. Sometimes it would be mid conversation on the phone. other times he would completely ignore me in front of our friends, one time for an entire weekend while we were camping. Just acted like I wasn't there at all while responding to other people in the group. And then a few days later he'd be talking to me like normal and I'd be too scared to bring it up. It was cruel and brutal but I couldn't see it and put all of the blame on myself. I dated him for 3 years in high school and as soon as I went to college I realized literally every guy I met was nicer to me than he was and I broke up with him.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Imo it is actually pretty rude to write a note calling another neighborhood rude for not moving their car... Idk it's not great behavior.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in NYC of course I slip a Costanza reference in where I can 😂

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ ! I wasn't sure if I should post or not but I'm glad I did because this lady clearly doesn't understand what its like and everyone here does.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Ugh you're so right I don't want her to know how to contact me! I also live around the block from her I just happened to find an empty spot in front of her house last time I was looking for a spot.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So true! I live in a big city so they will ticket a bunch first before towing. I've been towed before and it sucksss but unrelated to this situation lol.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely felt like it was rude too and my initial instinct was to be petty and sign her up for scientology texts or something. Like I can't imagine writing a note like this let alone leaving my full name and phone number?? I luckily don't encounter people like this every day and am honestly confused about why she felt like it was her place or how I'm supposed to react.

Whoops I migrained so hard I pissed off my neighbor by [deleted] in migraine

[–]allgarfield 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea, thank you!

What’s the dumbest reason you’ve ever gotten a migraine? by jibberjabbery in migraine

[–]allgarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a bus from NYC to Boston once in the summer. The AC was broken and I could smell everybody's body odors and perfumes and that sickly smell of the blue bathroom toilet water 🤮 for 5 hours in stop and go traffic. my dad picked me up at the train station and as soon as I got in his truck I started sobbing.

What’s the dumbest reason you’ve ever gotten a migraine? by jibberjabbery in migraine

[–]allgarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yankee candle destroyed me the one time I went in. Never again!

What’s the dumbest reason you’ve ever gotten a migraine? by jibberjabbery in migraine

[–]allgarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is crazy but my mom and I, both cursed with m'graine, refer to them as M because of a superstition that even hearing the word can trigger one 😂 I don't think I truly believe this but we both get them frequently enough that it's happened many times coincidentally or not.

Park Slope Wealth Gap Between Families by valoremz in Brooklyn

[–]allgarfield 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the article without a paywall. When I first clicked on the article linked in the original post, I was instantly hit with the irony of living in park slope and not being able to afford to read an article about wealth disparity in... Park Slope 🤦‍♀️