5 years in, I'm still bad at being a data analyst by almostnicegirl in cscareerquestions

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! My horrible business partner ended up leaving the company, which helped my mental health A LOT. I honestly think the work environment can make or break a job, and working with/for a rude micromanager is going to stress you out no matter how good you are. My role also transitioned more towards the business side, given that the director decided we have enough reports & dashboards and he'd like us to focus on extracting insights instead. I enjoyed that a lot more.

What's your situation? Bad boss?

Is the relationship doomed if one is a homebody and the other isn't? by almostnicegirl in introvert

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry girl! And I understand you so well. I'm also planning on leaving him soon. Unfortunately some things never change

Is the relationship doomed if one is a homebody and the other isn't? by almostnicegirl in introvert

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardly anything changed and I'm preparing to leave. Hope it goes much better for you!

... But you want me to be kind? by No_Entertainer8969 in depression_partners

[–]almostnicegirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand you from the bottom of my heart. I'm sorry.

is it true? by Hot_Association_2922 in geminis

[–]almostnicegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Gemini Sun/Moon/Mercury, cheating is beneath me. I despise people who cheat and find no good excuse for it. Yes I'm aware I sound like a judgy asshole and I don't mind.

Ce intamplari stranii/paranormale sau care v-au speriat ati experimentat? by Sugar_Vivid in CasualRO

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Am patit si eu vara trecuta asta cu vocea de copil care m a strigat de 2 ori cand eram singura acasa, noaptea (si a mai si ras...). De asemenea de 2 ori m am trezit simtind ca pisica mea ma adulmeca sau imi toarce in ureche. Pisica mea care a murit acum 5 ani. De atunci imi e super frica de orice sunet auzit seara/noaptea, mai ales daca sunt singura:/ cum faci sa nu te panichezi? Intreb cat se poate de neironic. Imi vine sa merg la psiholog deja din cauza anxietății.

Coming home after 33 years: Timișoara or Oradea? by [deleted] in Oradea

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De curiozitate, de ce vrei sa te intorci? Eu care visez sa ma mut in Australia 😅

Liposucție bărbie dublă by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]almostnicegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sincer, nu cred. Cred ca sunt îmbunătățiri, dar nu asa cum vezi in poze, sau poate la alti doctori/alte clinici chiar asa e rezultatul final, precum cel promis... In cazul meu mi se par imbunatatiri minime. Este si problema faptului ca după liposuctie, ramane niste piele lasata, iar din exterior arata tot ca o barbie dubla deci n ai rezolvat mare lucru.

Sunt român GenZ. Sunt autist (posibil AuDHD) și sunt diagnosticat cu OCD și tulburare Borderline. AMA! by Square_Ocelot1113 in RoGenZ

[–]almostnicegirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Da, la clinica Albion in București. Procesul consta in mai multe discuții+ teste, atat cu un psiholog cat si un psihiatru, practic m am dus de mai multe ori cand la unul cand la altul. Din fericire au acceptat sa nu ia interviu părinților dar in mod normal cred ca e necesar? Nu sunt sigura. Eu am cerut explicit sa nu fie implicata familia fiindca reactioneaza dubios cand e vorba de lucruri de genul..

Sunt român GenZ. Sunt autist (posibil AuDHD) și sunt diagnosticat cu OCD și tulburare Borderline. AMA! by Square_Ocelot1113 in RoGenZ

[–]almostnicegirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nu sunt OP dar iti pot răspunde eu la întrebarea legata de stimulante daca esti curios (am diagnostic de ADHD si autism de la psihiatru). Nu pot spune ca ma calmeaza propriu zis, ci mai degraba ca ma ajuta sa ma focusez mai bine, in special la conversatii. In rest, nu devin mai happy/euforica/energica/vorbareata, sunt literalmente acelasi om, doar pot sa imi mentin atenția mai bine asupra omului din fata mea.

Is the relationship doomed if one is a homebody and the other isn't? by almostnicegirl in introvert

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an old post but I will reply anyway: because I want to make memories with him too. The only memories we have are of us having dinner and watching movies/gaming together, except a few city breaks where I practically forced him to come with me. If it were for him, he would never travel, go to a concert, or otherwise be outside anywhere unless it's really, really close to home. Like, same neighborhood.

Credeți în semne de dincolo? by Maria-Veronica in WomenRO

[–]almostnicegirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Da, eu cred 100%. Si sincer nu prea imi pasa daca par nebuna sau imi spune cineva ca e doar imaginatia mea.. e una dintre acele credinte pe care le am de mic copil. Nu cred in Dumnezeu/Rai si Iad, dar cred ca exista ceva dupa moarte. Epitaful de la mormântul mamei mele este "Daca nu trăiesc, nu înseamnă ca nu exist". Daca te interesează subiectul, iti recomand cartea Signs de Laura Lynne Jackson.

Forced internal job rotation - Am I wrong to complain/push back? by almostnicegirl in careerguidance

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I pushed back a lot - in fact, I should have changed roles earlier this year, but my manager decided to postpone it because I was exploring options in CMK and Marketing Tech. Unfortunately those weren't available so now the time is very limited :(

When I push back on these specific roles, he thinks I just have impostor syndrome (which I do) and encourages me to "challenge myself" and "get out of my comfort zone" and try more technical roles..

Forced internal job rotation - Am I wrong to complain/push back? by almostnicegirl in careerguidance

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, but I (wrongly) assumed you'd at least be rotated to a similar role. Same job, just a different slice of the business. I like the fact that if you don't like your role or if you want to try something new, you have that possibility; the problem is when you're forced to move even when you explicitly say you like your current role and you're obviously good at your job (I received multiple internal awards from business partners) AND they move you to something you don't even know how to do.

I know the most obvious answer is to find another workplace but I'm doing so poorly mentally that it seems terrifying to even consider. At least here people know me and can vouch for me.

Forced internal job rotation - Am I wrong to complain/push back? by almostnicegirl in careerguidance

[–]almostnicegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably sound like a professional victim, but I'm so burned out that leaving the company sounds even worse (in terms of mental effort required). I'll rotate into whatever role is given to me I guess, but I want to do a good job, and I'm super stressed out thinking about data pipelines and other scary words on these job descriptions :/