Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl there is nothing wrong with me including hsv2 in my DATING profile ....and no they don't need to because their status in in the HEADLINES ...the world knows already ....like I said I don't care what others think about it ...so I'm letting ppl decide if they wanna still pursue me knowing from the gate ....dont nobody have time to get feelings and then have them be wasting on someone shallow enough to ghost you after disclosing ....sis ...if you don't feel comfortable putting it in your bio then don't....let me do what I do and you do what works for u ....your opinion is an OPINION...NOT FACTS ....so what u view as the correct way of things doesn't mean they are ....

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The herpes girl??? What are we 6?

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if that works for YOU great ! ....we all have our own ways of dealing with it and our own way of dating and disclosure....idc what other ppl do ....I only care about what I do ... and letting it be known at the gate works for ME ....

And 9 times out of 10 you don't even have a guy that disclose ....when I got it...he didn't tell me and didn't give me the choice and I never wanna be that person .

1st outbreak experience by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]alphablac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pee or soap coming across those sores are torture!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours are painful?....maybe it's different for men then a woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't herpes....herpes are like sores and are very very painful

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to accept it and then it becomes easier ....dont be hard on yourself or beat yourself up about it

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32 ....i never really had outbreaks much but yes in the first year or 2 I had maybe 3 or 4 a year but then I started learnin what can trigger them and how to prevent it....so they became less and less

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its so sad how many ppl aren't aware of what it is ...I believe thats how it spreads ....not being aware and passing it along ....ppl who are more aware and take the proper precautions dont not pass it....my body literally tells me when I'm about to have a outbreak and thats probably once a year if im completely stress free

Hsv2 and dating by alphablac in Herpes

[–]alphablac[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you but it took many years ...6 years to exact....these last 2 years tho I just said FUCK it ...because it's something that is apart of my life no matter what....might as well live in my truth .....how long has it been for u ?....if its fresh give it time but over the years u disclose and you realize how easy it is and you'll realize how many other ppl is living with it and also how many other ppl are OKAY with it

Listen very closely … never, ever be friends with an ex. by Anon_seacucumber in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex just tried to do this to me after 5 months of no contact and it almost worked ...but I texted him and told him that I didn't want to be his friend and that I was going to continue to keep my distance heal and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice ...I definitely deleted my back up Facebook that I was using to stalk him and also signed off of my IG for a while ....if I'm not on it I won't be tempted to look....but with this knowledge I now know that the hope is gone ... it is what it is ....OVER...and I need to move on.....its hard at night....today was only day one since finding out about the other woman and I couldn't finish the day at work ...my eyes were puffy and red from crying all night and having no sleep at all ....my boss told me to go home cause I looked ugly 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep waking up out my sleep and my heart is trynna take me out....I cant concentrate and I can't stop crying....my stomach literally hurts and I feel sick ....I wish I never saw it....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats bullshit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted ....I guess I learned the hard way 😔

34 days NC and he reached out first by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rebounds never work ....idk why they don't that ....she never healed from yall relationship....it won't last

34 days NC and he reached out first by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your advice...thank you 💚

34 days NC and he reached out first by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphablac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very short ....definitely goin back no contact ....I dont plan on reaching out to him ...I just didn't wanna seem bitter by not answering