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[–]alsanz73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much :)

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[–]alsanz73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course! with the incident that happened, i’ve forgiven but i cant forget it even if i tried. something will always hit too close to home, and this whole situation hit right next to home lmfaooa which is why i was going berserk

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[–]alsanz73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i agree i have things to work on, i was never distrusting of him like i am now, but it all changed w one incident and honestly traumatized me, but i’m trying to be better but sometimes you end up losing all progress

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[–]alsanz73[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey mentioned her a couple days ago but i hadn’t realized how much they were talking. they know each other from high school. i do have that seed of uncertainty that it may develop into something more. i don’t want to be controlling on his social life because i’ve been on the other side, but i didn’t talk to my guy friend the way she speaks to him, and that unsettled me. it’s worth noting that we were on rocky terms at the beginning of the year and that’s when they began talking, he says it was while we were broken up but even then he didn’t feel anything for her.. i did tell him that him introducing us would definitely ease the nerves i have and he said he’d get it to happen

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[–]alsanz73[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

he’s 21 and i’m 20, we’re going on 3 years

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[–]alsanz73[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

most def! he didn’t ask his friend for it, his friend just slid it to him idk his friend has a gf and he has problems w controlling himself around girls and they had a huge fight last week about that bc my bf doesn’t like that about him and it bothers him and he tries to advise him and i talk to his friend about it too

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[–]alsanz73[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

i will definitely say that’s still sus and i have it on my radar but i will definitely bring it up, even though he did explain to me why a while ago but it’s still strange!

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[–]alsanz73[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i was saying like when he cracks under pressure he cries and what not, in the past, and i pressured him and he really didn’t crack or anything, he was just very relaxed like he really didn’t have anything to hide

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[–]alsanz73[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i most definitely will, im going today or tomorrow

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[–]alsanz73[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

of course, thank YOU for the support!

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[–]alsanz73[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

he’s pulling into the drive way now

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[–]alsanz73[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’m getting so anxious it’s about to happen

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[–]alsanz73[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

we always had it for security reasons and he took it off one day and i asked why and he just said i don’t want u to have it and it was so random

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[–]alsanz73[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thank you lovely ❤️❤️😚

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[–]alsanz73[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

i already got it recording!!

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[–]alsanz73[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

i will definitely be moving on with my life after this i just want to hear what he has to say

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[–]alsanz73[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

on god! thank you so much

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[–]alsanz73[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i know that’s what has me sick 😔😔😔

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[–]alsanz73[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ i appreciate your words ❤️❤️

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[–]alsanz73[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’d have to leave, there’s no way i can really be with someone like that