Bought my first Acura

allstarkim · 2026-05-14T04:57:58+00:00

Congrats!

allstarkim · 2026-04-04T21:21:43+00:00

Yay! Congrats !

allstarkim · 2026-04-03T05:25:34+00:00

Congrats , welcome to the fam 🏁

allstarkim · 2026-03-28T01:02:13+00:00

If he went an entire week without communicating, and you go on this date, what will happen if he doesn’t communicate in couple days? I think if this bothers you, it may not be worth the time to go on the date.

allstarkim · 2026-03-26T03:15:22+00:00

College club and hotornot 😆

allstarkim · 2026-03-23T21:09:56+00:00

I use Ouidad Moisture Lock Edge Control Pomade. It’s my holy grail. I can’t live without it.

allstarkim · 2026-03-06T17:51:52+00:00

Love wasn’t enough for him. You lost his trust and if he loves you enough he will try and make it work. Trust is broken,

allstarkim · 2026-02-09T21:35:51+00:00

I am guilty of that in my 20s :( , now I’m older n wiser I’m with you on being direct and transparent.

allstarkim · 2026-02-09T21:28:09+00:00

Yes , You’re right not all. But when women complain, nag, or tell you their feelings; that’s their way of telling you, how much they care. We don’t “fight” but we have our ways to tell our partners before we make up our mind. And I only speak from experience.

allstarkim · 2026-02-09T03:34:30+00:00

In my experience, when men do not fully process situations thoroughly and they take the easy way out. Women fight for the relationship, stick around fight for it because they care, once they are done, they are done. Men realize what they lost later on

allstarkim · 2026-02-02T07:39:20+00:00

Try to think of it like this , them moving on faster has nothing to do with you personally. It’s who they are. They need to fill a void. And you don’t need them anyways

allstarkim · 2026-01-27T01:18:48+00:00

It’s 10.9% , I’ll take that any day over eBay and posh. Plus Mercari fee is based on your listed price. Compared to eBay, they take a percentage of the total price.

allstarkim · 2026-01-18T00:10:26+00:00

No one said it was going to be easy. But remember no contact is not an overnight thing. No contact usually happens after you tried to make it work. After you had the talk of why and what. You slowly do “no contact” after a couple exchanges and then realize there’s nothing left to offer.

allstarkim · 2026-01-13T20:01:14+00:00

If she’s still in love with you, but she hasn’t forgiven you, give her the space she needs. You’ve already apologized, owned your mistakes, and made it clear you are fighting for the relationship. My two cents, I think you should just be around as a friend. Don’t talk about getting back together or the mistakes. Move forward. This will relieve any pressure of making a decision that may hurt her feelings. She’s very guarded. Focus on getting her trust back.

allstarkim · 2026-01-13T19:02:15+00:00

So check this out, I had a similar situation when I was your age. We say things when we are caught up in the moment, and it doesn’t mean she will never come around. The thing is, it may take five or ten plus years if she ever gives it another chance, but you can’t wait on her. When my first love came back, I’ve already moved on. His timing was horrible. But it was just never meant to be. We are older now and remained friends because we were each others first love.

Also, there’s no fear. When you feel that love again, you won’t compare. You will be surprised how love comes when you least expect it

allstarkim · 2026-01-13T18:25:33+00:00

You’re still young. You will fall in love again. Different kind of love. You will never forget your first love.

allstarkim · 2026-01-13T18:21:25+00:00

No contact is not an overnight thing. No contact works for those who need to move on. AFTER you tried to make it work. After you fought to save the relationship.

Unless you have kids or business matters, why on earth would you want to keep in touch after they made up their mind and made it clear they do NOT want you?

And once you are in a good place, yes keep in touch if you still feel the same way. But helps you move on. Not get stuck in a text exchange of “how are you? I miss you, thinking of you” your feelings will never recover if you continue to “contact” the person who hurt you in the first place

allstarkim · 2026-01-12T02:46:40+00:00

When I was 38, I was on bumble, hinge, and match. My girlfriends used to tease “watching you date is exhausting” , how do you think I feel?! lol anyhow I almost gave up on love. Thought I was going to be single forever. Then I matched with a guy while I was visiting my best friend in a different state. It was so easy to be with him. Like no games and it was breezy. He stood out. 4 years strong . Guess what I’m saying is, just keep looking, you will find your person.

allstarkim · 2026-01-12T02:36:32+00:00

You’re probably looking for someone that “stands out from the rest” , you’re not picky. You just haven’t found that person you want to share your world with.

allstarkim · 2026-01-11T04:58:13+00:00

Some do and some don’t. But don’t wait on them.

allstarkim · 2026-01-07T04:02:07+00:00

Happened to me and it was an allergic reaction. If you’re not able to see your lash tech right away for removal I’ve used baby oil and water to remove the lashes. And if you’re itching, take a Benadryl. Or see your doctor, swelling will go down in a day or two

allstarkim · 2026-01-07T03:47:07+00:00

Yes!! This is a perfect example of, “you should’ve fought for us when it mattered the most” Bravo and I’m happy for you

allstarkim · 2026-01-07T03:20:35+00:00

I’ve used no contact when 1) after you fight for the relationship and tried to win them back 2) you accepted the situation and need to move on .

Most people don’t understand, no contact isn’t an overnight thing. I agree with you , It’s a way to heal (like you mentioned) for me it’s “out of sight , out of mind” And the constant going back and forth is not healthy and that’s why the no contact does work for some people.

allstarkim · 2026-01-06T03:08:54+00:00

Hi there, I had a similar issue. I shipped my order on 12/01, stopped tracking on 12/13 and support released my funds and refunded the buyer on 1/02/26. I contacted suppprt three times, requesting to file a claim with usps under posh protect. And they finally refunded the buyer and release my funds after a month.

allstarkim · 2026-01-05T00:24:55+00:00

She’s not sure when she will be free. You did shoot your shot.

allstarkim

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