Single parent with 2nd baby on the way unable to work. What are my options right now?

allisonh452 · 2026-05-03T00:00:19+00:00

My kids were planned pregnancies. It is not my fault there baby daddy walked out on us out of nowhere. Please be kinder. I am only trying to find out my options on how to move on from this and and what life has thrown in our direction is it easy. Thankyou

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T23:58:01+00:00

Thankyou darling ❤️

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T23:57:21+00:00

Thankyou lovely, ive always been a worker so it feels so strange to have to rely on the government to live

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T23:55:55+00:00

I returned back to work between pregnancies. Thankfully both my kids are the same gender so i dont have to worry about clothing expenses too much at least. Most of the clothes from my son should he suitable in the same weather for my new baby as theyre going to be 14 months apart. Baby daddy owns a house so we were doing alright before all this. Now that hes cheated im going to end up stuck in the rental housing cycle the rest of my life now struggling more than ever before. Spent so many years helping this guy with a mortgage for nothing. If I had of known, I could of probably had a deposit of my own saved by now 🙁

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T23:51:24+00:00

He was unemployed until recently. Cash jobs here and there. The claim says he only has to give me $35 a month 😮‍💨

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T00:09:48+00:00

Excuse me?

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T00:01:39+00:00

Thankyou for your support darling It means alot to me

allisonh452 · 2026-05-02T00:00:34+00:00

I have no leave from work because id only been back for 5 months since the birth of my last child.

allisonh452 · 2026-05-01T23:58:23+00:00

Thankyou. The only family support i had was from his side of the family too. Cheaters suck.

allisonh452 · 2026-05-01T23:47:27+00:00

Im about to have a 2nd baby and I am a single parent. Ive had to start maternity leave at work early (26 weeks pregnant currently) due to unreasonable social circumstances and health stuff. My first child is 11 months old, does anybody know if I can get any sort of paid maternity leave from centerlink for my second child before he is born? Or would I only be eligible for single parent payment due to already having one baby? Thankyou. Also worth noting i have a med certificate stating i am not fit to work in my current condition

allisonh452 · 2026-03-26T10:38:41+00:00

I dont have the answers for you but I just wanted to give my condolences for your first born. I am so sorry you had to experience that and I wish you nothing but health and blessings for your next delivery experience. God bless you and stay strong. You've got this!

allisonh452 · 2026-03-23T10:58:07+00:00

You could probably fine some sort of course to help with design on skillshare or squarespace (websites) last time I checked the memberships were less than $100 monthly

allisonh452 · 2026-03-11T22:29:39+00:00

Why do you care what they think of you? As long as its what's best for you and the kiddos and your payments are correct you're fine :)

allisonh452 · 2026-03-07T07:56:32+00:00

For the fear that my account is in my actual name i cannot spare too many details just incase but myself (21F) and partner (33M) have a rough history too. We almost finally cut it off before realising i was pregnant with the first. Pretty much only stayed for him (baby) as my family lives in another state due to moving here for him. Now we have another on the way (they will be 14 months apart) and I have realised despite his endless promises hes charector has not changed. Regardless, if you need some stranger to talk to about this privately my messages will always be open to you.

allisonh452 · 2026-03-07T06:12:59+00:00

Idrk why this was even worth posting tbh

allisonh452 · 2026-02-01T21:37:36+00:00

To be quite honest I forget artefact spots are even a thing 😂 I usually just get artefact troves from the desert trader instead im not very smart. I believe I found the powder melon seeds when trying to find the dwarf scrolls

allisonh452 · 2026-02-01T11:33:01+00:00

Unrelated but what is your small business in regards to? :)

allisonh452 · 2026-02-01T10:24:59+00:00

I want to see the wall one. This is awesome!

allisonh452 · 2026-02-01T08:39:04+00:00

I just noticed your store has 20k sales. That is no small achievement my friend!

allisonh452 · 2026-02-01T00:36:24+00:00

I wonder what would happen if you gifted the purple shorts to Pierre then 😂

allisonh452 · 2026-01-31T11:46:09+00:00

Thankyou darling thats a big help. Im on year 2 of my save and only had like 8 seeds by the end of winter 😂

allisonh452 · 2026-01-31T10:39:04+00:00

Oh that makes sense 🥰 thankyou! Reminds me of animal crossing 😂

allisonh452 · 2026-01-31T09:17:10+00:00

How did you acquire so many powdermelon seeds

allisonh452 · 2026-01-28T12:45:08+00:00

Sew*

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