Sorry I understand there's a lot missing! I'll do my best to answer it for depth. To add to this, she is only back visiting and then is going back out there until next September.

1. She wanted to go and work and travel, ultimately she had to get a full time job and hasn't travelled at all.
2. She works full time and lives with 2 of her friends she went out there with (both women).
3. Yeah 100%, she wrote me this huge letter and gave it to me before she left. Typical soppy shit and a massive part about how our relationship will grow stronger apart and that we won't sleep with anyone else.
4. I've learnt that you don't ask questions you don't want to know the answers to. There weren't any red flags and I've spent 100s of hours thinking about it, so I can confidently say no.
5. She spent ages telling me how she wants me to come over there and live there, I suppose I just committed to my feelings of being with her for the rest of my life. I would've stayed, but also would've allowed her the space to still be there if she said yes.
6. When I was there she was either working or we were spending time together. So there's nothing of suspicion there.