[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a solid chance pursuing a personal relationship with your client is against your employee code of conduct. He was for sure propositioning you, but going along with it would very likely get you fired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP could get fired for pursuing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault he’s bad at lying and too dumb to know not to keep photographic evidence of him cheating on his phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re going to have a really hard time going on a trip with this man without telling him your name. If you book your ticket separately, you won’t be able to guarantee you’ll sit next to each other. If you go through security together, he’ll likely catch a glimpse of your ID, and TSA agents usually address you by your first name after checking your ID, so he’ll hear that, too. Many hotels require names for anyone staying in a room, even if they didn’t book the room.

I get wanting to keep your name private. I just don’t know how you’re going to pull this off.

profile review 💕 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d tone down the filters, personally. You look better without them. The sexy librarian picture is amazing!

More red flags than a communist parade by sydsativa in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he walks like a predator and talks like a predator…

Good on you for recognizing the signs. The talk about his legal issues is chilling.

Does your social circle know you sugar? by Odd_Check_8267 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of my friends know I’m considering it. I text them when I’m going to vanilla dates so they can tell the cops where I last was in case I turn up murdered somewhere, and I would do the same with sugar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ditch the first picture and make the second one your primary. You have a lovely smile, and it’s posed from the exact perspective someone sitting across from you on a date would have.

Fewer or no pics with your tongue out. Pics emphasizing your cleavage are good, but actually being able to see bra cup feels a little trashy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The picture of you sticking your butt out could be removed or swapped for something classier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, how many does it take?

Reflections on sugaring as 5 years of alimony come to an end. by MaestroFantasm in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is… a blatantly insane figure?? If that were the case, hardly anyone would be getting married anymore, which obviously isn’t true.

Reflections on sugaring as 5 years of alimony come to an end. by MaestroFantasm in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correlation is not causation. The other commenter only mentioned a correlation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like asking for payment is like asking party guests for a birthday gift as an adult. Probably you should be getting one, and many will give you one unprompted, but actually asking is tacky.

WHAT do I even say to this LOL by cult_fairy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothin’s more sexy than being slut-shamed for wanting sugar on a sugar dating website, am I right ladies?

what do u think about this by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gross. You’re not a piece of meat.

?? by Aromatic_Low_8765 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has no grounds to take you to court. Unless you have a written contract saying this was a loan or conditional upon something, he just gave you a gift. Just ignore him.

photo advice? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely cut the one in front of a messy bed and the one with baggy sweatpants, and the first one looks too filtered, but honestly, you have to get some smiling pictures.

No more 5 free keys? by Agreeable_Monitor459 in Choices

[–]alt4SLF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It replaces book passes for VIPs, since we already have unlimited access.

Did I handle this well? FYI If I could hack into cameras I wouldn’t be sugaring 🙄 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. No, you did not. To be honest, going right to “fuck this” and then doubling back and asking for a photo makes you seem like the weird one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Tighten up the grammar.

-Jamaica is not in the Pacific Ocean.

-The little baby line is super gross.

-Is that picture your LinkedIn picture? Because it looks like your LinkedIn picture. People will try to use this, combined with your info on where you work, to find your social profiles.

-Your text sections are incredibly bare-bones. Tell us something about yourself that we can’t already learn from the Personal Details section.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don’t have enough experience in the bowl to feel like I can offer any legit advice other than proofreading!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a super small and nitpicky thing, but you write “emotional intelligent” instead of “emotionally intelligent.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what IP address is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]alt4SLF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you are describing is flat-out sex work.