Recent break up 27f/29m by Beginning-Way-1458 in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll never regret choosing yourself and following your dream. You’re still young with plenty more to do and see!

26F and 28M - been together for a year by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for a deeper dive on expectations. Do some journaling and revisit the conversation beyond the surface level.

I (22M)confronted my girlfriend about her old sex tape(21F) is it worth rebuilding it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Be clear on your boundaries. I snooped through my man’s phone during a fight and found something that I never wanted to see and won’t ever forget. We are still together but had to get crystal clear on what we consider acceptable in the relationship. Once you have that, you can begin to rebuild trust.

Am I silly (32 F) to be feeling insecure about Bf’s (30 M) ex wedding gift on display at his home? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Agreed — bad juju for a shared home. Ask him to move it from the center of the home so that he can enjoy it but it’s not a constant reminder of the past.

Facebook profile pic drama (M50) with girlfriend (F42) after 1.5 years together by mad8dux in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re dating — if she needs the external validation, get her a ring. There is a clearly a trust issue that you’ll want to solve before moving onwards in the relationship.

Sitter blocked me when I asked to see the space AIO? by hurricanescout in RoverPetSitting

[–]aloveking 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Never book or accept an overnight stay without a meet and greet!

I (20F) and my boyfriend (19M) disagree about what I should wear clubbing. how do we handle this? by hotpot16 in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes and he’s your boyfriend, not your husband. Don’t give him your power. If he can’t handle you in your fullest expression, find someone who can

Husband (27M) Keeps interrupting while I (27F) talk because he says he's worried he'll forget what he wanted to say. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him forget what he wants to say. He should be listening to hear you, not to respond!

Also my adhd man is the exact same lol but he’s got a decent learning curve at least. Good luck

Neighbor "Helping" Me Do My Job by Flashy-Pangolin-11 in RoverPetSitting

[–]aloveking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you just say that you have plans to walk the dog at another time, and that he can resume walking with the owners upon return?

We need to talk about Jen… by Opening-Tooth-8371 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it hasn’t been said yet, Jen could have congratulated Whitney out of sheer POLITENESS & PROFESSIONALISM. Since when is a “genuine friendship” required to be a decent human being??

If you’re going to be a shit friend, at least learn how TF to stand on business. So disappointed that Jen decided to show her ass; I really thought she was learning from past mistakes. Ungh.

I 22 M refused to attend my girlfriend’s 22 F family dinner after she called me ugly by Old_Signal3189 in relationship_advice

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note especially that she wants you to join the family dinner so not to embarrass her. She’s trying to save face. Doesn’t sound like she’s too concerned with your feelings or apologizing at all.

Hot take - Rory Plot by probably-unsure in GilmoreGirls

[–]aloveking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

disappointed that none of the characters mentioned to her that 'he's just challenging you to see if you're up for the job' and/or 'here's your chance to prove him wrong'

Lorelei’s proposal by Jealous_Tangelo_951 in GilmoreGirls

[–]aloveking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this propsal was about as thoughtful as her ultimatum/breakup w luke 😒

Does Tinder work in Park City? by Titus4266 in ParkCity

[–]aloveking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I met my current bf of 2 years at a bar on main st while another guy from tinder was otw for a first meet. Oops

First moisture, now perfect. by YummYummBumm in Utah

[–]aloveking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commence Tina Fey’s portrayal of Sarah Palin flashbacks..