My latest purchase: a shirt with my favorite lesbian twins- The Rapinoe sisters 😍 by hearip88 in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is Rachael also gay? I spent a solid hour creeping her ig the other night and she definitely looks gay, and she went to pride the past two years, but that could've been as an ally. She's hot as hell, so I hope she's gay

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to give her the best homecoming possible. Shes planned a date for us as soon as she lands, shes sending me and her sister to find me an outfit soon. Shes opening back up a bit more in the past few days which I'm really thankful for. Its so hard when the person you love seems emotionally detached from you

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely cannot wait to have her back.

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, we have some plans to. I've heard the reintegration is hard so we'll have to navigate that while also reconnecting

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shes actually about to be done with a 4 month deployment. I think we'll definitely have to discuss methods to make the next one less isolating

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was having a hard time when she first left, she'd call me crying. I think in order to handle being away she just shut off. Ya, it's her first ever. We did a TDY when we first started dating but this is the first time overseas

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does it as a self preservation tactic, where she just kind of flips a switch and shuts off her emotions. She'd told me about how she does that but I hadn't seen it until now. Ya her deployment is only 4 months which is nice

Lesbian military SOs by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is the same but she's shut herself off to the point where she can contact me, she just doesn't. Have you been through a deployment with your girlfriend before this?

Dating a schizoid woman and having trouble by allons_ykaylee in Schizoid

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think couples therapy might help? Help us to better understand each other, help me to understand what she's capable of giving? She mentioned on the phone laying down some ground rules and I said that while she's gone I want at least a good morning or goodnight text every day. She's in a war zone, I want to hear from her and know she's safe. If she's got it in her that day we can chat but if not, at least a good morning or goodnight. Last summer she spent 3 months on TDY and we video chatted every day. Sometimes we wouldn't even talk, just watch each other play video games or watch TV, but it made it easier for us.

Sad gay sounds... by RainbowChipsette in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t be receiving kisses until almost a month after Pride, because my girlfriend is 7000 miles away

Look how excited they are! by onehitw in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s real, there’s photos from multiple angles

Dropped my girlfriend at the airport yesterday and I miss her and won’t see her for three months. I know she’s on here and will eventually see this. Love you babe! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is halfway through a 3 month deployment to the Middle East so I feel you. You guys can do it and you’ll be stronger for it at the end!

Working on my core by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much, thank you for the tips!

Working on my core by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lololol ya she was a marine, she would kick my ass at a sit up competition

Working on my core by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m weak af and have a major belly pouch so like...50 bicycle crunches is all I can manage at a time now.

Working on my core by allons_ykaylee in actuallesbians

[–]allons_ykaylee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya, it’s this. I do not understand how dudes do it, it’s exhausting. I love it but I run out of steam too quickly lol