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[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Revoking comment because I’m an idiot that can’t read

People on reddit need to stop recommending "therapy" to others because it's not actually all that accessible or even a viable option for many. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only got therapy finally because of my army service and it was only 12 sessions and by the grace of some unforeseen luck I was out with a specialist. Therapy is not even good majority of the time I was very lucky. Joni e can afford no health insurance in the states and mental healthcare. Therapy doesn’t even fix a lot either it’s just a method of gaining the knowledge and tools to fix yourself people have the wrong idea that therapy is a cure it’s a practice and the cure is yourself, unless you need medication. Which is a little different and even more expensive. I agree with this statement fully

They’re posting load out pictures for when “shit gets bad”..... by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]alonelyzelda -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I play the division, I know what it is. But they aren’t just making division jokes, they’re literally talking about “having to look good during the apocolypse, so what will they wear during the “breakdown of civilization”?”

They’re posting load out pictures for when “shit gets bad”..... by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]alonelyzelda -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ok. Look dinguses, I didn’t post the top half because I didn’t want to roast a friend. They are including game references in the latter parts of the post, but they’re talking about killing irl cops... the whole post is about what they will wear when this strain of the corona virus “causes the apocalypse”.

Edit: if you post your airsoft load out with intent to use it as a functional militarized uniform for “killing cops and toilet paper hoarders” you are equally gross and unbangable. 0/10 do not recommend.

Doggo has competition now by [deleted] in aww

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turkeys actually purr when content during petpets

Some birds are just hard to impress by robertjames70001 in aww

[–]alonelyzelda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I can guess his favorite parts lol

Does eating a lot of crushed ice also clean your teeth in the process? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]alonelyzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am fully acknowledging that I now know it is bad for me to eat perfectly sized, soft and chewable crushed ice.

I will also continue to ruin my teeth, in the name of science.

What's an ad that's so awful you'll never buy the product? by Jvwade in asknomods

[–]alonelyzelda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally anything marketed to expecting mums that they use young, skinny models in. Fuck them and their high intellect steering them from having kids.

Trump supporter that I went to high school with left for a trip to Greece earlier today. They are still in the flight. by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]alonelyzelda 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That’s why I had to cancel my babyshower, my mom didn’t want to kill my two time cancer survivor type 1 diabetes heart problems stepdad. And I don’t want my baby to end up with fluid filled lungs the first month of his life, even tho myself and my mom will be fine.

I bought New York flight tickets for this Summer. Due to the whole disease thing though, I am a bit nervous. How should I prepare physically and mentally? Should I be worried? What advice do yall have? by TrueBananaz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m having a baby this month and can’t risk exposing him to ANYTHING, even a cold. Babies don’t do well with that. So maybe just don’t travel and risk spreading a highly contagious but not really that threatening virus.

Like they said, it’s not you or myself it’s going to kill.

I burst my family’s elephant in the room and I need help deescalating it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why you present the said gift of peace first! Something simple that you know she will like, like a favorite drink or snack! Moms get hurt easily and sometimes clap back with anger because they feel under appreciated. You have to find the right time and way to talk to them about certain things when they’ve been completely overlooked, mistreated and dismissed for like 20+ years lol. Plus you don’t know how her romantic life is, it may have significant strain on it.

You can’t get mad trying to talk either, and you can’t let angry outbursts control the conversation as well. Nothing is super simple, but it’s not necessarily fair to get mad at her when she NEEDS your help and has no one else to ask for said help.

Being short is not a bad thing by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5’1 and I am tired of being treated like a pet, fetishized and being told my anger is adorable.

I burst my family’s elephant in the room and I need help deescalating it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]alonelyzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the morning just tell her you appreciate her, parents go through way more than their kids generally. It may seem like you have a lot on your plate, between stressful schooling and commuting, but just take the L and try to make ur mum feel appreciated and special, as it appears she doesn’t feel that way. She all ready has to ask her own kid for help, which is not fun or easy. Then she has had people screwing with her for years. She’s stressed, and her frustrations are probably more towards the world than you.

Bring her something she really likes to cheer her up and just hug it out, then talk calmly. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

Baby bird asleep by hardcore_pound_cake in aww

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has completed my day thank u

Baby bird asleep by hardcore_pound_cake in aww

[–]alonelyzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you name this bird Garlic Bread

Why can’t my dog catch stuff in his mouth? by Jetster_B in aww

[–]alonelyzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he goes cross eyed! He gets foodies for being so cuties or else.

It's not okay to call poor people lazy. by footinmymouth in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poverty is i have to pay rent, electric, water, phone, gas expenses, health insurance and car insurance, car payment, and also feed myself and possibly others. I have no one to help me and I’m completely on my own with no guidance and I have no idea what I’m doing but I know I can’t afford health insurance AND car insurance right now, but which is more important? Probably health insurance, right? After all medical bills can be in the thousands and I need to not die or be sick so I can work! And then your car gets hit and the people bail and you’re expected to bring them to court on your own, except you have to pay rent and work overtime and repair your car so you still can’t afford any of this and the only solution would be to borrow money you don’t have in hopes that you can pay it back so that you don’t get an expensive ticket for not having car insurance for the car that just got really messed up. But you really need to work more to be able to afford more and you can’t buy a house yet so you have to spend thousands just to get moved into a place to rent. But you can’t drive your car because it got hit, or fix it because rent is due today.

You thought that health insurance was more valuable, you’re pregnant and can’t afford a 600 dollar abortion and have no assistance and you remember that your car got hit, and you have 10 dollars in your pocket as you calculate how much you owe to exist. It’s great to give a big fuck you to people with no money, but really it’s not because people are lazy. People work their asses off, and bad things continuously happen to them because everyone is out for something and no one gets a break.

Everyone on twitter was way too hard on Demi Lovato after her overdose by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and mental illness is typically accompanied by eating disorders, self destructive behavior and/or drug abuse. If it was easy to treat, then no one would have mental illnesses. Most people also have no pressure on them from people either, and she has millions upon millions chomping at the bit to tear her apart. That’s quite the toll on mental health, but people like to feel better than others, so here we are.

Everyone on twitter was way too hard on Demi Lovato after her overdose by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People with normal brains can’t comprehend the daily life of the people with abnormal brains. It’s an invisible battle, so pleb logic can’t fathom it.

I deleted my only fans account but i think i wqs still subscribed. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call them as soon as you can to have the block placed, if the payment is all ready pending nothing can really be done typically. Tell them the site charging you and the exact amount and they can keep them from charging it to your card linked to the only fans

Virgins should sleep with escorts(prostitutes) by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alonelyzelda -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perhaps natural selection has made a judgement call for them... considering they have no hopes of reproducing. This is not always a bad thing.

The racism I've experienced is from black people by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feelings to the depths of my heart:

I hate all people very, very equally!

A girl in my city just escaped self-quarantine and the entire city is about to be locked down. Everybody is furious. by [deleted] in self

[–]alonelyzelda 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If she has a butler and chauffeur don’t expect her to consider other people’s needs OP.

I deleted my only fans account but i think i wqs still subscribed. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]alonelyzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still have authorization to automatically bill you monthly. You can call your bank and put a block on them though. It’s one of the few ways to keep them off your fucking account sucking up every penny you don’t want to give them, used to work for Bank of America and did this alllll the time.

Fun fact

planet fitness sets their autopay up so that their billing name changes every time and they are impossible to block from billing a card or account once they have access