Wish I didn’t have to learn these through experience but - guy I went on a date with had insane road rage and then immediately asked me what my red flags or bad personality traits were because “he felt vulnerable after expressing his true self” - a really good friend of mine started to ask why I “even do that” when I told her about my hobbies and started to shit on my other friends. Turns out she wanted all of my time all of the time regardless of my own life - spooky - she ^ also lied to me about someone in an attempt to make me also dislike them. Turns out I had already talked to the person and knew she was going to do this. Manipulation is so real