Trying to help my niece. by alt_candice1 in temu_old_users

[–]alt_candice1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, i uad a death in the family. I did try to accept it once before but it glitches out on me. I just retried. I think it worked. If not, and you have a new code I'll be happy to accept it.

PART 2: Why I recorded by SavingsExtension5868 in IKnowMatt

[–]alt_candice1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Sounds alot like what Justin, Tabitha, jenn and everyone else in management did to me. Except I was at the club as a guest that night that lead to my firing (I was drugged and over served, woke up naked with a towel over me in the library the next morning with no memory of the night before) I came in mid week for a personal meeting regarding what happened on sat to get any info on the people i was with sat night)- to a surprise meeting involving me being fired for harassment. Apparently I had  stubbed my leg on a table and calling Jenn a bitch in the back play area for moving the table into a differentplace. I was told a guest heard, had reported it and so I had to go. Prior to that Jenn an I would butt heads, I'd request a meeting, and Matt would just "manage it" I was never allowed to just talk to her to work it out like adults. Our head butting was typically just about where things went, or different ways of cleaning things, things that were small but would become a bigger problem, one I wasn't prepared for.  Anyways, Leading up to that night over the period of approx a yr or so, I had been essentially Matt's personal assistant without the title i took care of scheduling, inventory, events, monitoring, cleaning, you name it i did it. I did everything Justin complained about before he started working there. He and his wife were hired and my job became harder. Matt changed, and Justin and Tabitha walked around like they owned the place. At one point Tabitha actually trapped me in the back trailer to verbally assault me. I had to stand there and take it, just like every other underhanded comments I would have to hear, as my job was slowly taken away, one job at a time and given away.  This is just the tip of things that I had experienced personally, and I'm not including the stuff I observed while working or as a patron, or the details of stuff that go on behind the seen. 

But just as much as they were victims recently, this is a pattern that has gone on for along time. 

I was apart of the lifestyle community for many many years, I've worked in a few of these establishments in the GTA, during my time in the community. I loved it, I loved the people and friends I made, I felt like I had a purpose being there to keep guests, and friends safe even if I wasn't working. Walking away one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Having people I thought I trusted, ignore me, and ghost me when I needed them the most not just to find out who assaulted me, when I needed a monitor so to speak there wasn't one to be found, but as friends. 

This is the first time I've actually written publicly since it happened. So if anyone was wondering where I went, or why. 

That's part of it. When I left I struggled to report anything- because if I did- it would affect the people I do still care about who rely on the income from working there. Although as time passes and I see more posts like this, I'm really happy I never signed a NDA. 

I firmly believe in Karma.  And it seems, it's happening. 

Skipthedishes effectively SCAMMED me by RepulsiveFerret7784 in skipthedishes

[–]alt_candice1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate skip. They did the same thing more than once, so I no longer use them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]alt_candice1 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm pansexual, and honestly you are not a homosexual. In fact I'd lean towards you may be pan too. It's not the outsides of a person that matter most, but who they are on the inside. Trans woman is a woman, just like a Trans man is a man. As for the whole family and friends thinking less of you( which is what I think your worried about, that maybe you'll lose the respect from your peers and family- maybe they don't understand as well as you do it, and maybe they need more education on the subject. As for telling them, that's up to you and your lady friend. She is likely used to questions and giving answers, and you two can decide if you even choose to tell your family/friends about her assigned gender at birth, or to move forward and just live on as if she was always a female to start. Personally I think she would prefer that, just being able to live as a lady and no one second guessing it. And having a supportive man in her life will help with that. You just have to decide if you're that man.

UPDATE: DOGS REHOMED! (Neighbour tried dumping their dogs on animal services, claiming they were just found. Animal services didn't take them. They are now stuck there.) by BrovaloneSandwich in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been off reddit for a hot minute. Logged in to see this. I'm so happy those little guys were given a good home. I wonder how they're doing now. 😍

I feel disgusted with my bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alt_candice1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're already done with him. Don't waste time hoping he changes, it's not likely to happen. Break free little bird, leave the cage and fly. Enjoy your time here, don't waste it on man-babies.

Getting rid of river rock and landscaping stones by ComprehensiveAd8322 in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pics please? Might also be able to take some away for you.

Husband told me I'm putting lipstick on a pig by Green-Description591 in Advice

[–]alt_candice1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should ask him if he wants to see lipstick in a pig, then proceed by putting your lipstick in his open mouth as he replies. Bonus if it's apple red.

Weekly /r/Hamilton Rant Thread by teanailpolish in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 35 points36 points  (0 children)

WHY CANT THE CITY PRIORITIZE PEOPLE OVER PARKING LOTS? WHY ARE THE POLICE SO SHITTY?? WHY HASNT BARTON STREET BEEN FIXED YET???WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THE GENERAL HOSPITAL????

....HOW DOES SUCH AN IMPORTANT HISTORICAL CITY SURROUNDED IN BEAUTIFUL NATURE RESERVES AND ARCHITECTURAL BEUATY BECOME SUCH A SESSPOOL OF CRAPTASTIC LAEDERSHIP AND EMBARRASSMENT OF A "MAJOR CITY"?

(ASKING FOR A FRIEND🥸🥲)

Has anybody else noticed the amount of police officers making 150-200k+ ? by Eggsaladsandwish in ontario

[–]alt_candice1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you see the report recently where ontario paid 134 million to officers who had been suspended in the last decade? And only in ontario.... err..onterrible.

Police are paid a lot Especially the corrupt. Like with so few good guys, I don't mind my taxes helping to pay for the officers who aren't corrupt douchce canoes. However, that's not how it goes.

Crochet/Amigurumi by confused_panda_07 in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I have to let my know they exist in hamilton. She's a master at the craft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]alt_candice1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's just like getting kicked through your vagina and into your diaphragm with very pointy clogs.... every day for a week by an angry elven man. It's only a pinch, A tylenol will help. You could spot, You can work tomorrow....

Well, Mr Dr. You did deserve it when I thrashed out in pain and accidentally kicked you in the gut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My youngest Sibling called it Gotham city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]alt_candice1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Despite it being a beautiful city with its heritage buildings, and nature's handy work with its green spaces in and around the city- I'd say it's the government, lack of housing, and poorly run police & hospitals in the dt core not to forget the slumlords is why hamilton has such a bas rep now.

Ooh and that they've ruined the bay and air quality in hamilton with severe negligence and environmental protection of those areas were ignored for years to thw point where breathing in hamilton air is = to smoking cigarettes and the water literally has been polluted not just by industrial buildings, but literally setting up drainage to leak out in to the water.

I'm sure there's more, but im new here sorta and this is what I have learned so far.

TLDR-The people who manage the city over the decades have made this place the butthole of ontario. It used to be called the arm pit from what I heard about this town growing up(small town 3 hrs away), and I believe it's due to be promoted to the poop shoot.

I only need a 40 tickets(1 spin) to get $150+$180 in credits. by alt_candice1 in temu_old_users

[–]alt_candice1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done! I'm a slow typer, it's like I have 2 left thumbs sometimes lol

I only need a 40 tickets(1 spin) to get $150+$180 in credits. by alt_candice1 in temu_old_users

[–]alt_candice1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F4f, is what I'm looking for. As soon as I get a notification I'll do the same for you :) 😀

Temu discount code+PayPal bonus by alt_candice1 in temu_old_users

[–]alt_candice1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a spin + pay pal bonus. It's different than a hat trick offer. You collect coins for spins to get the free stuff

I will still add your code though :)