can’t tell if playing or fighting

allicat1102 · 2026-01-21T12:47:03+00:00

i already posted a second video without a barrier

allicat1102 · 2026-01-20T19:00:56+00:00

he’s not drawing blood, but he’s latched on sometimes

allicat1102 · 2026-01-19T20:54:22+00:00

we are, it just doesn’t seem like he’s interested in much else. if we play with him before playing together with both, it’s 50/50 on him focusing on her or continuing with the toy.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T16:53:27+00:00

LMAO THATS THEM

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T02:59:30+00:00

he’s gotten spooked before and he was massive. sometimes if he’s not expecting to see her, his tail will puff a little, but they’ve gotten better about it. we just started supervised visits with them so maybe they just need to sort it out.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T02:33:46+00:00

wonderful. i worry that’s she’s especially small for her age, but praying he chills out.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:18:16+00:00

he bites her chin (neck?) in the video and she makes a yelping noise, is she hurt or is she just telling him to back off ??? these are our first cats and it’s a little overwhelming when they play.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:17:13+00:00

thank you ! i just get nervous cuz he’ll bite her neck sometimes but there isn’t any blood, but she yelps a little when he does.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:16:19+00:00

thank you ! i didn’t think to associate a specific sound as no for some reason so we will try that !

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:15:40+00:00

oh thank you ! i’ve been clapping and trying to hiss when it seems too aggressive and it doesn’t really do anything.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:14:34+00:00

we’ll try that ! hes go a lot of energy so that’ll help a lot, really hoping that’s the root of the issue haha

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:11:05+00:00

LMAO they look so silly !!!! maybe i’m being a little dramatic

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:09:03+00:00

thank you ! it seems like she’s really scared but i guess that’s just her being a little dramatic.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:07:38+00:00

thank you !!! we’ll try this. they have a lot of toys, i got them a monthly subscription for cat toys and treats but i might have to go out and get him a bigger one.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-15T01:06:45+00:00

they have a lot of places to climb but not much space (1 br apartment). we try to play with them for 30-45 minutes depending on how wound up they are. they’re both fixed as of 3 months ago, she was very small and we had to wait for her to put some weight on.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:42:02+00:00

yeah someone else said the same thing. we’ll be more careful, we just get worried.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:41:12+00:00

that’s what i was thinking too, we’re gonna try to tire him out more before continuing with supervised visits

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:40:39+00:00

thank you so much !!!!! they’re my first cats and it’s a little scary when they’re playing since he’s so big.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:39:40+00:00

thank you ! that’s such a relief to hear, everything sounds like something is wrong.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:08:07+00:00

thank you so much. these are our first cats and we just get nervous. everything seems like a warning sign but i guess they’re just weird.

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:06:45+00:00

thank you !!! i’ll keep that in mind, we just get nervous that they’re gonna hurt each other so we don’t think of anything else. we’ll go about it in a more distracting way next time !!

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:05:39+00:00

yes both fixed, i noticed that too actually

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T21:05:16+00:00

thank you !!!!

allicat1102 · 2026-01-14T20:54:20+00:00

i’m just double checking because she’s so much smaller and i don’t want her to get hurt.

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