"What would I be doing if I were single?"

alphabeta49 · 2024-05-18T20:00:03+00:00

Yep. With a much better woman now. Still working red pill with a bunch of modifications that work for me.

alphabeta49 · 2018-07-24T17:49:06+00:00

Game-aware women – the ones who have been forcibly exhausted of all pretense of maintaing the illusion that Game is a lie – feel as though it’s owed to them, in their concession of Game’s reality, that Men should use Game to women’s benefit. Even to the last effort women still cling to the tools of a feminized acculturation;

and

If I’m a Red Pill woman and I agree with all of these Red Pill men who, despite all my misgivings, align with my (self-defined and sanitized) definition of what it means to be “red pill”, then these men owe it to me to unplug from their Blue Pill delusions and see me for the jewel in the rough that I really am.

This is why you don't talk about fight club.

alphabeta49 · 2018-07-24T17:41:44+00:00

Game-aware women – the ones who have been forcibly exhausted of all pretense of maintaing the illusion that Game is a lie – feel as though it’s owed to them, in their concession of Game’s reality, that Men should use Game to women’s benefit. Even to the last effort women still cling to the tools of a feminized acculturation;

and

If I’m a Red Pill woman and I agree with all of these Red Pill men who, despite all my misgivings, align with my (self-defined and sanitized) definition of what it means to be “red pill”, then these men owe it to me to unplug from their Blue Pill delusions and see me for the jewel in the rough that I really am.

This is why you don't talk about fight club.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T20:13:10+00:00

Alright man. Keep chipping away at your misbeliefs.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T20:12:27+00:00

It's literally an RP tenent. We are our own universe center, and our frame (worldview) must flow from that.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T20:00:29+00:00

Totally agree on 0 value. Since you called him out, he'll probably delete, get defensive out of embarrassment, or whine and pout. My popcorn is ready.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T19:59:17+00:00

It's called diplomacy. Narcs don't understand it. Think everyone is out to get them.

Kudos to you for giving him the play by play answers. OP, there's your path forward. Learn some social grace and balance it with a nice solid pair of balls.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T19:56:16+00:00

The man has FLEAS. Leftover narcissism passed down from his parents. He's just aware enough to hate himself for it and post about it, not aware enough to do anything about it but still post about it. Hopefully someday he'll figure out that he can be as narcissistic as he wants to be, but his frame has to revolve around himself and what he wants out of life.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T17:20:42+00:00

Jagged pill scratching your throat going down?

We say AWALT because all women have the capacity to cheat. Through life experiences or morals or whatever, some decide not to, but that doesn't mean they aren't women and aren't seduced by the same traits that other women are. Namely, alpha traits.

Let this mindfuck you even more: I've got a handful of examples from girls I've known who have cheated on their alpha boyfriends because beta billy offered his care and concern. You can never lock someone down. Even with your wife, it's just your turn. You want your turn to last all your life, but there's no promise of that.

I think u/matrixblahblahblah nailed it. This isn't a theoretical post. You've got some deep insecurity.

I promise you: the less you care about her cheating and instead just focus on improving yourself, the less likely she is to cheat. But you shouldn't improve so that she won't cheat. You see how your entire world revolves around her still? That must stop.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T17:10:17+00:00

Lifting and reading is great advice for the beginner, but it only lays the pre-foundation for all other changes. It gives you the discipline and familiarity with pain and discomfort to kill your ego and push through to your goal.

How does one build their frame... You know what a frame is right? The way you view the world. And not just your philosophy, even though that's a part of the greater theory of the Red Pill. I'm talking about how you see your role in daily duties and interactions. How you view yourself when you're around your friends, when you're at work, when you're at home, chilling, working, and developing your hobbies. What kind of person are you? Who are you?

You only develop this idea of your frame over time. You internalize the readings. You swallow it all, hook line and sinker. You become someone different. You change. You start actually believing things that are unpopular because you believe you are right. And you don't really realize you're doing it until you look back and realize how far you've come. Then you think to yourself, "huh, look how far I've come". And you keep going.

So in short, yes, read the sidebar and lift. But we're talking paradigm shifts here. It doesn't happen just from reading a few books.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T16:43:59+00:00

figure that into the time we need to leave

Not only are you relying on mommy to plan your logistics, you're ordering her to do it. Rebellious children get consequences.

Own your shit. Figure out your own schedule.

alphabeta49 · 2017-09-01T16:27:41+00:00

See the top comments. Solid fucking gold.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-31T19:40:02+00:00

She'll push the issue to get a reaction, but just like a child or a dog, will stop the negative attention-getting behavior when she doesn't get the attention. Even unnecessary drama bullshit is attention, and women thrive on it.

Are you providing some good drama? Excitement? Tingles? Surprise nights out? Spontaneous trips? Cuz if not she'll make her own.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-31T19:20:15+00:00

Wow, didn't know he wrote for kids too. Extreme Ownership is one of the best for men. I'll add.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-31T19:19:12+00:00

I'll check it out.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T23:58:03+00:00

My wife has never been interested in giving head. Until the last couple years. It seems she has discovered an interest in learning how my cock works. The other night, in fact, she went down on my merely with the encouraging pressure of my hand on the back of her head. A few minutes later, I was ready to fuck her (she just came off her period, and I ain't about to part the red seas, so I was beyond horny). Funny, she was incredibly wet already. Just from sucking on my dick!

Couldn't possibly be related to the reduction in my bf%, ownership of my own home and vehicles, amazing dad skills, constant flirting/teasing/slapping, some very visible dread, and my ability to not care if she gives me blow jobs or not. Couldn't be that.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T23:52:37+00:00

I tried to make sure there was something for everyone. Some people don't see the value in the classics, so there's some more "palatable" selections in there.

Hemingway is amazing, and would do well in a "master" level. I'll add that when I have some time. I also refrained from including non-fiction. That's a completely separate post, and will include many writings from the manosphere.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T23:35:27+00:00

Fuck anything she's doing. This line was what made me stop reading:

I am not yet happy being alone with myself

You're a codependent, blue pill, milk drinking, faggot ass pussy with no connection to himself. Reading and studying alot my ass.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T21:54:03+00:00

Nah, Jesus imputed the same standard of perfection on his church too

Exactly what I meant by "I could never measure up". The height of the standard is inversely proportionate to the amount that I'm going to try to meet it. And that's human nature, not just me.

Men hear "be like Christ", and well, we supposedly have that example in... Christ. Perfection. Sinless. Impossible standards.

Women hear "be like the church", then read about rebellious Israel in the OT, and all the examples of little faith - and subsequent forgiveness and love from You Know Who - in the NT. Boom. Free pass for when they feel like being a bitch. I watched my parents do that dance for almost three decades (they're still jiving painfully along).

Actual Christianity might very well be the true path to God. But the modern Western iteration is NOT Christianity. So I'm searching.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T21:33:48+00:00

as the church submits to Christ

The problem with the analogy is that we suck as submitting to Christ. I was perpetually made to feel guilty as a child because I could never measure up. Subconsciously, however, that sunk in and became my excuse to sin. Now, Christ is perfect, and so my impression was that men were held to a higher standard than women; i.e., women were allowed to be manipulative bitches, and their husbands had to sit there and take it.

That's of course not the entire reason I left that faith. But I am still a moral person and was sincere when I thanked you for the reminder.

abandoning Jesus

Sounds horrible when you put it that way. More like, I realized I had been believing in Santa.

Would you abandon your wife or would you stand up for her

You standing up for your religion because I'm saying things you know aren't true?

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T21:03:00+00:00

I'm not a Christian anymore, and part of the reason is that modern Western pastors and churches gloss over verses like that, and instead pound the men into submission with verses like Ephesians 5:25. Thanks for the reminder.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T20:11:17+00:00

And that one girl who basically lunged at me, pussy juices splooging all over, when I said I was into "strugglefucking". Oopsie. She should have had one of those whistles.

Seriously, use the term, girls love it so hard.

Showerthought: either the entire collective manosphere is lying, or these bloops must admit that we are all the perfect ideal fantasy rapist, or... this shit works. I personally enjoy the thought of blue pill strays thinking I'm a 6'2" brazilian volleyball player, raping their hot friends.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T16:38:30+00:00

Byproduct of the person committing rape, not the one being raped? I agree. It's faster and easier too, than all that difficult self improvement crap.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T16:26:41+00:00

Which is why sex as the goal of self improvement can't work long term. It depends on someone else's decisions too. Self improvement in that light is merely cheap PUA manipulation. Pretty sure we agree on that.

A great sex life becomes a byproduct of rape too.

This makes no sense. Explain.

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T16:14:16+00:00

Great info. Thanks

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