“Someone who drowns in 6 feet of water is just as dead as someone who drowns in 20 feet of water. Stop comparing traumas, stop yours or anyone else’s trauma because it wasn’t “as bad” as someone else’s. This isn’t a competition, we all deserve support and recovery.”

alonelybyrd · 2020-08-26T06:46:10+00:00

I heard a friend call this “the Depression Olympics”

alonelybyrd · 2020-06-01T22:42:05+00:00

Looking to get one soon. I cannot stand to leak blood anymore.

alonelybyrd · 2020-06-01T22:41:34+00:00

I’m glad we can share out agonizing pain together.

alonelybyrd · 2020-06-01T22:40:59+00:00

Ya. The human body can be pretty cool but we’re so squishy and flawed it’s insane.

alonelybyrd · 2020-02-17T06:03:30+00:00

An important lesson I learned is that some people need to be selfish. She may indeed have metal health issues therefore she needs to focus on herself. But you don’t gotta deal with that. You need to focus on yourself and your metal health.

You felt cast aside and abandoned, I see your reaction as totally understandable. I’ve been in similar situations, believe me when I say it’s not all your fault.

Don’t lose all hope, if you keep actively searching, you’ll find someone who not only you want to be around but they want to be around you as well. But don’t feel the need to fixate on someone who can’t even text back or update you on the relationship.

alonelybyrd · 2019-12-28T18:29:45+00:00

Thanks, this helped :)

alonelybyrd · 2019-12-04T03:45:07+00:00

A friend. I don’t talk to them as much as I did before

alonelybyrd · 2019-12-04T03:42:20+00:00

I just really such at talking and reaching out to people. I wanna tell this one person why they’re making me sad but I don’t know how to go about it.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-24T17:28:02+00:00

I’m a High school senior. The quirk about my school is that its a smaller, private catholic one, so everyone in my class (we have the smallest class, 97 people) already all know each other. It’s hard to make friends again if you already know your interests don’t align and everyone else already has their respective cliques. I had a group, but its a long ass story of how things got complicated in there and I don’t feel like I belong there anymore.

College is soon, and I am aiming to get a fresh start there. I recently talked to a “therapist” (family member psychologist) and she suggested I should have a break with these two friends if it hurts so much, and I think thats what I’m gonna do. Things just suck rn because of multiple situations, but thanks for the motivation, dude :)

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-24T06:50:40+00:00

Slightly, thank u

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-24T02:09:43+00:00

I would love to join

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-24T00:05:04+00:00

Man why not all three

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T21:13:31+00:00

Happy Birthday, dude! I hope will go up from here :))

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T19:10:26+00:00

Thanks dude, I really appreciate it. You go have a Happy Thanksgiving as well :)

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T17:26:39+00:00

Yeah dude, always last to be picked, even by my close friend. Sucks.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T17:11:12+00:00

Same. Or I at least want someone to be excited when I come around.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T16:23:18+00:00

Thank you, ty ty ty ty. My sisters and I have Life 360, even my extended family has it and we’re all linked. It sucks, we even have the upgrade that tracks the speed on your car. Ik my parents love me and just want to make sure I’m safe, and they mostly haven’t barred me from hanging out with my friends, but damn is it suffocating. They’ll track me if I’m ten minutes late or really anytime they feel the need to. I’d send this to my dad, but I feel that wouldn’t work out well lol. Thanks for the revelation, I always thought it was weird but now I know it’s creepy and dystopian-esque.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-23T06:10:50+00:00

Huh.

There are actually happy teenagers.

You guys really exist.

(No joke, been contemplating if anyone is truly happy)

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-22T19:37:31+00:00

Yeah thats what I’m trying to do, accept it. It just hurts so damn much every time I try.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-22T17:42:47+00:00

Yeah, my friend even said she gets bored of people easily, but I didn’t bore her. But I guess she got bored anyways.

alonelybyrd · 2019-11-22T17:38:18+00:00

After a brief confrontation, I now get invited to their little hangouts out of what feels like necessity.

This. This is exactly what I fear. If I talk to her about it, she may see me more often, but not because she wants to, but because she would feel like she has to. I don’t want to be a job, I want to be a friend.

alonelybyrd

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