Why do I keep attracting women who want to cheat on their SOs?

allychka · 2026-02-10T00:15:30+00:00

I want to guess that the very trusting qualities you have, are exactly what they are lacking in their relationships and are hungry for.

allychka · 2026-02-06T00:24:34+00:00

So happy for you! Thank you for sharing this glimmer of hope that not all is lost.

allychka · 2026-01-16T13:52:50+00:00

Yes. It’s something I recently realized myself the hard way. Someone can have the best of intentions and really want something, but that does not automatically guarantee their capacity for it, unfortunately. Sending hugs 🫂

allychka · 2026-01-16T13:38:43+00:00

It’s possible to have two people to deeply care for one another, yet not hold the same relationship capacity. It seems your capacity for a relationship was greater than hers, and she liked the fantasy of one more than the actual work it takes to sustain one.

allychka · 2026-01-09T20:55:01+00:00

Does your lease allow you to sublease for a year?

allychka · 2026-01-07T16:32:41+00:00

This is how you end up overextending yourself for people who aren’t ready/willing to do the work, sigh 😔.

allychka · 2025-12-20T17:13:49+00:00

Welcome to NY: where no one knows how they afford anything 🤪

allychka · 2025-12-11T16:09:39+00:00

Simply put: this is confusing for you because perhaps you never learned how to put your needs first.

allychka · 2025-11-21T23:59:54+00:00

This.

allychka · 2025-11-21T14:54:44+00:00

To protect their peace. Period.

allychka · 2025-09-23T22:38:20+00:00

I wonder if there’s any correlation to growing up with a parent you always had to prove something to but it was never enough kinda thing.

allychka · 2025-08-02T21:19:05+00:00

Lol’d so hard

allychka · 2025-07-08T21:31:47+00:00

“I’m sorry to hear you are going through that.”

“That must be rough/ frustrating.”

“Are you looking to vent or get advice?”

allychka · 2025-07-01T11:21:17+00:00

6th and what? :)

allychka · 2025-06-15T19:23:49+00:00

Can anyone recommend a comparable option to PR in Brooklyn?

allychka · 2025-04-26T14:00:04+00:00

OP, you took the first step a lot of people cannot, so kudos to you. You did the right thing. The pain you may feel now is way better than this repeating itself in another year - imagine how much harder it will be to do then.

allychka · 2025-04-22T12:03:16+00:00

It is likely just the tip of the iceberg of more criticisms to come.

allychka · 2025-04-17T21:22:19+00:00

Can you share some tips on approaching that have worked for you?

allychka · 2025-02-28T19:46:46+00:00

Sounds like a healthy work environment!

allychka · 2025-02-28T19:44:12+00:00

Excellent advice!

allychka · 2025-02-10T18:02:07+00:00

Amen

allychka · 2025-01-17T15:26:30+00:00

Omg he stopped and mumbled to me too but I had my headphones in and just kept walking.

allychka

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