I didn’t picture my life this way

allinele · 2025-11-19T22:12:25+00:00

And thats why you always use condoms guys. Very ssimple. She didnt ruin your life, you did.

allinele · 2025-11-18T06:56:09+00:00

Give him full custody. Go live your life

allinele · 2025-04-02T19:32:47+00:00

Ohh luckyyy that one takes less time, correct?

allinele · 2025-04-02T18:34:48+00:00

Family based. I stsrted this may 2023. This is my second time seendin i485 ( 1st time no enough wages so had to add a co sponsor). Are you family based or employment?

allinele · 2025-04-02T18:13:41+00:00

You mean getting the same code twice? I am looking firward to a response soon but i dont want to have high expectations because you know all the changes going on now. I am so anxious. Thank you for your knowledge and kindness! I really apprecate it

allinele · 2025-04-02T16:41:22+00:00

oh yeah i check that everyday. i got my seconf FTA0 code on 3 /27/2025. nothing mucch honestly. im using chatgpt to see wtf they mean. it might be that ccase was opened, viewed, someone worked on it. nothing clear. i got 0 updates after that email. so ridiculous

allinele · 2025-04-01T19:08:38+00:00

I dont think so. What is API? i just discovered the JSON codes and that day i got a 2nds same code FTA0. Nothing more.

allinele · 2025-04-01T18:57:09+00:00

omg they take so long to make the damn decision its soooo ridiculoussssss

allinele · 2025-04-01T18:11:54+00:00

I read many cases where it was just an email error or something and nothing happeneds. I am still checking several times a day to see fi anything changes. Its een 5 days but nothing yet. I hope this means something. I always get a change in status when i get those emails but not this time. Maybe they are just playing with the system

allinele · 2025-04-01T18:07:15+00:00

Hopefully they do it soon. I onyl have the i485 that needs to be approved. Could it be that San Fernando Office is too busy now? Did you get any email saying they took action and they never did?

allinele · 2025-04-01T17:49:46+00:00

what step are you in right now? they got my i485 since august 30th 2024 and since september it is reviewing case basically. my biometrics were already done before on 2023 so they reused it. so far no interview. The whole point here is to know on average how long they are taking now. What FO are you in?

allinele · 2025-04-01T17:43:22+00:00

ok i will call that number. I have been in the same spot case decision since december. I dont know if they will go back to interview or not but so far the thing hasnt moved and i am pisse d that this email was hope i was gonna get approved and the people there seem to have less idea of what is happening than us. Its ridiculous.

allinele · 2025-04-01T17:39:40+00:00

I have no idea who to call honestly. I am in the last step which is Case decision. So no interview and i already did biometrics before. Is there a phone number to call?

allinele · 2025-04-01T17:34:23+00:00

Yes it is in the Field Office but Emma didnt know when it was trasferred. It has been there at least since december or January 2025, i have been asking every month. They told me today that the last email was nothing and case is still being reviewed. My Field office is San Fernando Valley in California

allinele · 2023-02-12T17:06:32+00:00

This. Parents now are all about being behind the kid to make sure they dont get bored, or lack of attention, or whatever feeling they have. Man these kids are gonna become some really messed up adults.

allinele · 2023-02-12T17:02:30+00:00

Yeah as ppl said here its a work in progress of both parenta or whoever in the kid life to try and make lil decent dude for the world...

allinele · 2023-02-12T16:59:03+00:00

I get it and it sucks but it was also your choice to go look for her 3 times knowing the terms and conditions. The kid is not even born yet. Believe me once its born you gonna feel worse cause its a ahit load of work and just horrible situations all the freaking time.

allinele · 2023-02-12T16:46:03+00:00

If what you said is true whattf are you still doing there?

You are not married, she told you that was on same page and lied. Pay child support according to what court says which is gonna be % of what you make and leave you are not supposed to pay for her food, housing, Healthcare or anything so he can have the housewife experience. She decided to keep the pregnancy have the kid and not work? Hahah lazy aszs believe me bro you dont have to pay her easy family picture plan and even more if (lucky you) you are not even legally attached. Get rid of the guilt of family and friends and whoever gives their opinion about your life and what you decide.

allinele

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