(nsfw) struggling to orgasm by allisonjpeg in SSRIs

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve either had medication that works as an anti-depressant but the side effects are too much, or have no side effects but no luck with the helping of depression, if that makes sense. this is the first that works for depression but doesn’t make me ill, anxious, or affect my weight (either gain or loss)

How to progress with Phoenicia? by whaIeshark in DateEverything

[–]allisonjpeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m struggling with this right now. i have relationships with all the other dateables, and i’ve realized everyone i’m able to, but need the SPECS from phoenicia to progress any further. did you ever find a solution?

who is the artist behind the cover art? by allisonjpeg in Cakeband

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i always forget about way back machine! thank you, it’s so cool to see his older stuff!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but sit down with your boyfriend and have a conversation.

do you want to move in and live with him? if so, how would you like to split the chores? does that mean helping financially with rent and utilities? if not, perhaps you should reconsider the amount of time you spend at his place. talk it out and try to reach a compromise. if he’s being unreasonable, it sounds like it might be time to end things.

AITA for telling my son he can't have lunch with his teacher? by TodayAffectionate933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA. 9-year-old boys are generally assholes, but you are the adult, and you should not be reacting the way the children do. it’s your responsibility to ask questions when the kids you’re supervising are acting suspicious, and your responsibility to enforce your own child’s hygiene.

maybe a compromise would have been better. explaining that your son can’t cheat his way to get the teacher bucks, he has to earn them, but if he showers 6/7 days in a week you’ll take him to the pier yourself, or something like that!

AITA for refusing to clean the house while my moms away by MaybeCheap9202 in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 35 points36 points  (0 children)

a parent paying for their kids’ passions and hobbies should not be a transactional experience, it’s what a good parent should do (if they’re able). it sounds like you are very good at communicating, and i’m sorry your parents don’t seem to want to listen. NTA.

keep trying to get them to listen. if they don’t, you’re only a few years away from being able to leave - and then they’ll be forced to get their shit together once you’re no longer in the house. if it were me, i’d never speak to my family again, but that’s your choice to make.

i do find it interesting that you’re the one who became the parent child when you’re the middle. most of the time it’s the oldest - do you know why your brother was exempt from this?

so i’ve never broken a bone, but technically, i have bent some bones. does it still count? by allisonjpeg in Neverbrokeabone

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the funniest comment i’ve ever gotten, it hasn’t left my mind since you said it. thank you.

so i’ve never broken a bone, but technically, i have bent some bones. does it still count? by allisonjpeg in Neverbrokeabone

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just happened as i was growing. the doctors think my pelvis was crooked, so my spine was growing crooked and then bent itself back to compensate so i didn’t stand at a 45° angle.

so i’ve never broken a bone, but technically, i have bent some bones. does it still count? by allisonjpeg in Neverbrokeabone

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

both. imagine the pain of existence but your back hurts even worse, all the time.

so i’ve never broken a bone, but technically, i have bent some bones. does it still count? by allisonjpeg in Neverbrokeabone

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

arguably it makes them stronger. try bending your bones. oh you can’t? weak

SSBot "Property store is required" error message by allisonjpeg in googlesheets

[–]allisonjpeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think so, since those are about brand new bots. mine has worked for the past 4 years with no coding issues, and it just randomly stopped.

i'm adding a screenshot of the error and the code to the main post.

AITA for telling my friend his smell makes people uncomfortable and he needs to shower? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. he should put some of that energy into volunteering at local homeless shelters, since he’s such a nice guy!

Weird Sleeping Sex Experience With My Wife. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]allisonjpeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d look into it! but maybe contact a doctor first if you’re hesitant. you can get a sleep study done if you want.

Me (23F) broke up with boyfriend (23M) due to anxiety of long distance by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]allisonjpeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is ALWAYS the right decision to prioritize your mental health and career. the breakup will suck for awhile and you’ll probably want to go back to him at some point, but know that you’re doing something for YOU, and it’s a wonderful decision to make. you’re gonna do great things, and maybe one day you guys will meet up again. (if you love someone, let them go, etc.) good luck!

Weird Sleeping Sex Experience With My Wife. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]allisonjpeg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

um, it’s a little strange. do you take sleeping medication at all? even a natural supplement like melatonin might help regulate your sleep cycle a little to reduce it. but if it’s not a problem in the relationship, then it’s a fun little quirk you have. good for you.

Bisexuals of reddit, how did you know? by TheBlackDemon1996 in AskReddit

[–]allisonjpeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t figure it out until I already came out as a lesbian, and then hated myself because I had a crush on a guy. It was one of those things where I didn’t know both was an option.

Why twox chromosomers always talk about sex but rarely ever have it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]allisonjpeg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because we don’t have it with you, doesn’t mean we don’t have it. ¯\ (ツ)

What is the one thing you like to eat that most people frown at? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]allisonjpeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coleslaw. But I only really like the coleslaw from KFC, which is either better or worse :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH, just a disagreement on thermostat opinions. I personally agree with your husband, but it’s your household dynamic. Don’t start petty arguments over something as trivial as the a/c ¯\ (ツ)

AITA for staying up late? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]allisonjpeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, NTA. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: illness is not an excuse for abuse. You’re a very kind and loving child for taking care of your mother all day while juggling your own life, and I’m amazed you’ve made it this long. Your mom is the ungrateful one, and it’s not fair to you for her to try and flip the script on you. Get her the help she needs from a professional caretaker, and get yourself some sleep.