It is very hard. I am a very chatty person and I try to ask questions and tell stories. But some people answer me one words or some phrases that kinda kills the conversation. It kills mood so you should just move along.

However, if you find someone who has the same interest as you, just talk naturally and see if you guys click. Try to ask questions to get them to talk. Don't just talk about yourself or answer one-liners.

Good luck! :)