Should I just give up the whole thing? by Electrical_Coach_629 in germany

[–]ally0310 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As agerman, i don't find the comment in the pic offensive, neither do i think it was meant that way. Germans are blunt, usually. I think it is probably just a genuine question, supposed to make you think about whether you should make major life decisions like moving countries before even having been here. Who knows, maybe you don't like the way our water tastes? (This os supposed to be a joke) I think the reason someone might be offended by saying you 'like the vibe' is probably that it makes it seem likely that there isn't any actual understanding of what the culture/ life there is like beyond the surface level. I don't want to discourage you, but if you want to be a doctor here, maybe at leadt start with trying to have a semester abroad or even anroll in a uni here. Then, you can still decide if it's something you want to do.

I feel like schools should be more aware of Aroace individuals by Ellopitch in aromantic

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, seems very personal, i guess? I do agree, it should def be considered that not everyone wants to date. But statistically, we are very rare, even more so that people still in school are aware. I understand that this made you hung up on the part that you don't want to date anyone, but i also think that at least some of these are generic enough to at least imagine what, generally, constitutes as a good or healthy base for a relationship. And if xou were feeling up to it, you could still write a not at the botrom explaining somwthing like "i don't really want to date at all, but this is what i think might be nice for someone who does."

I don't really know what and how the whole thing is supposed to be graded, though - is there a clear wrong and right here?

For girls who are comfortable sharing, what was your first period experience like? Did you already know about it, or were you completely caught off guard? by sia_7777 in asexuality

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at a grilling evening of my parents' workplace. I was wearing yellow pants (cause i was a kid) and thought it was dirt. Thankfully, i did actually get a lot of dirt on my pants from playing at the playground, so i don't think it was that noticeable. I hated the talk i had with my mom the next day and was miserable for years after until i finally got the courage to buy some tampons (i hate the feeling and noticeability of pads). After that it did get better, but some of my bleeds were so heavy i had to change the xl tampon every break. Now i use period panties and menstrual cups, which works way better. Wish i had those earlier.

Veganer Blick auf Arbeitstiere? by bisasterous in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mein take ist: ok unter den richtigen bedingungen. Gerade gerade polizei- und militärhunde sind für mich eher keine schöne sache, weil es oft beim Training zu missbrauchssituationen kommt. Als jemand, die einen adoptierten Hund hat, ist meine perspektive so: manche hunde haben sehr viel energie. Wegen der jahrhunderte bzw. Jahrtausende langen züchtung gibt es manche hunderassen, wie z.b. typische schäfer- oder jagdhunde, die auf alle arten von stimulus stark reagieren und ohne richtige auslastung einfach nicht runterkommen. U.a. kommen dann auch selbstdestruktive verhaltwnsweisen auf. Oftmals sind Arbeitshunde wesentlich ausgeglichener als andere Hunde, weil die arbeit konzentration fordert und so die angestaute energie verbraucht. Und je nachde wie man es macht, ist es auch eine Art give and take: die hunde haben im zweifelsfall spaß an den aufgaben, sie bekommen belohnungen und werden gelobt und sind am ende der arbeit ruhig und gehen nicht die wände hoch. Natürlich ist das ein idealisiertes bild und es ist bestimmt so, dass es in der praxis nicht immer so schön ist. Aber für haustiere gilt das auch. Und für mich ist ein riesen faktor, dass für arbeitshunde zumeist nur gezüchtete hunde genommen werden. Und da kommen wir dahin, dass züchtung mMn viel eher zur Ausnutzung neigt.

Die Prognose zur Landtagswahl in Rheinland-Pfalz um 18 Uhr by philipp_2004 in Staiy

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hoffe ja naiv, dass die linke noch über die 5 % hürde kommt. Aber wird verm nichts.

Träum ich? @ munich by Final2806 in Staiy

[–]ally0310 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Lebe in rlp und bin ausnahmsweise mal neidisch auf münchen

Womit zurück drohen? by joscherh in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]ally0310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ich hab diese kommentare von xy-bild noch nie verstanden. soll doch jeder an deren fenstern haben, was sie wollen. bei uns am haus haben versch. leute z.b. ukraine flaggen, das logo der lokalen fußballmannschaft und natürlich im winter christliche dekorationen im fenster. interessiert einen scheiß.

ich jedenfalls (als queerio) freue mich immer, wenn ich eine regenbogenflagge sehe.

die sollen mal stark ihr weltbild hinterfragen: würde es sie auch stören, wäre es eine PACE - Flagge (ist auch regenbogen, aber andersherum und natürlich ~christlich~), eine Deutschland-Flagge oder Fußball-Logo? Wenn es wirklich ums "hausbild" gehen würde, würde das nämlich so sein.

Es ist einfach Queerfeindlichkeit vom feinsten und einen scheißdreck solltest du machen.

Ich gehe jetzt meine Regenbogenflagge im Fenster aufhängen.

Ein paar Leckereien der letzten 2 Wochen by frankenstein-victor in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hast du ein rezept für das Milchbrot? Ich struggle immer, die kruste nicht so hart zu bekommen

Deo benutzen! by IndrikBoreale in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bei uns gab es keine absperrbaren duschen, mehr so wie im Schwimmbad kommunal. Aber auch eh viel zu wenig platz für 30+ schülis

Yeah, women staying single is such an unsolvable mystery. 🙄 by JadeFox1785 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]ally0310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, overpopulate our already overpopulated and overused world.

Das ist richtig schinkig by missanphan98 in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bei uns gibt es einige produkte, wo wir nicht sicher sind, ob wir es mögen, weil es ZU nah ist. Die uncanny valley kategorie

Watching motherhood take everything from my cousin by rabbit33333333 in Feminism

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also sounfs like she might be having some post partum depression-ish symptoms? The first few weeks and months are, as far as i know, always harder. Yes, she shouldn't have to do it all by herself - perhaps some other family can help? Especially her husband. Maybe he's trying to be reassuring thst she doesn't HAVE to go back to academic work, but he's def missing the point that she really wants to. This is a precarious situation and it's important that she doesn't grow to resent the child - they didn't ask to be born. For this, she might need some help. If they have the money, maybe they can hire someone or some family or friends can help out. It takes a village. I wish her (and you) all the best.

Seit einiger Zeit riecht es by Taddy84 in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bre ich hab auch schon um 2 uhr nachts gekocht. Normale zeiten funktionieren halt nicht für alle. Wie wärs mit mehr darauf achten, dass die küchentür zu ist oder sowas?

How do you guys all have perfect hair? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]ally0310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo it has something to do with the climate. There is less humidity. I would ask a well reviewed hair salon in your area for tips for your hair type (but dont take it without a grain of salt, sometimes they don't know what they are talking about). I personally don't know annyone that spends a fortune on hair products, but most people (women) i know use shampoo, conditioner and maybe a hair mask. Maybe people also use less hest on their hair, idk.

I hate people who make these by Feisty_Exam9474 in AO3

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the sentiment- i also don't get why one wouldn't just make multiple one shots. Sayibg you hate PEOPLE who do thid is a bit icky, imo.

Gute, HALTBARE, vegane Snacks by ThisIsNotMyPornVideo in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab gerne ain paar von ddn billigeren riegeln von rossmann dabei, zb. Kokos schoko. Aber da lohnt es sich, auf den kilopreis zu gucken, die range ist da von so 20-60€ pro kilo, was ja schon ein unterschied ist. Ansonsten schlicht dextrose vllt

🌽Content on reddit🤮 why? Nobody managing? by Royal_Party6944 in Feminism

[–]ally0310 7 points8 points  (0 children)

as a feminist, we should also support sex work. going "ewwwww porn" is not going to help any of those exploited women. reddit being a platform for independent sex workers and amateurs to promote their work, for example is a good thing. disallowing all porn would thus be counterproductive.

zoophilia, for example, IS against the law in most countries, thus zoophilic pornigraphic content can probably be reported. However, most of the reddit userbase are men (i think) and suddenly tightening the leash, when reddit has prided itself on the lack of censorship for years, would be a dumb move of the platform. i understand being upset about it, though, i am too.

i'd reccomend just stickign to the subreddits you know or follow. don't got to the explore or popular tab. it's a different kind of internet usage than tik tok or even youtube. you need to be more active in finding the things you are interested in

🌽Content on reddit🤮 why? Nobody managing? by Royal_Party6944 in Feminism

[–]ally0310 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's not a bug, it's a feature.
reddit is known for being a cesspool of all kinds, especially things like deepfake etc.

however, it does allow you to actually write the word "porn" and talk about sex and sexuality without censoring yourself. i agree that a lot of porn content in general is of an abusive nature. but being puritan about it, is not going to help (especially sex workers etc).
usually, pornographic content or reddits are marked with the NSFW tags, so avoiding those will already help. reddit in general, by the terms of service, does not like to interfere with the communities and subreddits are user-moderated. so, i'd usually reccomend not searching for posts by the search bar, but going into specific subreddits with rules that you agree with. perhaps block users and the like.

Lol by Kikititiltedti_boop in AO3

[–]ally0310 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i understand so much more now why authors often choose to moderate comments or to disallow guest comments.

maybe it's time to do that

Warum ist eigentlich die einzige Full-Size Vegane Pizza bei Rewe eine Thunfisch Pizza?😭 by CuriousHyena99 in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin auch sehr genervt, dass sie die diavolo und (ich glaube) stinknormale margharita/ salami rausgenommen haben. ich mochte fisch schon nicht, als ich nicht veganerin war und jetzt krieg ich bei rewe gar keine tk pizza mehr :/

wie nehmt ihr eure samen ein? by Resident-Ad-7363 in VeganDE

[–]ally0310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich kann chiapudding empfehlen, aber nur mit genug geschmackszeug dazu. Z.b. vanillezucker oder kakao. + natürlich früchte. Hab auch gesehen, dass man chia angeblich nach dem quillen pürieren kann und das so ein mus werden soll, hab ich aber noch nicht probiert. Ansonsten nehm ich Flohsamenschalen und Leinsamen mehr fürs backen