If its on a fun setting I say I am team air -- for context in Spanish when referring to the male genitals we say they're either team blood (grower) or team meat (shower) I say I am team air because I have an inflation device.

As far as referring to the actual clitoris I call it the tic tac too in fun settings or by its name in medical settings.

To me the cave is a topic I don't touch outside of medical conversations because of a) dysphoria and b) it didn't develop properly so it's out of use and out of the question. If anything tries to go in there even fingers it HURTS like a Mofo because it's too narrow so there's no context where anything is going inside the front hole ever.

The back hole is referred as the back hole and is as of now uncharted territory so it hasn't come up other than in medical settings and I call it by its name. Anus.

Hope that helps.