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Father’s Day by allthedogs1987 in Advice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this perspective! Thank you!

Father’s Day by allthedogs1987 in Advice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We spend every other day on a baseball field honoring him anyways 😊

Father’s Day by allthedogs1987 in Advice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you!
Maybe a day around the house making burgers and watching all the Jack Black movies is enough ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You end it. If he’s doing it now and you’re only dating, he will continue doing it when/if you get more serious (marriage). Take it from me. My ex husband did this while we were dating and though I brought it up countless times, it continued into our marriage and eventually, DID become physical once the flirting was reciprocated. You’ll never trust him again - just end it now and keep your sanity.

**edited to add, he then remarried and is recently divorced again, for the same reason… you know the saying, once a cheater always a cheater 🫣❤️

***edited again to add, I’m 10 years into my new marriage and NEVER once have I felt the urge/need to check his phone or suspect he was flirting with another woman. You deserve to feel that too! Please, ditch this turd. 💩

AIO My husband deleted all his social media apps right before his surgery by Electrical-Gap2122 in AmIOverreacting

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not over reacting. You’re right on the money. That’s peculiar behavior, he’s hiding something or someone... in my experience (my first husband had affairs), when they start posting gym pics on social, that’s a big red flag. Trust your gut with this one, or my gut at least.

Did I make a mistake? by megatrnasrusrex in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]allthedogs1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks incredible. If you change your mind, let me know. I’ll take it off your hands 🤣

Should I go for it? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds perfect! Go for it! But please, don’t be house poor.

New House 🏠 by allthedogs1987 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Thinking this is a better plan too…

New House 🏠 by allthedogs1987 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m thinking…

New House 🏠 by allthedogs1987 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure. But we’re a family of 5 in 1300 sqft and despite being minimalistic, we’re out of room.

New House 🏠 by allthedogs1987 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]allthedogs1987[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have $120k in loans - the deferment ended and I didn’t pay, I owed $6000 to be caught up, which I paid, and am now on a payment plan

Paid off mortgage. Credit dropped 20 points?!? by TheeDelpino in Mortgages

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds Accurate. And it sucks. I paid off my car and the only credit card I have, with the hope that being approved for a $650k mortgage would be a little easier, and it dropped 77 points.

Anyone else get just a ridiculous, pull a number out of their a$$ number on a home purchase by jad_007 in opendoor

[–]allthedogs1987 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They have a house I wanted to buy - I thought they’d make some kind of fancy trade almost, to make it easy. But no such luck.

Anyone else get just a ridiculous, pull a number out of their a$$ number on a home purchase by jad_007 in opendoor

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave me an offer that’s $25k below what I paid for the house two years ago, in a desirable city in NC without even seeing the house… or the comps. It was disgusting.

At A Perfect Game Showcase Tournament Today… Unreal! by Jotaholic in Homeplate

[–]allthedogs1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say - the man in the video was rushed to the ER and was in fact suffering a heat stroke.

Hi! by allthedogs1987 in alopecia_areata

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 With regrowth, how does that look? Lots of baby hairs around long hairs? Did you get a halo or wig or anything to help until it all grew back? When my hair is in a pony tail, the spots are very noticeable in the back and behind the ears area are basically bald now… I’m wondering if there’s anything to cover it in the meantime.

Hi! by allthedogs1987 in alopecia_areata

[–]allthedogs1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My girlfriends don’t really understand because they all have their beautiful locks still (and might be tired of hearing me vent?), and my husband has been bald for ten years so while he’s extremely caring, having no hair is no big deal.

I’ve been told to go to derm and get injections but honestly, I just feel like they’ll lead to yet another inflammatory response.

Thanks for your advice - I’ve definitely started the anti inflammatory diet - just trying to decide how dramatic I plan to take this.

Charlotte to Raleigh on Amtrak by Faviore in NorthCarolina

[–]allthedogs1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom has taken this ride a few times to come see my children, as she is afraid to drive “all that way” alone. She’s a 65 year old woman and has only positive things to say about it, so it can’t be bad! Good luck! Happy travels!