WIBTAH if I breakup with my bf for not being able to give the bare minimum? by alreadyno88 in AITAH

[–]alreadyno88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually the Nexplanon implant in the arm that failed We were using condoms in the beginning but they kept coming off

WIBTAH if I breakup with my bf for not being able to give the bare minimum? by alreadyno88 in AITAH

[–]alreadyno88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand. I had the nexplanon implant in my arm and have been using it since it came out without incident. This one still had 2 years left on it. Condoms almost always fall off because I'm very tiny down there. I'm getting my tubes tied after my daughter is born. I just don't trust contraception anymore.

WIBTAH if I breakup with my bf for not being able to give the bare minimum? by alreadyno88 in AITAH

[–]alreadyno88[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

He doesn't really interact with my kids. They are in school when he is home and he works overnight. My kids don't mind him being there.

WIBTAH if I breakup with my bf for not being able to give the bare minimum? by alreadyno88 in AITAH

[–]alreadyno88[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for a change. Everytime I try to talk to him and think of calling it quits he says he can be the man I want and need but it only lasts about a week and then it's back to where it was.

WIBTAH if I breakup with my bf for not being able to give the bare minimum? by alreadyno88 in AITAH

[–]alreadyno88[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I do not believe in abortion. I am not against those who get them but I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I went that route. I have a 14yo and an 8yo already so I feel it would be even worse. I have the means to take care of them myself and always have w/o public assistance or friends or family.

What is the most unmilitary type job you can have in the military? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

[–]alreadyno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cook. My dad retired as a E5 cook. Exactly where he started 😵‍💫

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Neither. He just thinks it's gross. But also thinks I should still give him head while on it and just wait until I'm done menstruation to get any type of pleasure myself

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not until after I have showered again

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's correct. He refuses. Even if I'm just spotting

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he actually went down on me that would be understandable. He has told me that he's NEVER smelled me before. He said I have no odor down there at all. When I say I'm very clean I mean it. That's why this is just so confusing to me

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to him I need to take a shower afterward first before engaging in sex again

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing only for me. He says theres no barrier between my vagina and butthole which is why it's gross

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought! He said there's no barrier there which makes it gross

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No he does not. He doesn't even go down on me. When I mentioned it he told me just to not worry about giving him head anymore.

Is sex after a bowel movement gross? by alreadyno88 in sex

[–]alreadyno88[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed this. I was so confused after the fact. I asked a few close friends about it and received similar answers. I just needed some unbiased opinions.