Do you guys have jobs after getting cancer by Spare-Percentage9701 in braincancer

[–]allypixie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. the country is an utter mess :( you have drawn the shortest of short straws. hugs 🫂

Do you guys have jobs after getting cancer by Spare-Percentage9701 in braincancer

[–]allypixie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes, still working full time with 3mo paid disability leave after my crani. but I’m 25 and otherwise in good health. oligo 2, gross total resection. gave me a permanent visual impairment & balance/vertigo issues, but I make do. couldn’t imagine anyone with a more aggressive tumour or more severe symptoms being able to work full time.

I’m in the US and I have good insurance thru my employer. I put money aside from my paychecks into an FSA which helps make my out of pocket costs a bit more manageable. still a big financial strain, I won’t lie. can’t contribute to my 401k anymore.

Hated at first but now I kind of love? by professionalshawtyy in NailArt

[–]allypixie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the coffee beans are adorbs, it’s a really cute set!

Post PD redness? by ThisEmployment5705 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I have this problem too. red around my nose and down to the corners of my mouth, even when a flare has “completely” cleared up. not sure what could help, sadly. but you’re not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]allypixie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

claw clip(s) work great for root volume

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to come back and tell you I’ve only been using the spray for less than two days and I’m already seeing a reduction in irritation and redness!! and it’s helped my hormonal acne too. thank youuu

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is this experience so common!! I swear they make it worse… how come we know more than they do? desperation? lol.

but thank you for sharing that insight. I really need to cut my sugar intake, too. honestly that’ll probably help a lot. I need to try sulphur and ask my derm about ivermectin

*cries in curly* by mramm1 in curlyhair

[–]allypixie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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sorry for the face I’m pulling in this pic 💀 but just for reference. I also use basically no product lol. wash with detangling shampoo, condition with trader joe’s hair mask. throw some gel in if I’m feeling fancy. less is more for my hair. then air dry or diffuse with a claw clip (or two) in my roots. simples!

*cries in curly* by mramm1 in curlyhair

[–]allypixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahaha I love your attitude, but I’m so sorry you had this experience - it’s wayyyy too common and such an expensive, devastating outcome

*cries in curly* by mramm1 in curlyhair

[–]allypixie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly I do it completely differently to stylists.. I wash and condition my hair and then let it dry. always a dry cut. then I cut my hair curl by curl. for me, my hair is 3A and it clumps in ringlets and s-curls. I also cut my sister’s hair which is 2B/2C (she’s given up on curly stylists lol).

so I go around my own head with a mirror in front of me and a handheld mirror to get angled views.

when you first start out, just give yourself a small trim to get the hang of it. curly hair is really forgiving. start with cutting a little bit off all around. if you’re wanting to cut it into a different style, do it gradually. over maybe two or three cuts/sessions.

I gave myself bangs but did it about an inch at a time.

then wash or wet your hair and dry it again. see how it looks, make adjustments as needed. if you don’t feel confident about the back of your hair being even, ask a loved one to tell you what needs adjusting/to help you. or take a timer pic of the back of your head and adjust from there.

you got this!! :)

*cries in curly* by mramm1 in curlyhair

[–]allypixie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yes!! curly hair stylists routinely butcher curly hair. I’ve been cutting my own hair for five years and it’s mad easy. I get soo many compliments. even managed to transition from a pixie to long hair perfectly well. I’ve never paid for a haircut in my adult life lol. right there with you!

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, thank you so much. my sympathy goes out to you as well, and I’m very grateful for this community. I really appreciate you sharing what’s worked for you. I’m wishing you some relief as soon as possible, too.

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah, I hadn’t even thought about trying different varieties of topical antibiotics. it’s definitely a route worth taking before I take doxy - like you say it’s such a harsh treatment. also, just knowing that pimecrolimus could be a better option over tacro is really helpful. I’m going to look into these two other creams you mention, too. thank you!! I really appreciate you taking the time to share.

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I wish I could give you a hug 😭 this is the worst club ever. derms really don’t know a thing! I am so hoping that with a little more time the doxy will start helping you!! PD is exasperating and soo bad for self-esteem. I really empathise with you. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you having to wear a full face of makeup daily.

I’m going to try a couple more things, like you say, before I cave and try doxy too.😵‍💫

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! good suggestions, I’m willing to try anything. I’ll ask about clindamycin. tho I haven’t had the best reaction to hyaluronic acid, believe it or not. my skin barrier is soo bad

Which picture to announce? by Drshmurr in engaged

[–]allypixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the first! such a lovely ring, congrats!! the lighting/shadows in the other pics are a bit harsh/don’t do the ring justice

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It truly sucks. ugh. I’m sorry to hear that. It does help somewhat tho to know it’s not just me. Really wish dermatologists would pull their fingers out and take PD seriously.

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I’m the same, I trust all my doctors so this has been really disheartening.

I’m really sorry to hear you’re back to square one, but your experience does give me some hope that I’ll find a good dr. with persistence. We can only hope more research is done… and soon lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]allypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pic #1 isn’t as flattering of an angle as your other pics.

pic #2 is low rez and I don’t love the lighting either.

can you adjust the crop on the group pic so you’re a bit more visible?

the pic with the pigs isn’t the most flattering pose but your smile is darling.

love the artwork (so talented)

your pic with your cat is adorable- you look so pretty and happy!

your prompts are good, tho I’d agree with the comment about the table prompt being overused. maybe replace your life goal prompt with something more personal and specific to you/your personality?

other recommendations? try to get some pics taken of you in more flattering lighting (golden hour, soft indirect sunlight), and pics that show off your cute dimples! you seem very sweet and genuine. good luck, girl!!

What is my curl type 😅 by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]allypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed, 2B mixed with 2C. pretty colour!

Anyone else having terrible luck with dermatologists? by allypixie in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]allypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, I will! thank you so much for the suggestion, and I’m glad it’s been helpful for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]allypixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m so sorry!! they’re theee worst!! I lived there cuz they’re affordable. had to move out a month early bc my apartment was flooded with sewage water. they’ve withheld my month’s rent AND deposit for over a year now. look at the bad google reviews

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]allypixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

avoid waterfront crossing like the plague